Do you need someone to take care of your 80 year old parents who can take care of themselves?

Updated on society 2024-06-12
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    From the actual situation, the 80-year-old can take care of himself in good health, and he does not need to go back to take care of himself when he is sober-minded, but he must often play **, contact, ask the elderly how their health is, care more, young people want to survive, work hard, and live, if the elderly are not in good health, sick, and can not take care of themselves, they will go back to take care of them, the old people have raised their own small, and the children have raised the old of the elderly, which is the responsibility and obligation of the children, and I wish the parents of the world to be healthy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parents in their eighties are still able to take care of themselves. It depends on the actual situation. If the economic conditions of the family are relatively good, you can keep someone to take care of it. After all, my parents are so old.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Next to the parents in their 80s in the cage, of course, they still need to be taken care of, which is safer, after all, they are in their 80s, and they are a little old.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do parents in their 80s who can take care of themselves need to leave a message to take care of them? Because he is over 80 years old, he is not young, and he can support a family that lives a good life, with such change, it is better to hire someone to watch it, after all, parents have been busy all their lives, and now it is time to return to their children, who wants their family to be by their side? But for the sake of life, but for the sake of life.

    They don't dare to ask for too much for the children, after all, the children still have children, this has to be a family, and they will also worry about their children, if their own family really can't squeeze out such money, then you can also give them two to put a **, give them a call every morning and evening, that is to say, a sentence or two, ask him if he has eaten? You can also let yourself know how they are doing every day, do you need someone to come back to help take care of them or if you are sick? Don't be like many old people, people have been gone for a while, and no one knows about the children, so you will feel more at ease.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's better to have someone to take care of you if you can. After all, although he is in his eighties, he can take care of himself, and he hopes that there is a person next to him who can't say that he can go independently. In other words, it is best to have someone next to you who is constantly watching the care point.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It was a matter of course! First of all, most of the elderly have poor physical fitness, and they are likely to need help with physical strength when they go out

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Can you take care of yourself, do your 80-year-old parents need to be taken care of by Liuyun? Able to take care of herself, if it is a parent, both of them build, then it's okay, if there is only one person left, someone must take care of her, otherwise there will be a problem, you will regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If they are in their 80s and can take care of themselves, none of them need to be taken care of, just tell their neighbors or relatives to pay attention.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If life is fine.

    Totally able to do it yourself.

    You can contact you often.

    There is no need to leave someone to take care of you.

    Let's see the actual situation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm over 80 years old, and I can't move anymore, so it's better to leave someone by my side to take care of me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are you trying to ask questions about the law or emotionally?

    Many people will ask their parents for their own opinions to install a monitor in the lobby for their parents' opinions. Give them free space. If you live alone, the nature is different.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Does the 80-year-old parent, who can be managed, need to be taken care of? Pang, a parent in his 80s who can take care of himself, also needs to be taken care of.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The old man is 99 years old, and her health is not good, of course the family has to leave someone to take care of her, and she can't do without people for a moment at this time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that the 99-year-old man's health is not as good as day by day, if he can take care of himself, he goes to work to support his family, and it is also a matter of involuntarily, so he can find one. The people in the family don't have to take care of her at work.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can give some money to your relatives to help take care of them. Or you take care of her at home. It's not easy for an elderly person of such an age to be at home alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is from the old age, the family must be guarded.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The health of the elderly is not as good as a day, and the family needs to keep people at this time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, although it is a very troublesome thing for the elderly to not be able to take care of themselves, after all, children have their own lives, so it is reasonable to ask for turns to take care of them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is nothing wrong with this. But as a child, if anyone has more free time, they can give a little more.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think there's anything wrong with this, after all, the old man gave birth to us, and it's our responsibility to take turns taking care of the elderly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the elderly are unable to take care of themselves, there is nothing wrong with the children asking to take turns taking care of each other, because it is the duty of the children.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think there's anything wrong with that, I think the elderly need to take turns to take care of them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then you have to take care of it carefully, be considerate and caring.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Dedicated care.

    Since they are elderly people who cannot take care of themselves at home, they should be allowed to take care of their old age, and they should be taken care of every day. Let them live out their old age in peace.

    If you have more children in the family, you can take turns to take care of them.

    If there are few children and you can't take care of them, you should hire someone to take care of them, and you should go home often.

    If they have no children, they should be taken care of by a social welfare institution.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    For the elderly who cannot take care of themselves at home, they will take care of them when they have time, and they will not have time to ask someone to take care of them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    For the elderly who cannot take care of themselves at home, they should hire a full-time nanny to take care of their diet and daily life, and take time out to take care of them after work, so as to let the elderly spend their old age in peace.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't have time to take care of it, you can choose to find a nanny or caregiver to take care of it, because the elderly are easy to get hurt when doing things, and you need to have patience and a sense of responsibility to take care of each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone has a day when they can't take care of themselves, and waiting for the elderly who can't take care of themselves and is not sober is a great test of the patience, love, and filial piety of the children! How the children treat the elderly, the children of the children will see it in their eyes and keep it in their hearts, and they will give back to the children of the elderly with the same attitude. Therefore, the current hardship and the current filial piety are all done for yourself!

    This is how to deal with the elderly who cannot take care of themselves at home, and the key point of the answer lies in!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, the elderly cannot take care of themselves, and it is really difficult to take care of them for a long time. If there are several families, everyone will take turns to take care of them for a few months. Take care of it on a monthly basis, and you can also do some of your own things in the spare months.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Our parents have raised us, and we should all take care of them, so that our parents can live a happy old age like the sunset, and our children will let the elderly have a fast old age.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because they can't take care of themselves, and they are old, first of all, the elderly can't be short of people around them, and they need to be with them at all times; secondly, pay attention to the diet, light and regular; Then change and wash frequently; Finally, it's about getting out in the sun and getting active.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think this is a big problem, and it may be very distressing for many people, because the elderly can't live and can't take care of themselves, so Uncle Ah can not only give food feeding, but also think of some other ways in other aspects, such as ah, diapers or whatever.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Be careful and patient. It is an obligation to support the elderly, and it is okay to take care of the elderly without being dirty or tired.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you are really busy and can't take care of the elderly at home, you can ask a nanny to help take care of them.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The elderly are also their own parents, they are not filial to the elderly, who will be filial, if you feel that you can't do it alone, you can ask someone to take care of the elderly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Take care of them the same way they took care of us when we were kids.

    People will eventually have an old age, and filial piety to the elderly is a traditional Chinese virtue, which should also be passed on endlessly. If there are many elderly people and children in the family, take turns to take care of them, and if they are themselves, take good care of themselves. Please believe that filial piety to the elderly is rewarded.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This kind of old man must be treated patiently, and he can't be impatient with her because of his inconvenience, which will chill the old man's heart.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    As children have the obligation to support, can not take care of the elderly, if the family conditions do not allow, the children take care of themselves to sell a wheelchair, let the elderly sit on the children take turns on duty to take care of life, to be patient, can not dislike the trouble, eat. Dressing, this is a necessary item for life, as well as spiritual children, that is, from the material, spiritual comfort!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Just like a mother takes care of her own children, she takes care of the elderly.

    Good luck!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Patience, love, compassion. Taking care of the elderly who can not take care of themselves is a long and difficult thing, although there is no filial son in front of the 100-day bed, but after all, it is their own relatives, try to take care of it, God will give good fortune, and the old man will be at ease when he is gone.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Personal opinion.

    In this situation, we have to take care of the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves (just like our parents took care of us everywhere when we were children) to take care of the elderly, some negotiate with the children to take turns to take care of them, and some pay for nannies to ......In short, it is better to negotiate a solution.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    How to treat it? If you can say such things, it can be seen that you are a person who lacks filial piety.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Filial piety comes first, he gave you life, you have to honor the elderly, this is human nature, young people should provide daily necessities and housing for the elderly or live with themselves, when the elderly can take care of themselves, they can go to work, and if they can't take care of themselves, they must have someone at home.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Eighty-year-olds who are unable to take care of themselves can ask for help, if there is no other family member to take care of.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Eighty-year-olds have no subsidies to apply for, except for kaolin, and if they do not have a pension, they can only purchase medical insurance for urban residents.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    The 80-year-old man is physically incapacitated, he can ask for help My children are not around, the state has a rescue agency to help, or those who have a large factory and a large ability can help these old people There are many lovers in the society, and the old man must have a warm old age and a happy old age.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    When you are old and can't take care of yourself, it depends on whether you have children when you apply for assistance? Is there anyone who can support you, if you don't have any of these, if you are alone, of course you can apply for help.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It depends on what type of application, some 80-year-olds have home services, but only a few days a month, if you need a long-term one, you may need to spend your own money.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you are an elderly person in your 80s and cannot take care of yourself, it depends on whether the elderly have children and lovers, and if they have a family. Applying for bailout may not be successful.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Yes, this is possible, our elderly people in their 80s here will be organized by the village committee to enter the nursing home, nursing home.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Yes, there will be subsidies in the village or county, etc., and you can also let the children at home take care of them, or hire a nurse.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Can a teenager who can't take care of himself apply for assistance? If you are already in your 80s, China and Russia cannot be you, you can apply for assistance.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Sure, and to be honest, it's quite serious, I think it's right to actively help you apply.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If you don't have children or dependents, you can definitely apply for assistance.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    In general, children are unable to apply for other assistance.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If he has no children and no daughters, he can apply for assistance.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Hello, this situation is okay.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    People are old, very useless, very pitiful, especially the kind of heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys are good, inconvenient to move, can not take care of themselves, and Alzheimer's male elderly, the wife is old, can not take care of him, let him crawl all over the ground, let him feces and urine all over his body, sores everywhere, let him run wildly, and some of the wives themselves are not in good health, some are depressed, no matter him, not ruthless enough, can't do it, take care of him, don't make it hard to survive first, the first to die is still blessed, some old people are not cared for, dead for a long time, The body is rotten and smelly before being discovered, really helpless, paralyzed in bed, even if he wants to die, he can't do anything if he wants to end his life, he can't do anything about it, he is tormented alive, there is no dignity and stealing life, he doesn't want to, everyone has an old time, I really sympathize with you when I encounter this situation, think about my future, or can only lead by example, teach what filial piety is, and the children will be filial to themselves in the future, this is the family style, this is the inheritance.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Yes, anyone who encounters this situation will collapse, but no matter how difficult it is, we must persevere, taking care of the elderly is the responsibility and obligation of each of our children. Not only take care of it, but also take good care of it. It was not easy for our parents to raise us, and now we can't take care of ourselves, and we have no reason to give up on them.

    At the same time, you can think about whether there are other ways, such as hiring a nanny, sending a special pension institution, asking relatives and friends to help, etc., which can free up some time and energy for you to relieve yourself.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    It's a bit serious, but the truth is really serious, we all have to go to work, the elderly can't get out of bed, they can't get out of bed, they take feces and urine, and even the nurses are not happy to do it. Later, the child got a hundredfold special wake-up device from the Internet, which is an electric backrest, and you can get up by lying down and pressing the remote control. The design is not bad, and the caregiver also said it is good.

    It would be nice if it could help turn over. But it's still good.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Hold on, after all, he is the one who gave birth to you and raised you, when he was young, he may have experienced the same idea as you, after all, it is not easy to bring up a child, but he persevered, because you are his hope, and now you are also his hope. If you can't hold on, just ask the old man for advice, I think he can also understand you, after all, there are only a few people in this world who really love you, and if you lose it, you will lose it.

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