I don t know what s going on in my home, I m so uncomfortable 5

No matter how old you are now, you have to understand a truth, the world has never lacked weak people and will not sympathize with tears, maybe you think that you should not bear everything now, now you should be a budding flower under the care of your parents, but the fact is that they are too busy to take care of themselves, so you can only be a small tree, you can only continue to grow upward to draw sunshine, if you are immersed in sadness or even give up on yourself, then you will be drowned by all kinds of weeds and blocked by those big trees and never see the light, Therefore, you should first do a good job in your studies, which is what you should do and are most likely to do well. Second, let your mind and will continue to grow strong enough to face more difficulties. Third, do your best to help your mother, such as your good grades, your sensibility, such as when your parents don't cook at 3 o'clock, you even cook the simplest porridge to call them to eat.

Fourth, make yourself happy, no matter how difficult it is, don't lose the ability to be happy, why don't teachers and friends like you anymore? Because you don't have a place for them to appreciate, you don't have positive energy for them. Maybe life deprives you of a lot of the fun of childhood, but it allows you to experience the growth in advance, so remember that the more no one loves, the more you have to love yourself, the more you have to live a wonderful life, come on!

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and marital relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

You have been wronged, it is not your fault that you were born in such a family, you have to be brave, be strong, take on more, and you will be better and more mature than your peers in the future.

You have to try to be a good child who is sensible, so that your parents will feel relieved when they see you so good, and the grievances between them will be resolved.

You have to be strong, the world is still beautiful ... Be optimistic.

Life will not give us tribulations in vain. It will always teach you something. It makes you stronger, braver, and more comfortable to handle all kinds of things.

Facing life depends on your attitude towards it. If you're just in pain to cope. You will be trapped in the whirlpool of life.

And can't extricate themselves. Because you are tired of your life, your career will also be affected. Why not think about it from a different perspective?

Parents need you. Dependent on you. There are also parents who can be filial.

It is also a kind of happiness. You just have to make yourself strong. Use life as a whetstone to hone yourself.

Empower yourself to navigate life. Facing life positively. Adjust your mindset.

Face each day with a smile. Good work. Live hard.

You have to believe that nothing is in vain. It will all motivate you to grow. Grow your knowledge and courage.

It's you who control life. Or are you crushed by life? If you are smart, you will be able to give the right answer.

You're the pride of your parents!!

You've almost become a remake of the main character of the TV series "It's All Good". It's just that you're not rich enough yet.

For selfish parents, you can still help. If you really can't help or can't help, you can only flatly refuse.

The only way out for you now is to go to the field in the name of work (or to be sent by the unit to help with the work, etc.).

Don't talk about starting a family in a foreign country, including not telling your parents. But every day you complain to your parents and ask them to keep your room at home, saying that you may quit your job recently and look for a job when you return home.

When you are really rich, you will be more able to help your parents.

Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, filial piety to parents, good to parents, we filial piety to parents is also in the accumulation of virtue for ourselves, to learn to be patient, to be a good person, all adversity will always pass, recommend the "Heart Sutra" can be often recited, Nan has no merit to get Buddha.

It is recommended that you go out and rent a house to live in.

Unfortunate families have their own misfortunes

Are you a boy or a girl?

Living in a different environment, away from your parents, will make you feel better and more mental.

There will be a lot of unsatisfactory things in life.

If not, move out of your home and rent a small room.

The best thing to do is.

Find a good man to marry.

Leave this home forever.

Go home after getting married.

Maybe it's not that much.

My advice is that if you're unhappy living with your parents, you now have a good job and can choose to live on your own. Live the life you want, but don't ignore your parents, after all, there are mothers who love you.

Judging from your appeal, you want to get rid of the repressed life you are living now. You graduated from graduate school and have a good job, which says youHave the ability to support themselves independently. Since you have never received a father's love since you were a child, you will not need this kind of fatherly love that ignores you in adulthood.

He can't give you and your mother a comfortable living environment, so why should he wronged himself, so he chose to go out and rent a house to live.

You've been admitted to graduate school, isn't this problem still easy to solve? I suspect you've read all your books in vain. You have been admitted to graduate school, which means that you are also a literate person, so is your current job okay?

Since it is more painful to live under one roof, then you can create a separate space for yourself, for example, if you work hard to buy a house for yourself, you can do it in your own house. Or you can rent a house. Living alone, you're so old, you should live alone.

I feel that your mother is too kind, why don't you divorce your father?

I'm miserable in my house, what should I do? Why is it painful? You also explain the ins and outs, then give relevant feedback, and then at home you should help the parents, then do some chores, then study more, and then help.

Then make more money yourself, and then repay more, and be filial to your parents.

Body? Or in the heart? If you feel uncomfortable, you should see a doctor, and if you feel uncomfortable, you need to have a good conversation.

It's still uncomfortable for you!! What kind of thing are you!!

Landlord, are you too fragile, how can you dare to be uncomfortable even for such a trivial matter!! Don't you think it's normal for you to be so uncomfortable!! Do you have a serious problem with your brain?

Look at you!! But I'm really going to stand up and speak now, why don't you go to the hospital quickly, you've been worrying about such a little thing all day long, are you pretending to be pooping in your brain!! The current society is very chaotic and complicated, if you are so vulnerable, if a lot of people beat you to death, can you stand it!!

Why don't you go to the hospital soon!! If you make such a small thing so uncomfortable, you will be killed when you grow up!! Others will use you as a punching bag, and they will keep venting at you, so can you still survive in society!!

The so-called advice is good for the ear, and you may not like to hear what I said, but I think it is still necessary to tell you this!!