Should I tell my own affairs and inventory on a blind date?

Both sides of the <> blind date are in order to quickly find the lover of their lives, and they both hope to enhance the relationship between the two people by quickly understanding both parties.

I feel that you still tell all your stories according to the progress of your relationship, but don't confide in each other all your circumstances at the beginning, after all, you don't know if the other party is the love of your life, to say a bad word, the success rate of blind dates is high, but there are also cases of unsuccessful blind dates, you just put together all your own, so that the other party understands all of you, then whether the other party is a trustworthy person is also doubtful, now there are too many blind dates on the Internet, I know a story, There is a male doctor, I met a girl through a blind date, and I was cheated of 7400 yuan within 7 days, the doctor's IQ is not low, why are you still deceived, that is, you don't know that the other party is hidden behind your trust**. And after he was deceived, ** often chatted with him, showed his tricks to deceive people, often showed off his monthly income to him, and won affection, saying Do you think I want to do this business? It felt like she had been wronged a lot.

There are too many online blind dates like this, and in many cases, you can tell your situation together, and the other party's affairs**, then you will be miserable. So personally, I think it's better to get out of your own situation as appropriate.

After ruling out the ** situation, you still have to think carefully about your blind date strategy, whether to put it together by yourself, or to conceal some situations, because sometimes there are some situations that you should be responsible for, and you should not tell the other party to bear the burden with you, causing psychological pressure and harm to the other party. The situation of Andy in Ode to Joy some time ago is an obvious example, and the failure of the first relationship is because his inner fluctuations are too strong, which causes a lot of mental pressure on the other party. The same situation in the second relationship has different results, which fully shows that there are some things you can't tell the other person.

Whether it is put together, or yes.

According to your blind date, when you think that the other party has the ability to accept something, you can explain to the other party, for example, the other party is very open-minded, you can tell the other party how many partners you have, the other party is very conservative, you should hide your previous relationship experience, because you tell him that the other party will have a pimple in his heart, sometimes time will be **, sometimes time is **, not necessarily that day you have a conflict will be taken out to hurt you.

So I think you can talk about the general family situation, you can talk about how you deal with people, when it comes to personal assets and emotional experiences, you should talk about it according to the specific situation, and I wish you happiness.

I don't think it's necessary to talk about it. Although blind dates need to be treated with sincerity, they are not going to confess to the other party, and besides, people are just looking to see if they can match their eyes, and they don't have to check your household registration.

In short, the problem should be to the point, don't talk nonsense, people think that you are a chatter, and there are many people who fail to give up decisively because they are chattering.

You can say whatever people ask you, but you also have to learn to be smart, there are secrets between husband and wife, not to mention that you have to tell all your things to a blind date who is not familiar with you.

Maybe you think that treating each other with honesty is more complex etiquette, but do you think that honesty can win the favor of others? Of course not, being too honest will just be perceived as honest by most people, and it may end in failure.

I've seen how I told my ex-girlfriend to go on a blind date and told her not to come to her again. The boy felt that the past feelings were over, and there was no need to have any more entanglements, let alone bury them in his heart as a secret.

He thought that girls were interested in male exs, so he told everything they had experienced.

He even said that he used to think she was pitiful, broke a rib when he was a child, and still looks terrible, and said that he was a conservative boy, and that in order to protect his ex-girlfriend from harm, the two had never lived together.

He thought that the girl on the blind date would think that he was sincere and knew how to take care of his girlfriend, so that the other party could build confidence in himself.

didn't think about it, the blind date girl thought that he couldn't do without his ex-girlfriend for every word, Ken Ben just didn't give up on others, so don't bother her with such a deep love, and the family parted ways for two hours.

So what you think can't be what you think, for example, when people ask about your ability, the general direction is okay, dress appropriately, and behave appropriately is the best way to leave a good impression on the other party.

Although it is said that blind dates can't deceive people, it is quite necessary to learn to express themselves intelligently, don't end up doing bad things with good intentions, digging a pit for yourself to jump, and miraculously burying yourself.

This should be gradual, take your time, say everything about you one by one, now maybe he can understand your difficulties, he can share your happiness, he is willing to endure your imperfections, but if you talk about this at the beginning, he may reject the possibility of being with you because of one of your flaws.