Why are there more and more singles in some rural areas, and where are the women?

Nowadays, there are more and more young male singles in rural areas, and it is becoming more and more difficult to find a partner, for many reasons, I have summarized the following points!

First, there is an imbalance between men and women, and there are too few girls.

Due to the patriarchal thinking of the older generation, most of them like to have boys, so there are fewer girls, which causes a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women. Basically in the countryside it reaches 10:1. Therefore, there are many young people who are single and cannot find a daughter-in-law.

Clause. Second, the high bride price discourages the man.

The bride price of marrying a daughter-in-law must be indispensable, but in some places the bride price of marrying a daughter-in-law is relatively high, for rural people, the bride price of 100,000 yuan is considered high, and some women's bride price is hundreds of thousands, then this is undoubtedly a great pressure on the man, as we all know, many young people in rural areas are freelancers, so their income is not stable, and it is difficult for them to get hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, so this is also the reason why young and middle-aged men in rural areas are unmarried.

Clause. Third, rural children have low educational qualifications and limited ability.

In the countryside, many young and unmarried men in the socks and pants have relatively low educational qualifications, some only have a primary school education, some have a junior high school education, and some have a high school education.

Clause. Fourth, many people in rural areas cannot afford to buy houses and cars.

Everyone knows that now when getting married, whether it is a city person or a rural person, the requirements for marrying a daughter-in-law have become higher, many women require the man to have a car and a house, but Haopei is in the countryside, many single men can not afford to buy a house in the city, only in their hometown to build a house, some women do not dislike to marry, but some women in the city to buy a car and buy a house has become a mandatory requirement, so this is also one of the reasons why young and middle-aged men in rural areas can not get married.

It is difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner, mainly because the rural economy is relatively backward, there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and do not want to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and the peerless ratio in the cities!

Although it is said that many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the living environment in the countryside, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of hustle and bustle in Wu Hongchi's city are not conducive to life and residence.

But the countryside is a rural area after all, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", so now there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to our old traditions and habits in rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

1.The bride price is heavy, and the cost of marriage is high. Now the bride price in rural areas is rising, and the prominent problem of heavy bride price has caused many families with sons to have a headache, and now the cost of marriage in rural areas is getting higher and higher, and the starting price of bride price is generally more than 100,000 yuan, and even requires a car and a house.

This is too much of a burden for the average middle-income family to bear. Even some areas still pay attention to "three catties and three taels", "motionless", thousands of purples and thousands of reds and a little green", etc., and many marriageable young men finally gave up the idea of marriage because of the "sky-high bride price".

2.There is an imbalance between men and women. In the past, the concept of rural people was relatively feudal, and they have always had the idea of emphasizing men over women, so there were more boys in rural areas, and now there are other factors such as heavy economic burdens, and rural people do not dare to have too many children, and only need to have boys, so there are fewer girls.

As a result, there are now more young men than young women in rural areas. As a result, it is becoming more and more difficult for young people in rural areas to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

3.Life flow and changing attitudes. After the reform and opening up, China's economy has developed rapidly, and the speed of population flow has accelerated.

There has also been a change in the mindset of rural girls. Many girls who have entered the age of marriage and love choose to go out to study, work, and start a business. Many girls do not want to stay in the countryside to work as farmers when they move to the cities.

The urban living environment and quality of life have an increasingly prominent siphoning effect on rural girls. It is becoming more and more common to go out to work and form inter-provincial marriages. As a result, there are fewer rural girls.

Therefore, it has become more difficult for rural guys to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

At present, there are more and more singles in the rural areas, and if we continue to open our eyes to this trend, the rural areas will face severe social problems in the future, but some experts have pointed out that in order to solve this problem, it is necessary to give full play to the role of social organizations, and organize friendship in rural areas through marriage agencies and online information platforms, so as to increase the exchange opportunities for older men and women. Some experts also said that behind the difficulty of getting married in rural areas is the issue of economic and social development. In addition, in the process of development, it is necessary to improve public services for migrant workers and create conditions for them to establish marriages and families.