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It's normal to want to fall in love in college, but it's really difficult for a boy to really meet the other half of his life. When two people are together, problems will arise as they get to know each other. So for your current state, what you want to think about is not to chase a girl, but to show your charm, some boys sing, or have the ability to often appear in front of classmates and teachers to show, etc., over time, your excellent charm will be understood by more girls, and opportunities will follow.
You can be good to girls, but you can't be good to every girl, otherwise it will look like you are casting a wide net in front of girls. The most important thing is to restrain your edge, show your charm and respect and consideration for others. The second is the problem of appearance, you will find that many beautiful girls are surrounded by more handsome boys, in fact, these are a minority, most girls choose more ability and thoughtfulness in choosing a mate.
A little bit of appearance is definitely important, and for this kind of atmosphere, good hygiene habits are a top priority.
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In today's society. It's no longer fashionable to be silent is golden, if you don't say what you think, how will everyone know, and, as long as you are a normal person, as you said, your appearance is okay, how can no one like you, if you don't take the initiative to get close to others and feel the love in life, how can others really interact with you.
Actually, I am also a more introverted person, but I understand that people who dare not express themselves will always live in their own small space.
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Since the girl in your class said that you were the first handsome guy in the class in the third year of high school, it means that you still have an advantage in appearance!
In college, it doesn't mean to be in love for the sake of being in love.
Follow the feeling. If you meet a girl who makes your heart flutter one day, be brave enough to take that step.
Remember to contact your old classmates [especially girls], maybe you will find that your love will bloom in the middle!
And there's a lot of activity...
The most important thing is to provide your own temperament, your own cultivation!
What girls like, not only the appearance, but also the inner temperament is very important!
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An ordinary handsome guy like you can't find a girlfriend, I think your love luck must depend on fate.
I think the more we look forward to something, the harder it must be to get, the more we want to give up the things that pass by your side...
So, let's see the arrival of fate! Truly face your own life, God will not treat you badly!
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None of the questions you ask have a definite answer, if you want to fall in love, take the initiative, plus your looks advantage, and you will definitely have a girlfriend soon. I think that so far, your "blankness" is probably caused by your lack of initiative, which makes the girl feel that you are far away and dare not approach you, in fact, you can use your advantages to start doing something.
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Hehe, this depends on the person, many freshmen start to talk, on their own.
Don't pay too much attention to your appearance, many girls like baby-faced boys, that's cute.
As for what kind of girl you like, it depends on your personal feelings
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Let it be, feelings can't be forced, if you have something you like, try to chase it, if you don't have it, don't worry.
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My experience is that this is your first love, so be cautious, develop when you meet the right one, don't force yourself, and don't wronged yourself.
Live a little more chic by yourself, participate in more activities, be self-motivated, sunny, and there will be a girl who is suitable for you.
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Boys like you are very sought-after, don't you know? It's a shame
Rest assured, as long as you want, there will definitely be girls who like it.
Be bold and fall in love, and don't miss the opportunity to pass by.
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Female college students generally value the physical and material aspects of male students. Besides, is it common for women to chase men? A few percent chance in 10 couples! You can't just wait for good things to come to your door automatically, and don't fight for who you blame.
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This thing can't be forced, it has to rely on fate! When fate comes, you must grasp it!
I didn't believe in this stuff before, but I realized it later!
Let it be!
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If you find something you like, confess it!! People have to mature!! Love depends on fate, but if you are not positive, you will never have fate!!
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When fate comes, you will have a sense of direction! What love can't be forced to come by, it's feeling.
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Find a girl you like to fall in love, really, you will be very happy, you must love her.
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Look at your opportunities and your efforts, nothing else.
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Such a complex problem, feelings are unique to human beings, college students are also adults, should have their own feelings, college students are rational, how many miracles have been created by love, if love is distracted, it is purely to love as the only important purpose and love, love, harmless; It needs to be guided and controlled rationally, and food cannot be wasted due to choking.
People need emotional nourishment and emotional support, is the ascetic really the only way to attain the Tao?!
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There are several very significant characteristics of college students' love, the first initiative is strong, and both parties in love are very active and sensitive, full of hope for the future, full of enthusiasm, full of youth and vitality.
Third, college students fall in love, and Qiao Lack Yuan does not regard love as the whole of his life, but in the auxiliary position, he still puts his studies in his main position.
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1.Strong autonomy.
2. Simplification of love motives.
3. Weak self-control and frustration resistance.
4. Love is immature and unstable.
5. The concept of love is open, and traditional morality is diluted.
Talking about love profile:
Falling in love is a kind of social activity, which is the process of cultivating love or the interaction between Qi and Lu on the basis of love, mainly the exchange and communication between the two parties. Generally speaking, if you are sincere in contact, support each other, make progress together, and achieve each other. The moral requirements for falling in love are mainly reflected in the following aspects:
First, respect for the equality of human beings;
second, consciously take responsibility;
Third, civilizations love each other.
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1.The shyness and introverted love of students are not good at expression, and the love of adults is the nourishment of long-term love and spiritual strength!
It seems that you don't need to think too much about the love when you were a student, just imitate the sweetness of Korean dramas, all kinds of companionship are willing to pay without complaints, chat every day until dawn, pure and beautiful, plus the young face is a symbol of all beauty, the handsome boy on the stadium, the girl reading a book with her chin in the classroom, it seems that such a simple sweetness is forever, maybe, no one at that time thought about the future.
2.As we grow older, we meet different people, the environment is changing, the world is changing, and our own needs are also changing, not only our own needs, but also the needs of our parents, and the needs of the other half. At this time, our feelings are not just the ignorant likes that can be maintained when we go to school, we may want more, or we don't think that falling in love is a very important thing, more materialistic, more realistic.
3.When I become an adult, I am clear about what I want and what kind of other half I want, and it will not be easy to fall in love with someone at first sight or have an extra sentence in my heart when facing feelings.
There are also many lucky people who can go all the way from college love to marriage, but that is only a minority after all. Few people progress together into the future, and whoever falls off the chain will be broken up, just like adult love.
Young people who have some ambition in this world will want to combine themselves with their significant other to be a chess opponent.
4.Adult love is more like a knockout game, to see if you have the ability to achieve each other's dreams.
However, the reason why love in school days is beautiful may only be because I didn't understand anything at that time, and the student days are far away from us, and the more distant things are, the better, because many details have been forgotten and some of my own hopes have been added to it.
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It's ordinary, it's ordinary, it's very **, and it's heartwarming. Everyone met the same prosperous people at the best age, and the two grew and improved each other and supervised each other. A good love is sweet, while a serious mistake in love makes the fruit of love sour.
The process of falling in love in college is much more important than the result, and it is necessary to focus on the process and enjoy the process so as not to make the result too ugly.
On a university campus, two people walk hand in hand, in the library or classroom, two people work hard together for the upcoming exam, stroll around the school and eat at the snack streets, and relax in the parks and amusement parks in the city. The two of them did a lot of beautiful things together, and it was an unforgettable memory to think about it after graduation.
There will be quarrels in love, but in the quarrel, the two can further understand each other and understand each other, so as to reduce subsequent misunderstandings.
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College students should pay attention to the following four points when falling in love:
First: Treat the pursuit of the opposite sex correctly.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, it is possible to be confessed by the opposite sex, and the result is nothing more than rejection or consent. When receiving a confession from the opposite sex, the first thing to ask is whether you have a good impression of the other person in your heart, and respond positively to the other party according to your heart, clearly refuse or agree, and don't hang the other party like fishing. If you choose to refuse tactfully, there should be a clear rejection of the other party's words in the discourse, so as not to let the other party continue to have illusions.
Second: having a good impression does not mean liking.
If you have a good impression of the person who confesses to you, it is estimated that most people will choose to agree, but such a choice is not very good. If you have a good impression of the person who confessed to you, you have to give the other person a clear time, ten days or a month, get along with each other first, if you think the two people are suitable, then agree, so that you can give the other person a potential good impression, you are not a casual person.
Third: Boys who confess to girls in public must refuse.
No matter how many people this boy has, don't say yes. First of all, confess to the girl in public, it seems to be very romantic, but in fact, the scheming is very heavy, if the girl refuses in public, then the boy will be disgraced, if the girl agrees, then she is not ready at all, or in fact, she refuses in her heart, most of the girls who agree are kind-hearted, and they are easy to be soft-hearted, but they are also more likely to suffer. In fact, think about it, in public, kissing directly, or even doing other behaviors, is no different from this kind of behavior.
If you really love each other, it's a shame, and it's also in front of the person you hug.
Fourth: Boys who are handsome and have good language skills should pay attention.
In college, such a boy does not worry about finding a girlfriend, but it is very likely that the chance of breaking up is also very high. There are a lot of boys who can speak well, but they are quite handsome, and there is definitely no shortage of girls around them, but at this time, it should be noted that girls who have just entered the university have not experienced many things, and they have not seen many people. But it doesn't mean that such a boy must be bad, but when you choose to fall in love with each other, don't agree to each other too easily, agree for a month or two months, if you think the other party is good, then agree, but during this period, you must not accept any gifts from each other, even if you go to dinner, try to pay the bill equally, otherwise when the time comes, you will have a sense of debt, even if you don't like each other, it is difficult to refuse.
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There are several very significant characteristics of college students' love, the first initiative is strong, both parties in love are very active, full of hope for the future, full of enthusiasm, full of youth and vitality.
Third, college students fall in love, not as the whole of their lives, but in the auxiliary position, they still put their studies in their main position.
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When I was in high school, my parents and teachers didn't let me fall in love, but when I got to college, I started to frantically find a partner haha. Then I'll give you some examples of love.
1.Passionate and energetic, vigorous love.
Youth is flying, both parties are proactive, enthusiastic, and hopeful for the future.
2.A trickle of love.
It's very gentle, a very warm one, like the feeling of a humble gentleman and a small family jasper in love.
3.Encourage each other, help each other's love, (I envy this pair) together to go ashore, the princess ashore fairy couple, help each other to reach the peak together.
4. There are too many quarrels and they finally break up.
Quarrels that cannot be avoided in love, but if there are too many quarrels, then you have to prepare to break up, which is good for you and him or her.
Everyone says that good love will make girls beautiful, and boys are blessed haha, we haven't experienced it. Once you feel that you have become haggard in love, stop the loss in time, and finally wish you a good love history.
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For the love in the college everyone has a different opinion, for me love lies in meeting the right person rather than just for love, so I think the love of college students should be able to promote the progress of both parties, many students when they first enter the campus, they can see pairs of couples, the heart naturally can't help but want to find an object, but first of all, love must be cautious, to carefully consider, reduce the possibility of meeting scumbags, scumbags, if you fall in love for the first time you meet this kind of shadow will leave a shadow, met a good person, Even if they are separated in the end, they will not regret the experience of the decision to be together. Secondly, you have to fight for love by yourself, socialize more in college, meet more people, how can you have an object in the dormitory all day, haha, the object is not falling from the sky, you have to find it yourself, finally, a good relationship needs to pay energy to maintain, and falling in love is a process of continuous running-in between two people!
Reminder: When looking for a partner, you must have the same and correct views, and both parties can make progress together, rather than messing together, but you must understand each other. It's also nice to study together when it's time to study, and to take a walk holding hands when you're taking a break.
1. Strong autonomy.
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Love is a dull period, in the warm feelings are, because of age you may have pressure, I can understand, I too, boyfriend is younger than me, but coquettishness is necessary, just like sugar, there is sugar to eat sweet, but it can't be too much, it will be greasy, don't expect a boy to know what you think, so take the initiative to tell him, but be sure to self-criticize, say that you have a lot of things, and then a girl is a lot of things, ask him if he minds, this is how to tell him step by step, When you are angry, what should he do when you are angry, etc., you must always tell him that you love him, ask him if he looks like you, don't force him to ask, ask coquettishly, you can't always treat him as a child, you are tired and he always thinks about his age, and he can't treat him as a father, he will not be able to stand it, work hard.
As long as you meet a good one, you can fall in love, just don't be too obsessed, and you still have to study in college, otherwise you will only regret it. Many people only know their shallowness after coming out of college, and they regret that they didn't listen to lectures well before, so they have to study in college, college is a treasure house, a treasure house of knowledge, and you must grasp yourself. Don't fall in love because of emptiness in college, I personally think that you have to meet a good person to fall in love, and it is better to meet what you like than anything else, if it is empty and lonely to fall in love, that kind of love is not very interesting, there is no feeling of happiness.