Sometimes I feel that when dealing with interpersonal relationships, I am always hypocritical

I'm going to lose these things today because I feel like I have to.

Because the person who I thought was a very good friend of mine actually said a lot of cruel things behind my back, scolded me, I was so real, I didn't know it all night yesterday.

I'm going to be hypocritical.

Innocence, goodbye, hypocrisy I'm coming.

Friends are the hypocritical side, the good side.

That depends on how I look at it, hehe.

The stance of the station is different, so the idea is different.

But my friends are so much better.

My friends are so much better! Hee-hee.

They're so nice to me.

In fact, hypocrisy is a kind of self-protection of human beings, we are all like this, as we grow older, we lose some of the most real things.

In fact, maturity is like this, because maturity, we know what to say and what not to say, and what to do and what not to do.

What we want to say but don't say, what we want to do but don't do, is hypocrisy.

To be the most authentic version of yourself, it is difficult.

But please be worthy of your heart.

Can hypocrisy change? No! In this society, there are two kinds of people who are not hypocritical, the first is likely to be born or acquired, and the one that is brewed is genuine, and generally this kind of person is very popular.

The second is that I have not experienced it, I have not realized the helplessness of today's society, I have seen the rainbow but I have not seen the real wind and rain, and the newborn calf. Lack of experience, it is difficult to decorate the mirror!

Benefits are good for everyone.

You don't need a reason to get along with people.

As the saying goes, rely on relatives at home and rely on friends when you go out. Only by turning other people's shortcomings into advantages can you become friends, so you must be hypocritical!

That's it for this society! If you want to open a little, try to adapt, it doesn't matter if you can't adapt, the world is so big that you are afraid that there is no place to stay? If you are more heroic, you will not be afraid, you will always find someone similar to you when you go to society, and you will not feel lonely, maybe the arc of everyone's laughter is very similar, or maybe it is the same as the constellation of the guardian, and it is only when you are destined to get together. Hehe.

Hypocrisy is inevitable, otherwise no one can be left and right, the most important thing is to know which ones are friends and which ones are people in the circle, as long as they are worthy of their conscience, and the others do not need to mind.

My cousin's former colleagues who used to work were hypocritical, and now they are the same to us relatives and friends, and I hate this kind of person so much

Say whatever you want, do whatever you want to be together, but seek to advance and retreat together As for interpersonal studies, that's the business of people who do research We are all ordinary people, ordinary people, there is only the depth of the stream, why bother thinking about how big the ocean is, asking for troubles, facing your own problems realistically, finding your effective method is the king, what kind of interpersonal activities?? It's simply bookism, take-it-or-leave-it, and bullshit.

Look at people, you have to be able to blow to arrogant people, and you have to be humble and sincere to honest people. As long as you have your own backbone, treat others politely, do things seriously, and don't be greedy, you can do it boldly with confidence.

Sometimes I also think that they (they) have walked together all this time. But unintentionally it's all precious

Let me treat those who are only for myself and treat others hypocritically, I really can't do it, I would rather not have such friends.

Hello, because you don't give much background, any problems arise for a reason, can you say a little more?

Did you not handle the interpersonal aspects well when you were growing up? Or in reality, in fact, you really want to deal with interpersonal relationships, but when you really communicate with others, you always don't handle it well, make it very embarrassing, and complain to yourself afterwards, thinking why don't you think about it clearly?

You will repeatedly fake interpersonal relationships, one may be that you are always in a preset scenario, projecting the interpersonal relationships you want to face in reality in a virtual situation to complete the interpersonal relationship handling mode you expect you, and one may be that you are not able to handle interpersonal relationships well and feel that it is wrong if you completely escape, so you unconsciously keep creating virtual scenes.

Regarding the method, in fact, Morita ** on the first floor is indeed effective, but for individuals, the requirements for personal initiative are very high, and in practice, few people can do it. Because I don't know your specific situation, it's not good to advise you to take medicine or something (the drug has a strong ***, and the symptoms are not cured, it is your psychological factor, not the medicine can solve it).

Let me give you a few opinions, this is what I have seen in the psychological counseling center for more than 1 year: first, do more and think less. Try to fill up the time, give yourself less space to think, you can do more exercise outside of normal study and work, exercise can cultivate positive energy, and the second is that you can have no energy to think after consuming physical strength.

In addition, it is also necessary to establish a good schedule and regularity. Also, I think you should also strengthen the interpersonal training in reality, which can start with your parents and relatives, step by step.

We look forward to welcoming you to add your background. If my guess above is very wrong, please understand.

Although it is not possible to understand your symptoms very clearly. However, from your questioning, I can feel that you are very rational and calm to face your emotions and analyze and solve problems. Maybe you don't have to force yourself to change desperately, or maybe your psychology is not as serious as you think, if you can start from your own heart to eliminate a lot of negative thoughts that are consciously or unconsciously generated in your heart, and distract your energy and attention in other ways.

May you live happily and calmly, friends.

One game a day, lol play every day, cf play every day, play wow every day, live the life you want to live.

Is it talking to yourself? Maybe communicate with real people?

This condition is delusions and obsessions in neurosis, and it is recommended that you go to the neurology department of the hospital for examination. Good luck with you**.

1. The sentence structure is mixed and confused, so that the sentence has no subject. It should read: Dealing with interpersonal ......We have learned a profound lesson about this.

2. The use of "instead" is inappropriate, and the collocation of related words is wrong. Judging from the meaning of the sentence, it should be a progressive relationship and should be "also".

3. Add "like, such as, and" after friendship to form "like, such as, and......the same".

4. "Blowing" is more appropriate to change to "blowing".

5. Lack of subject. "Light" is placed at the beginning of the sentence. Or delete the word "be".

1. Interpersonal relationships must be handled with caution, [.]"That's right"Instead"To this"We have learned a profound lesson.

2 And his father's inheritance was not only changed from great to small, and from small to nothing, ["On the contrary"Instead"Finally"Debt.

3 Our friendship [plus.]"Like"As solid as a rock.

4. Soft wind bursts [removed.]"of"Or instead"land"Blowing people's faces, weird itching.

5 [removed.]"be"Darkness obscures the light.

1. We must be cautious in dealing with interpersonal relationships, and we have learned a profound lesson about this.

2 And not only did his father's inheritance change from many to little, and from few to nothing, but at last he was in debt.

3 Our friendship is as strong as a rock.

The faces of the 4 people were blown by the soft wind one after another, which was strangely itchy.

5 Darkness obscures the light.

1 We must be cautious in dealing with human relationships, we have learned a profound lesson.2 His father's inheritance has not only changed from large to small, from small to nothing, but also has been in debt.

3 Our friendship is as strong as a rock.

4 A gust of soft wind blew on the human face, and it was strangely itchy.

5The light is obscured by darkness.