The benefits of separation, what are the benefits of separation

1.They miss each other even more.

As the saying goes, "Distance produces beauty". This statement is not unreasonable, and the separation of two places can give both spouses enough freedom and personal space. Separation allows both spouses to live independently of each other.

Because we don't meet every day, we can only communicate through the virtual space of the Internet and mobile phones, and we will miss each other, and the two sides will have a sense of freshness in the process of contact. Maintaining this state for a long time may ferment and warm up the emotions of two people.

2.The careers of both parties will be better.

At the same time, because the husband and wife are separated, they have more time and energy to devote to each other's work, and their careers may go to the next level. In addition, both parties will have more time to make friends in different fields and expand their social circles. And it can give both parties time to do some things they like to do, develop their own hobbies, and make their lives more colorful.

It has been said that "solitude is a must for growing up." "Living apart gives both parties enough time to think about their life and career plans. At the same time, it also gives both parties time to reflect on the problems existing in the process of getting along with each other, so as to better improve the way both parties get along.

3.Avoid noisy escalations.

When two people live together, contradictions and frictions are inevitable. In marriage, the old man always says that the husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, but modern young people are arrogant, quarrels, divorces, and separations occur. In order to avoid the escalation of the quarrel, the appropriate choice of separation is another euphemism of "shouting stop", which can allow the arrogant couple to avoid escalating the quarrel and becoming divorced.

4.Good for calm thinking.

When a person is angry, he can say anything hurtful, and at this time, as long as he sees the fire in each other's hearts, the less and less he will be. Therefore, when the other party does not appear in front of you, you can really calm down, think about what is right and wrong, and understand the other party's good to you in the process of thinking.

The good thing is that you can do bad things and the other person doesn't know about it. For example, if you are gay and married, then separation is a good thing for you, you can go to the man to go home, and the wife finds out, you can say that the colleague will stay for a few days.

Separation has a lot of freedom, and it is also very unrestrained, not bound by the other party, and it is relatively happy to live, but there is a little loneliness, and there are advantages and disadvantages.

There is no benefit, the divorce rate is high, and it affects harmony.

With the continuous development of society, the Internet is becoming more and more developed, the requirements of work and some special personal reasons make more and more couples and couples live separately. In the free time after work every day, I use the Internet to talk about greetings, and some will prepare air tickets and fly all the way back to my nest for reunion on the weekend. Of course, some may even take a month.

Living apart, we can only rely on the Internet to solve our thoughts. This topic sounds cruel and hard to accept, but when you think about it, it's not necessarily a bad thing.

People are always imperfect, everyone has their own temper to a greater or lesser extent. When two people are in love or have been married for many years, and every day is relative, those shortcomings will be unconsciously exposed. After a long time, they will gradually lose patience and emotions will come.

That's why there is the saying "marriage is the grave of love". Not really. What really makes love go to the grave is that if two people get along for too long, they will be themselves.

Of course, there's nothing wrong with that. Think about it, the people around you will be the ones who will accompany you for a lifetime. You have to hide this and hide that every day, just like when you first met, how tired you are.

However, two people have to look at each other every day and be jealous of each other every day. Who wouldn't be upset? Over time, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and quarrels.

Many people start to think that there is something wrong with your marriage, but it is really just your distance. When you're busy working during the day and come back at night, it's too late to think about you. There's no time to quarrel.

Moreover, even if many things are upset, it is difficult to solve them through quarrels. Even if there are some disagreements and arguments, there is plenty of time and space to put down your phone, turn off the internet, and give each other time to calm down and think. This is called 'beauty from afar'.

This is just one of the benefits of separation. The distance between the other two people will also make the other person feel free. Of course, this freedom does not mean that they can do whatever they want, it is just that they lack that kind of restraint in their hearts.

However, this should be based on mutual trust and understanding, as well as mutual respect. You shouldn't tie yourself down because of a lack of restraint. You have to love and respect each other so that this relationship is not missed and expected because of separation.

Then try to take some time to fly together and get together. As the saying goes, 'a little don't win a newlywed'. Think about it all.

If you have another seizure, you suddenly come home when your husband (wife) or boyfriend (girlfriend) can't fall asleep at home with a pillow. That kind of surprise and wordless romance will make the other party happily forget about themselves.

Think about it, isn't this kind of separation better than long days and nights, and it is easier to retain feelings? The feelings will not dilute Zhao's because of time and quarrels, but will become stronger and stronger because of those small surprises. However, you must remember to spend more time with each other for the last time, have a meal, go shopping, watch a movie, look back, and consolidate the relationship.

Sometimes physical friction is warmer than facing the internet.

Legal analysis: Long-term staging of couples may lead to a weakening of the relationship between husband and wife, and in serious cases, it may lead to divorce.

The long-term separation of husband and wife will make both parties suffer from lovesickness and easily cause dissatisfaction; Provide opportunities for third parties due to physical or psychological needs; It is easy to be suspicious of each other, and distrust affects the relationship between husband and wife.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration office in person.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1077 Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.

Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

Not good. Husband and wife working separately can easily deteriorate the relationship between each other, most people will not do this, but many people have to do this in order to live, we must make the right choice in the face of life and work.

It is better for two husbands and wives to be together, to take care of each other, and it is easy to have problems in the relationship between the two places, and it is not worth it to hinder the relationship between husband and wife for the sake of these extra wages.

Long-term separation has a great impact on the relationship and life between husband and wife, and will seriously end in divorce, if the husband and wife live in two places for a long time, then the opportunity to communicate together is bound to be less than that of couples living together.

If both parties are busy with their own work, there are even fewer opportunities for communication. This is very detrimental to the marriage of two people, the balance of two people's feelings, whether good or bad, can not be listened to in time, and both parties can not feel each other's care and love, and after a long time, the relationship will fade.

Meaning: The family lives separately.

Citation: *** "Some Opinions on Science and Education": "For those business backbones who live separately from their loved ones, give priority to moving their homes. ”

Synonyms of separation: 分家 [ fēn jiā ].

The relatives who used to live together divided the common family property and started their own families.

Citation: Guan Hua, "Qingfeng Shop" II: "Wang Degui separated from his uncle and second uncle Wang Fu as early as 20 years ago. ”

It is becoming more and more common for spouses to live apart before divorce. However, there are still many differences between the public's understanding of what "separation" is and the separation stipulated by law.

What is Separation?

Literally, separation is when two people live separately, each living their own life, and not living a conjugal sex life together. However, from a legal point of view, the elements that constitute separation are stricter, and it is generally believed that separation, also known as separation or separate bed and food system, refers to the legal system in which the obligation of cohabitation between husband and wife is dissolved in accordance with the law and the marital relationship is retained. This legal concept is more abstract, but to put it simply, the separation currently recognized by the court is due to the discord between the husband and wife, the parties do not live together with sexual life as the content, and do not perform other obligations of the husband and wife.

If you do not live together even though you do not live together because of emotional discord, but because of your place of work, or for other reasons that are not emotionally rifty, you are not separated in the legal sense.

Can living under the same roof count as separation?

At present, the vast majority of couples have only one residence, and even if the husband and wife are not in harmony, they usually can only take care of no one else, and when they sleep, they also go back to their own rooms, but they have sex.

In this case, if both parties admit that it is okay, once one party denies sleeping in separate beds, and the other party cannot provide evidence to prove the fact of sharing beds or the fact that there is no sexual life, it is difficult for the court to determine that it is separated.

Can separation automatically dissolve marriage?

Article 32 of the Marriage Law stipulates that the court shall grant a divorce after two years of separation due to emotional discord. However, filing a lawsuit is a statutory pre-procedure for the dissolution of the marriage relationship, and separation does not automatically dissolve the marriage relationship, regardless of the length of separation, the marriage relationship will not be dissolved due to the continuation of the state of separation.

Is the property in the period joint property?

Article 4 of the 1993 Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on the Handling of Property Division Issues in the Trial of Divorce Cases by the Supreme People's Court stipulates that the property acquired after marriage that is managed and used separately by the husband and wife in two separate places shall be recognized as the joint property of the husband and wife. In the event of a division, the property managed and used separately by each party shall be owned by each of them.

However, if there is a huge disparity between the property divided between the two parties, the party who has obtained the excess property shall compensate the other party with the property of the same difference. Therefore, the property acquired by the parties during the period of separation remains joint property.

How to raise children during separation?

Both spouses have an obligation to raise their children. However, during the period of separation, if one party unilaterally fulfills the obligation to raise the child, and in the event of divorce, the other party is required to compensate for the maintenance paid, which is often difficult for the court to support. Because the cost of raising a child by one party is itself the joint property of the husband and wife.

What is "husband and wife separation", and is sleeping in separate beds between husband and wife a separation?

Separation: Literally meant to live separately, which is the general interpretation.

This separation refers specifically to the separation in the marital relationship, that is, the husband and wife live separately, separate houses, separate homes, and separate places, which is the separation of living space. In addition, the husband and wife deliberately live separately in order to no longer fulfill the obligations or rights of husband and wife under the law and morality.

This is a separation that falls under the breakdown of a marital relationship.

What are the effects of long-term separation?

It is better for couples to live together, there are too many harms of separation.

Be sure to prevent it, but don't be too sensitive, communicate often, and if possible, it's best to see each other once a month. Many of the separations between the two places are due to physical needs. It's best to have a ** every day, play at different times every day, that is, if you care, don't ask about the rest.

Don't tell each other what we think. You just need to know how to do it.

Everything has its desirable side and its undesirable side.

1. Desirable side: In the short term, a short separation should be a knowing choice, especially for some couples or couples who often have awkward quarrels, it is a good way to adjust their conflicts with each other. It's helpful for their feelings.

As the saying goes, "a little don't win a newlywed", this is exactly what it says.

2. The undesirable side: From the perspective of long-term separation, long-term separation will weaken their feelings, which will lead to the breakup of couples and the breakdown of the marriage relationship between husband and wife.

In short, a reasonable short separation is conducive to the stability of the couple's relationship or the couple's relationship. Long-term separation is not conducive to the healthy development of the couple's relationship or the couple's relationship.