Why are more and more rural couples getting divorced?

<>My family is rural, and this phenomenon does exist, and now there are many more divorces in the village than before. Most of the marriage unions in rural areas are ordered by parents, matchmakers, and both men and women, as long as they feel okay with each other and are not particularly unacceptable, they will get married and have children at a very fast speed. Marriage in the countryside is relatively sloppy, unlike urban couples, most of whom are childhood sweethearts, or free love, and most of them can get married with deep feelings and carefully decided by both parties.

This is not the case with rural marriages. First of all, the age of marriage is generally lower, and now the problem of more men and fewer women in rural areas is especially serious, so the number of bride price is also crazy, which will lead to many girls under the age of 20, as long as the man is willing to pay the best bride price, he will hastily solve the lifelong event under the arrangement of his parents, and she herself does not have too many ideas in this process, because she is young and ignorant, and when the girl really becomes an adult, she finds that the current marriage is not what she wants. And I don't love this pillow person, so I will inevitably choose to divorce. The second is that rural boys will be relatively reckless, sometimes even involved in some domestic violence, now has long passed the era of male superiority and inferiority, the older generation in the past is mostly tolerant of domestic violence, and now girls will not, the times are advancing, people's thinking is also advancing, can not tolerate and cannot tolerate domestic violence, will definitely choose divorce.

There are also a variety of reasons, such as the disharmony of the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the difference in the culture of the husband and wife, etc., which can lead to the divorce of the husband and wife.

The increase in the divorce rate of rural couples is the wrong result of the way rural marriages are combined, and now in the 21st century free society, parents should respect the opinions of their children, and they should also have their own opinions, not blindly follow the so-called old rules to live their lives!

Nowadays, more and more rural couples are divorcing, because divorce has become a public phenomenon. Once, the divorce of rural couples will attract the criticism of many people, and the worldly vision always makes it difficult for people to take that step, even if many couples live extremely painfully, two people are on the tip of the needle, but they will also consider the eyes of the outside world and choose to live a stable life.

In fact, this does not meet the standard of people's pursuit of happiness. Happiness requires two people to work together and like each other. Once we are out of this state, we should consider the necessity of this marriage.

The main reason for preventing rural couples from divorcing is the people's livelihood and the eyes of others. Now, after more and more people are starting to take this step, divorce becomes the norm and the eyes of others no longer exist.

We should really think more about ourselves, in the consideration of life, our own perception should stand first, followed by the child, whether the other party can accept it, and the opinion of outsiders. In the past, rural people were old-fashioned in their thinking, and there was no breakthrough, and they were always imprisoned. In their opinion, divorce is a very undignified thing, and any family of parents who are short, troubled, and marital changes will become the object of conversation with you, will live in the strange sunshine of others, and will be looked down upon, which is a long-term ideological imprisonment.

caused. And with the increasing development of information, everyone has also seen the outside world through the Internet, knowing that divorce is not a disgraceful event, but the beginning of seeking freedom and a new life. So, when people who have been tormented in their marriages begin to take this step bravely, there has been a breakthrough.

In fact, this also proves that civilization is progressing, and people's thoughts are soaring, because of the rapid development and the transformation of ideas, many people are brave enough to pursue a happy life, rather than blindly swallowing their anger. In a hopeless world, the struggle is gone, and as long as you are brave, you can start a new life.

Because there are more conflicts between rural couples, they have more discord in childcare and work and life; I think the reason may be that they are not able to communicate in a timely manner, nor can they express their emotions well, and their quality is relatively low, and their education level is not high.

Because of the improvement of living standards and the increase of economic development, rural couples have inconsistent considerations for farm work; And because the education level of rural people is not particularly high, it will affect the divorce of rural couples.

The main reasons for the increase in the divorce rate in rural areas are economic problems and ideological problems, and many rural men work outside the home, and women become left-behind women, which will breed some emotional problems.

The divorce rate of small couples in rural areas is getting higher and higher, which also feels that this is affected by the current Internet culture, and now many people don't know how many pounds and taels they have when they look at the Internet short**, maybe they are a bit blunt, but the reality is like this, and when I look at the short**, I really think I am a princess. I feel that I should deserve something better, I shouldn't stay in such a small mountain village, I shouldn't live with my current other half, and I want to find a better person who lost myself. <>

After getting married, men want to say that it is good, and now the influence of Internet culture cannot be affirmed and unbearable, but men themselves are more rational and will not change their minds so easily, that is. It's one thing to see something online, it's one thing to see in real life. But women are different, I found that many women now look like short ** on the Internet, they really feel like princesses, they really feel that they are worthy of everything, sometimes you should really think about it carefully, why do you think you have anything special to stand out, better than others.

Are you particularly good-looking or have a particularly good figure? Or is it that the family is very rich and you are particularly capable, if you don't have it, do you give yourself so much confidence with your big face? <>

People should focus on reality, people tell you to be a confident woman, is to tell you not to be inferior, but not to make you proud, before you want something, take a look at yourself and see if you are worthy. What do you have in yourself that you can only want to be equal, you don't have anything, you want everything with your big face, this kind of behavior can only say that you can't hear your own weight clearly, and you don't recognize the reality at all, and the society will return to you sooner or later. At that time, when you said it, I also showed that I felt that everything was not going well.

You feel miserable and sad that you don't get what you deserve, but then you don't complain about those things with others, because you can't live by doing your own sin. <>

People must always be clear in order to know their position, what kind of position you are in, what you have, what you need, if you can't figure out these things, it can only be said that you are still not mature enough, your three views are still not stereotyped enough, and you still need to accept the beating of society. Many times, no matter how many books you read and how many stories you read, it is not as good as experiencing something yourself, and the more you experience, the more you will understand.

Because many young couples in rural areas will go to other places to work, there is a lack of effective communication, so the divorce rate of young couples in rural areas is getting higher and higher.

Because young people in rural areas now, although they live in rural areas, their thinking is no longer so traditional and backward, when they feel that their marriage is unhappy, they are no longer as worried about the eyes of others as before and dare not divorce, they will choose to divorce for their own sake, so the divorce rate will be higher and higher.

Because now rural life has changed for the better, women have improved, women's minds have changed, and they have learned to live for themselves.