Tangled with my parents for the rest of my life

Parents who really love you certainly expect you to be there for them, but if returning to them will make you have a bad time, they will definitely not want to.

If you are sure that there is no future in returning to your hometown to work and live, I suggest that you do not go back, just take the time to go home. The reasons are as follows: 1. Good economic conditions are also needed to support the treatment of the mother, 2. You give up good living conditions for the elderly, you are not ashamed of them, but they will feel ashamed of you, which will also affect their emotions.

It is recommended that you investigate the employment environment in your hometown, sometimes it is better to be a chicken head than a phoenix tail in the local area, in the big city it seems that there are many job options, but it is difficult to stand out, but you have accumulated experience in the big city, and when you return to the small city, you may become the most powerful person there. The choice of employment should be bold and innovative, and it is also a good choice to study in a large company and go home to start a business.

I have analyzed both aspects with you, and I hope it can help you.

On the one hand, it is my own career, and on the other hand, I am worried about my family, which is indeed very entangled.

Now the point is just how serious is your mother's condition?

If the old man's situation is very urgent, then go back to accompany her and take care of her, after all, she is her biological mother, the relationship is still so good, her career can be hard, how can she make money, but there is only one mother!Don't wait until you lose to regret it.

If the old man's condition is not so serious, then you are not a professional, and it is not of much use to go back, it is better to work hard for your career, strive to make more money, give your mother the best medical environment, and treat your mother's health, which is a long-term solution.

Because the situation is not very clear, make a little personal suggestion, don't blame.

You are now the pillar of the family, you must not be crushed by the pressure, as long as you persevere, everything will be fine.

On behalf of all the Taoist friends who are concerned about the situation of your family, I wish Lingtang a speedy **!!

Take your parents to the city where you live, and you can take care of them when you have time, but don't give up your job easily.

I'm not a doctor though... But I still pray with all my heart that your mother will be soon**.

I wish your mom a speedy **.

It is not in favor of divorce because of the man's parents, not the husband's problem

1. In the past year, you have to understand and enter marriage, and if you get married because of emotion, you must work hard to overcome material problems;

2. The problem that worries about you is actually the bride price, which is a pre-marriage thing, which means that the parents are financially good, and you consider the emotions of the two people more, which is a necessary element of marriage. The lack lies in the lack of social experience, the in-laws do not believe that the in-laws will play tricks on the matter of their son's marriage, and they do not insist on their own opinions, so that they are depressed.

3. Of course, marriage is accompanied by happiness and contradictions, and the problem of in-laws is aimed at in-laws: be optimistic about your own money bag, if the marriage house is your parents', the property right certificate is in your parents' name; Give a "war letter" to your in-laws and go empty-handed during the New Year's holidays, involving the troubles of the two of them, pretending to be deaf and dumb, and so on.

4. Understand that every day is a new life, but it is not new in your heart, but whether you identify it or not, your age and experience are growing Marriage with different men will have different problems (even orphans have friends, colleagues, etc.), there is no problem with marriage, and there are more problems after divorce and remarriage.

5. Don't get pregnant until the problem between you and your in-laws is solved, after all, there are variables in the middle, and don't find yourself a "handle" that your in-laws look down on.

6. Wisdom and skill are needed to manage a marriage, that is, the art of gambling should be practiced often, and you can't escape without being skilled The same is true for your husband, and your speech and demeanor should be moderate. You slowly realize that maybe in a few years, you will "take" all your in-laws, husbands, relatives and friends, hee.

Excuse me, is it people or money that is important? The key is how your relationship with your boyfriend is. People don't pay too much attention to money. Feelings can make you happy for a lifetime, and money can only bring you material comforts. Consider for yourself, marriage is not child's play.

If it's a door-to-door son-in-law, it's normal! If it's not a door-to-door son-in-law, you can consider divorce!

You can talk to your husband! Tell me what you think, or if his father says that in the future, you can just say it! If you are no worse than others, you will get married once, why buy a cheap one!

Of course, the premise is that if you have money) I feel that the main thing is that your husband has not done a good job of coordination, and you can communicate with him well.

Hehe, the same with me. His family also did this to me, but you can go and tell your husband what you think in this case. Ask your husband to talk to his own parents.

When you get married, it's a major event in life. Only one ring is unacceptable in today's society, see if they have a little remorse, if there is no reaction, leave. Lest you have a child in the future, you can't leave if you want to, and you don't have to regret it.

Note: Wouldn't it be nice if Lonely Wood had a girlfriend to take home?

If you really want to leave, then you should first go through your own level, live all kinds of hurdles in life, leave your parents, you will face a lot of problems, the most is the advice of relatives and friends, some may even think that you are not filial, say a lot of ugly words, those words will be like a thorn, hurt your heart, and at the same time you may be looked at by others in a different light, and so on. If you're not afraid of any of this, then leave and live a new life without regretting it. However, please remember that it is okay to leave, but you must not forget, you must come home often, maybe your father will find out his fault because of your departure, and in the process of your departure, maybe your mother is the most vulnerable, she is fragile, she will be sad because of your departure, and she will be hurt because of your father's violence, so you must care more about her.

These are just my personal opinions, how to decide in the end, it's up to you, as long as you don't let yourself regret it, try to minimize the damage to both parties, no matter what decision you make, I will support you!

If you leave, then you are on your own, and no matter what difficulties you encounter, you have to be strong and believe that everything will be fine.

If you don't leave, find out if there will be any problems of your own, and remember that there are no parents who don't love their children.

It doesn't matter, it's just that you have the courage and you can be sure that you can support yourself, then leave them, I've seen examples of this, and both sides are doing well!

I think I should go out and break in, I can't afford to hide from me! If you can't communicate, leave them, filial piety takes time to prove It's filial piety after you have done a lot of business. But you have to know that the road ahead is very difficult.

And you have to work hard all the time in life.

Depending on your situation, I think you can leave if you want to, and if you can start a family outside, it would be best, maybe you are outside, and your father will miss you very much

What I want to say is that if you really leave your parents, you will have a very uncomfortable feeling, if everything can be done again, I suggest you still have your parents together. Really, I don't want you to be alone outside, that is really a bad behavior for yourself, irresponsible to yourself, although your family is not very good to you, but that year has been in the place since childhood, your parents gave birth to you and raised you, how difficult it is, you have to learn to understand your parents, you really, the most important people in your life are also your parents and your lover, without your parents to raise you, do you come back to this world? Will you be where you are today, don't you love your parents?

That's your parents.

Have you ever thought that you can still be with your parents, and some people can't be with their parents every day, what a painful thing, haven't you thought about them Now you are happy, you have your parents by your side, you should feel happy, you know?

What are young people afraid of? If the heart is in a dream, it is there. Of course, it's not like just breaking through, it is recommended that you don't run blindly before you find a suitable place, now is not the past, the current society! Tens of millions of words are omitted here) It's difficult!

Besides, you are not a child, you should have your own world to live a wonderful life, I don't think your parents will disagree, and the factors that affect a person, among which the environment is the most important, isn't it.

With the reform and opening up, it is normal to work away from home, as long as you choose your own career, nothing else will be affected, and you can rest assured to pursue your ideals.

Just have faith and believe in yourself, but remember to go home and see.

You have to remember that your parents will always love you!!

Long go home and take a look. I don't even want to go home, but after all, I was born to my parents

It's okay to think for yourself, but remember to check on your parents often in the future.

Is it worth it to leave your parents behind and give up your life for someone who doesn't love you? Pain is short-lived, positive life, to contact new people and new things, the future will still belong to your happiness.

Even if you go to become a monk, it is better than committing suicide, and the temple is not particularly bitter, and you will re-emerge after a year or two.

If you don't have love water, Meng Po soup is a good choice...

Life is given by parents, and wife is found by oneself!!

You are stupid, for such a woman to find a short-sighted, your parents must not be angry with you if they know about it. If your wife is gone, you can find it again, and your parents still need you to take care of them. Look at the opening point, the sky has not yet fallen.

Look at the point, you can find your wife if you don't have it, and if you don't have it, you won't have anything.

Go to suicide What is there to say.

For a woman? You are so great.

What do you do with your parents when you die?

Personal advice, or follow what you like. If you really resist it, you won't be able to do it in the future. And the salary of a kindergarten teacher is quite a lot, and the accountant Li Xian is not so good, unless you have learned a certain level.

You have to understand that your parents' starting point is to want you to be happy and happy in the future, and if this is not the case, there is nothing wrong with you refusing. If you go on like this, if you are not happy, they will be uncomfortable in the future. This is the real filial piety, don't be confused.

First of all, there is nothing wrong with pursuing your own happiness and dreams, but this problem should be handled carefully, if it is not handled well, it will hurt many people. It is advisable to talk to your husband first and then do your respective parental work.

Make it clear to the man, see what his reaction is, as long as the two of you make the same decision, the parents will generally not object.

Make it clear to your parents Parents all over the world only want their children to be happy and happy.

No, genes are very important but not the most critical, the key is determined by the child's acquired growth environment, if the growth environment is a cheerful environment, the child is unlikely to be introverted

Personality is hereditary, there seems to be such a saying, in medicine and psychology, this is just a guess, but it has been confirmed that personality depends on nurture.

It's true that most of the time you don't know how to deal with interpersonal relationships, and being honest also means being kind.

The important thing about a child's good DNA is the distance between the two parents, hybrids have more advantages over purebreds, and mixed-breeds are smarter than pure-bloods. And the bloodline itself is not good or bad, high or low. Your perception of good DNA is very similar to that of the devils back then.

Genes though are partially decided.

But the personal life environment is still very important, and it is not the same for a child to grow up in a group of stupid people and a group of smart people.

Acquired education is very important

Genetic factors are one thing, but the acquired environment has a greater impact on the mother's education of the child is a lifelong influence, if the child is a boy, then the child will follow the father's example, and like a woman like a mother, a girl will like a man like a father, the development of a child's IQ is based on the nutrition at the time of conception, and the different ways of education, will be different, as long as it is a normal person, the IQ is basically the same, but everyone has their own preferences and talents, you don't have to worry so much.

Is your boyfriend also wooden? So what did you like him at the time? If not, it is not a genetic problem. Don't worry, silly girl.

It's okay if your boyfriend isn't honest.

Don't be afraid that your child's personality is related to your acquired education.

No, this depends on the later exercise, as long as your child is young, you take her to get in touch with the fun in the society, don't stay at home all the time, children are playful by nature.