Can you raise three children?

Yes, if possible.

Affordable, in fact, it will pass quickly, and it may be hard at first.

It's okay if the three children weren't born in the same year.

If the family conditions are OK, yes.

It should be a very wealthy family, and this family should have entered a better life than a well-off family, so it can afford to raise three children.

The income is relatively high, and the three children can be well cultivated, and the relatively wealthy family can solve the children's life and study, and can provide the children with good living conditions.

It is a family with a better economic situation, because such a family can have a good economic foundation to raise their children.

There must be some financial ability. can afford to raise three children. Some people are not particularly financially able, so they will not have three children.

Whether it's a boy or a girl, the three are really not too stressful, especially when it comes to the stage of going to school, if the family conditions are average, it's really a lot of pressure. Tutoring, tutoring, and improvements to living conditions, including unpredictable expenses, are not small expenses.

And the family conditions are not good, which is also a very bad thing for the baby's future education. Especially now that housing prices are quite high, people basically have a headache when they talk about children. The conditions are not too good, and if you have to give birth, it is very likely that you will end up with a bitter child.

Limited resources, after being dispersed by the children, everyone gets very limited.

No matter what others say, the filial piety of raising children is the business of the parents themselves, and no one else can replace it. As long as parents can take on the responsibility of parents and are willing to be responsible for their children, they can also give birth.

Couples who want to have children also need to do a good job in the psychological counseling of the first and second children, and the purpose of giving birth to a baby is to make the family more warm. But today's children, because there are many people who are pampered, may take themselves as the center, and are unwilling to accept another child to share the favor of their parents, so they know that their parents will have a baby, if they can't understand, the child is prone to psychological problems.

1. The three-child policy will be officially implemented from May 31, 2021, and on July 20, the Communist Party of China issued the "Decision on Optimizing the Birth Policy to Promote the Long-term Balanced Development of the Population" (hereinafter referred to as the "Decision"). From birth to raising, focusing on women's production, children's education, housing support and other aspects, the "Decision" puts forward 10 specific supporting measures. On July 21, the State Council Information Office held a press conference to introduce the relevant situation.

Yu Xuejun, deputy director of the National Health Commission, said: "The implementation of the three-child policy and supporting measures is to further adapt to the changes in the new situation of population development and promote high-quality development. ”

2. Reduce costs: study and formulate preferential policies for house purchases. Reducing the cost of childbirth is the key to optimizing the implementation of the fertility policy, and it is also the main content of the "Decision".

3. "The high cost of raising children is indeed a very important reason why couples decide not to have any more children. Therefore, while implementing the policy that a couple can have three children, the "Decision" also cancels restrictive measures such as social maintenance fees, cleans up and abolishes relevant penalty provisions, and also implements support measures for active childbirth, which is actually a set of combined policies. Yu Xuejun said.

4. In the "Decision", the social maintenance fee and related penalty provisions are abolished. Comprehensively decouple household registration, school enrollment, and employment from personal fertility status, and properly handle issues left over from history in accordance with laws and regulations.

5. In terms of "having a place to live", when allocating public rental housing, local governments can give appropriate care to families who meet the local housing security conditions and have minor children in terms of house type selection according to the number of minor children; Localities** can study and formulate preferential policies for the implementation of differentiated leasing and purchasing houses according to the burden of raising minor children.

No. Netizens have prepared notices: I don't want to give birth at all, one is enough to worry about, and if you give birth to three children, do your whole family want to drink the northwest wind?

Some netizens even directly gave specific suggestions: 1 million rewards for giving birth to a child, 2 million rewards for giving birth to a second child, 3 million rewards for giving birth to a third child, a direct reward house for giving birth to 4-5 children, plus free fees for children from kindergarten to high school.

If it is just an ordinary community kindergarten, and the junior high school and high school are all public, then the tuition fee is naturally acceptable. But now there are nine years of compulsory education from elementary school to junior high school, and all you need to pay is the cost of kindergarten and high school.

So, the problem is not at all in these costs, after all, raising a child is not just about this small part of the tuition fee.

Even if you completely let go of childbearing, and give birth to three or four children at will, you must always start with one child and two children.

And the biggest problem now is not the lack of people who have three or four children, but in today's environment of "late marriage and late childbearing", many people don't even want to have one child, how to talk about three and four children?

Therefore, if you want people to have more children, you must first do a good job in the service of the first child, and you should give subsidies to subsidies, and provide educational assistance when you should provide educational assistance.

First of all, the expenditure on raising children in terms of education expenses ranks first without suspense, and it is the one with the most investment in raising children, which occupies a large proportion of the cost of raising children.

If this large fee is canceled, for parents, a large part of the cost of raising a baby will be reduced.

Just imagine, if a child from kindergarten to university, all the cost of education expenses are contracted by the state, then for most children from ordinary families, their growth will be guaranteed.

Therefore, only if the parents of the first child feel that raising a child is not a very uncomfortable thing, easy to give birth, easy to raise, and can afford to raise, then naturally more people will be willing to try to have more.

It is not difficult to have a child, but how to raise a child until he graduates from college is the most difficult, and it takes a huge cost to pay for more than 20 years.

Generally speaking, families who are able to have three children should meet the following requirements:

1.Economic strength: There is a certain economic strength that can provide children with a good living environment, a sense of security and development opportunities;

2.Psychological condition: The family has a good psychological condition, and will give the child sufficient care and a sense of security after birth;

3.Family members: Harmony between men and women, mutual respect, and strong sense of parental responsibility;

4.Parenting experience: Have a perfect child-rearing experience and have good parenting habits;

5.Social conditions: the family has the ability to receive professional help for the child in a timely manner, and the child has an environment full of love and omen;

6.External conditions: There are reasonable subsidy policies, such as cherry blossom accompaniment during the birth period and subsequent medical treatment and parenting subsidies.

Therefore, the family having three children is not only concerned about the subsidy, but more importantly, it is necessary to pay attention to family factors, and only those who meet the above conditions can have three children.

According to the policy issued by the relevant Chinese state authorities, from May 31, 2021, restrictions will be lifted nationwide, and both husband and wife can apply to have three children if they are only children. However, in addition to the policy changes, there are many other factors that need to be taken into account when deciding whether a family dares to have three children.

First of all, whether or not you dare to have three children depends on the family's financial strength and living conditions. If a family is financially well-off and has enough financial means to cover the expenses of education, medical care and other aspects of their three children, then they may be more likely to consider having three children. Conversely, if a family is not financially good enough to afford the cost of living and education for multiple children, then they may be less likely to consider having three children.

Secondly, whether or not to have three children also depends on the family's expectations and attitudes towards the number of family members. Some families may want to have more children, believing that this can increase the family's happiness and satisfaction. Other families are more inclined to have only one or two children, and pay more attention to the quality and quality of life of the family.

In addition to this, the grant may also be one of the factors that some families consider having three children early, but it is not necessarily the most important factor. In terms of policy subsidies, the subsidy standards may vary from place to place, and the specific subsidy needs to be determined according to local policies. However, for some families, policy grants may not be enough to cover all the expenses needed to have three children, so they may focus more on other factors.