I had a quarrel with my boyfriend, what is the best thing to do, please me, thank you

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If it's not worth arguing, don't be noisy. If it's worth arguing, there's no need to quarrel and break up directly. Quarreling is a very meaningless thing, two people should tolerate each other more, weigh each other, find each other's advantages more, and accommodate each other's small mistakes, this is the way to get along.

    People get along with each other because they have feelings, not because they want to make trouble for each other. Love is not equal to who spoils whom, but two people's efforts to each other, men have inherent responsibilities of men, women also have women's responsibilities, whether it is feelings or careers, this kind of responsibility can not be shirked. If you think that you want to quarrel about something, ask yourself first, his mistake is not to your bottom line, if not, there is no need to argue, just tell him that you care a lot.

    If it comes, it's good to break up, and there is no need to make a big fuss until the bad words are relatively parting.

    However, since there is a quarrel, it is not necessary to explain or go through a ceremony of forgiving each other and getting back together, maybe when he comes back, you will end this topic with a passionate kiss. So all you have to do now is do nothing and calmly think about what to do with the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you're wrong, don't be afraid to be embarrassed and apologize. If he's wrong, wait for him to apologize. Don't accommodate him for the sake of loving him, men are easily spoiled.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Quarrels between couples are commonplace, it's not a big deal, the key is not too much. After the girl's quarrel, be obedient, be coquettish, it's over, it's nothing, reconcile as soon as possible!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I had a fight with my boyfriend, and it was usually him who apologized, hehe, this is an agreement between us! You can try to be coquettish with him, but don't be too accommodating to your boyfriend, it's easy to spoil.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't know if you're in a relationship or a debate? You can't quarrel well, you can't quarrel well, hang up if you don't agree, and block it. What about elementary school students?

    Since the two of them don't understand each other like this, break up and keep it for the New Year. Then I will talk about my own situation. My girlfriend and I have only quarreled twice.

    Quarrel after arguing, discuss each other's thoughts well, and then talk about how to say and do next time, and how to understand each other.

    Well, now we don't quarrel anymore. When it comes to the things that happened in the past, they sent each other and teased each other, and then the hahahaha quarrel was just temporary, and you should see who the other party was from the things that happened after the quarrel, and then see who you are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    , say more nice words to him or give him a small gift, and your boyfriend will forgive you and reconcile with you at this time.

    In fact, the quarrel between men and women is more like venting, releasing the current bad emotions and seeking to release themselves in the backlog of contradictions. So if you can face up to the importance of arguments in the relationship, know what you are fighting about, and then solve the problem in an effective and mutually acceptable way, you will definitely gain a lot from the quarrel.

    After a fight, the best time to communicate is within 24 hours. Because most people will be full of negativity in their hearts after 3 hours of arguing. After 3 hours, your mood will slowly calm down, and there will be a downward trend every hour.

    After 24 hours, after a long time, you will start to look at yourself and recognize your mistakes, so this is the time for you to communicate seriously.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Quarrels between men and women, quarrels in life are essential, in fact, the most important thing for two people to get along is love and sincerity, two young people fall in love with each other, most of them are because they like, not because they will compromise, and they are loving each other. Since you ask such a question, it means that you don't want to lose the relationship yet. In fact, it is not so important who takes the initiative first.

    None of us are perfect people. If you take the initiative to care about and change, he can also feel it, and the corresponding problems will slowly change. So how do we reconcile and solve the problem?

    1. Think about what your boyfriend likes to eat.

    Everyone has their own eating preferences and foods they like to eat. If your boyfriend likes to eat baked sweet potatoes, go out on the street and buy two, put them in your pocket, and give them to him. If your boyfriend likes to eat braised pork ribs, buy two catties and send them over.

    If you don't want to go, ask the courier brother to help you send it over.

    2. Explain the reason for the quarrel.

    If it's because you're wrong, send a text message to explain the matter and apologize sincerely. If your boyfriend is wrong, you can find a solution and teach him how to do it. Show his attitude, as long as he corrects it, he will no longer care. The human heart is flesh and blood, and he will be touched by you.

    3. You can use the power of good friends.

    If you don't want to lose your boyfriend, you can talk to a good friend you trust about the situation and ask him to help you communicate. The three of them ate together and traveled to the surrounding area together. With good friends around, the atmosphere will be a little more relaxed.

    Fourth, with the help of parents.

    Girls, for love, be bold and take the initiative. Don't wait to lose it and regret it! As the saying goes:

    Xiao Bisheng is newly married, and the same is true for falling in love, two people have a little trouble, and after calming down, whether it is a man or a woman, whoever says sorry to whom first, everything will disappear. There is no need to ask the man to apologize to the woman first. There is nothing that two people do not quarrel when they are together, as long as two people truly love each other.

    It's normal to have a little conflict, but don't have a cold war, after a long time, the feelings will fade.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, you can treat him to a meal and then call some friends.

    Questions. Now we're together.

    Let's talk together, maybe it's fine.

    Questions. It's my fault in itself.

    It's already been talked about.

    Then you tell him, I'm sorry, I'm not right this time.

    Questions. They are all angry and say that they broke up, and then they should forgive you.

    Questions. I want to reconcile tonight.

    I'm afraid he won't forgive me.

    It should be impulsive, it depends on your attitude?

    Be meek, smiling, and sincere.

    Be meek, smiling, and sincere.

    What's wrong with him? You can't be angry.

    Tell him not next time.

    You try to see how he reacts, and then contact me if you have any questions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's your mistake, you can apologize first and give it a try, and when the other party is a little deflated, send the dessert you made and hang out together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think two people should calm down first and then think about it from each other's point of view. Each other has to give each other a step, and the girl can cook a meal for the boy, and it will naturally be reconciled.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After a quarrel, I can wait for your boyfriend to apologize to you, and if the other party doesn't react, I should take the initiative to apologize to him, saying that I was wrong, and showing my attitude of admitting my mistake.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and don't be unreasonable with your boyfriend, you must be reasonable, and you must think from the other party's point of view.

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