My colleague didn t pay back the money I borrowed, and I was uncomfortable

Yes, borrowing money and not paying it back is indeed the most hateful.

I had the same experience, 10 times as many as you.

I hate it.

This kind of person is really not trustworthy and cannot be trusted.

Whether it's 10 or 100 yuan, it doesn't fall from the sky.

In your opinion, 10 yuan is nothing.

But for those who are poorer than us, it is hard-won.

But the one who borrows money is willing to do so.

But if there is a chance to talk to him around the corner, implying that he needs money.

If he ignores him, then you don't have to be polite to him, but if you ask for money, you can save face.

I lost that money because I was afraid of losing face.

This is to buy a lesson with 100 yuan, no matter what, don't patronize your face.

There are many more ways to think about it.

This kind of thing is really a bit disturbing, or it may be that he forgot but it shouldn't, you can only be stubborn and clever to create conditions to borrow from him, and then suddenly remember that you still owe me.

If you only have ten no money, you should give it to him, and you don't have to take this money so seriously, it's not good for you.

It depends on how much money it is, if it's a minority, I don't think there's any need to care, you just think you bought back a lesson with money, and don't lend it to him again next time; If it's a large sum, you can use appropriate methods to remind him, for example, you can tell him that you have been tight on money recently, anyway, it's your money, and it's inevitable to repay debts, don't take it to heart and feel uncomfortable, so it will cost you a lot, and you will lose it mentally and materially, what do you think?

Ay. What is this. You can't be uncomfortable all the time.

My friend knows someone from a supermarket. She said to buy me a hair dryer, which can be much cheaper. I gave her twenty-five dollars.

The original price is forty. But after a long time, I went to her, and she told me that I couldn't buy it now, and that I needed a minimum of thirty. I gave her another five dollars.

But after some time, she told me that the minimum was thirty-five. I said I didn't take the money right now. When you go to buy it, hand it over first, and I'll give it to you when you give me a hair dryer.

Half a month has passed. I'm in a hurry to use it. She still didn't buy it back for me, once I had a time.

I went and bought one myself. She kept telling me that she would give me the money when she saw me. But it's been months now.

Every time she saw me, she didn't say a word about paying me back, and I went to the supermarket several times to see her to buy clothes. I sometimes say it on purpose. Oops, good, I don't have enough money to buy things, can you lend me a few dozen dollars.

She always said, you don't know how poor I am now. How to lend it to you. I was depressed.

How can you buy so many clothes if you are poor. I've seen her buy several outfits over the months. Ay.

You can't be depressed all the time because of this, the money is not much, and I always feel that this person is not so reliable, at least this thing is not done right. Just spend money to buy a person's character. Just remembering that she was my only friend and my best friend.

I always feel pity.

If you're a girl, it's nothing.

If it's a buddy, just go to him.

The opposite sex? It's better to say, if you put it forward, you will definitely pay it back.

You're a girl, and your colleague is a man.

It may be that he remembered it on the net, he cares about ten yuan, maybe people don't know your temperament. You can remember the things of January until now, my sister is amazing.

Ten yuan to recognize a person is cost-effective, and it is not necessary to borrow it in the future.

I think ten dollars is quite cheap for you to understand a person!!

There are two possibilities: one is that he is greedy for a small cheap person and cannot be paid, and the other is that he really forgot, when he invites him to dinner, we won't lend it to him next time!!

Don't feel uncomfortable!!

It's a good friend, I believe he should forget. I also don't believe that friendships between friends can be shattered by 10 bucks.

Find a chance to eat him and come back.

Anyway, it's not much, don't pay attention to it later, there's no need to make yourself uncomfortable.

Forget it, don't think that others can pay it back when you lend money to others in the future, or don't borrow it

Find a good opportunity to remind him that you should trust your colleague, as long as he is not a cheap villain.

Even if you are the same as you, even treat him as a friend, so you lent him money, and his work is 2 times higher than that of your partner. It's been almost 1 year, 300 yuan, and I don't give it yet, alas, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, so you should use your money to wash his character for him.

Colleagues may have forgotten. Even if you give it to him. Not too much.

Yes. Let's put it bluntly. It was embarrassing for him that he borrowed money and did not pay it back.

At this time, you should take the initiative to ask the other party for money, and you should take the initiative to remind the other party, it may be that the other party is too busy with work and forgot about this matter, remind him that he will pay back.

You can ask for it directly, since he can make a move not to repay the money, it doesn't matter if you ask for it directly, so you can protect your own interests.

Personally, I feel that I can take the IOU to the court to complain, or I can also call the police to deal with it, and I have to find a reasonable reason to get the money back with my colleagues.

When encountering this kind of problem, the following countermeasures can be taken according to the situation:

First, remind the other party directly, but in a tactful and acceptable way.

For colleagues who have a very ordinary relationship, you can directly remind the other party that the money has not been given, but you should pay attention to the ways and means.

For example, you can say something like this: "Xiao Li, the ** you asked me to bring you last time is still easy to use, when I went to buy it, the salesperson said, this ** is very easy to use, 98 yuan a box, quite cost-effective......."”

In this way, there is **, cause and effect, as long as it is a person with a little emotional intelligence, he will know that this is a reminder to repay the money. Of course, if this is said, the other party still does not mention the matter of repaying the money. Then you can ask him directly.

Second, if the amount is not large, you don't have to worry about it, it can be regarded as a favor investment.

Generally speaking, things within 100 yuan, if a colleague finishes giving you money, I personally think there is no need to mention it, after all, there is not much money, it has little impact on you, less money, no starvation, more money, will not make a fortune. Think of it as a personal investment in the workplace.

Of course, this approach requires the premise that this colleague has a good relationship with you. If the other party and you are just an ordinary colleague relationship, you should ask for it, and you should mention it. Favors should be given to people who can give favors, ordinary colleagues, there is no need.

Third, the amount is relatively large, there is nothing to hesitate to remind the other party to repay the money as soon as possible.

If a colleague asks you to bring something for a large amount, in this case, it means that the other party must have forgotten. Therefore, it is best to remind the other person as soon as possible.

Of course, the ways and means still need to be emphasized. As before, you can pretend to ask about the use of the items you are carrying, say that you want to buy them and use them, and ask him how he feels about using them. casually mention the ** thing, in this way, even if it is a disguised reminder to the other party to repay the money.

There is a special situation here, if it is something that the leader asks you to bring, and the leader has a bad reputation every day, and belongs to the kind of person who likes to take advantage, then you had better not mention it. In the future, try to refuse this kind of leader's request to bring things to reduce the chance of being rubbed with oil.

Legal analysis: If the borrowed money is not repaid, it can be repaid in the following ways: 1. The creditor and the debtor resolve it through negotiation and remind the other party to repay the debt as soon as possible; 2. If the debtor refuses to repay the loan and the negotiation between the two parties is invalid, the creditor needs to prepare IOUs and other relevant evidence in advance, and then can submit a complaint to the court, and has the right to file a lawsuit with the people's court, which will be accepted by the court in accordance with law.

Legal basis: Article 242 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China: If the person subject to enforcement fails to perform the obligations set forth in the legal document in accordance with the enforcement notice, the people's court has the right to inquire about the property of the person subject to enforcement, such as deposits, bonds, **, and shares. The people's courts have the right to seize, freeze, transfer, or sell the property of the person subject to enforcement according to different circumstances.

People's courts must not inquire about, seize, freeze, transfer, or sell property beyond the scope of the obligations that the person subject to enforcement shall perform. When a people's court decides to seize, freeze, transfer, or convert property, it shall make a ruling and issue a notice of assistance in enforcement, and the relevant units must handle it.

In fact, it is natural to repay debts, we just need to care about them, if we are embarrassed to say it directly, we can make a joke with him: You see that today's sun is not as "yuan" as I borrowed your money. If, no matter what the method, the other party does not repay us, then we can only wait or give up, and tell ourselves not to lend him money in the future, and at the same time tell others not to lend him money again, so as to prevent others from encountering us in this situation.

In fact, there will always be the problem of borrowing money in life, whether we borrow from others or others from us.

When we encounter others asking us to borrow money, we always feel that they are on good terms with me because they borrow money, and we are "friends" or "family"; Or we will feel that it is not good to refuse others, after all, people have spoken, maybe it is the first time that people have opened their mouths to ask us to borrow money, so we are even more embarrassed to refuse, if we refuse, how to be "friends and family" in the future.

But when we borrow money, we will encounter a headache, that is, borrowing money and not paying it back. The best solution is to ask him directly, or when we borrow money, we think about this person first, if he hasn't paid back the money for a long time, we ask him to ask him will not be angry, or if we give him this part of the money, will we feel distressed. If you're angry or upset, then don't lend him anything.

We have always had this idea, and in this area we can minimize our losses.

Finally, let me tell you about my personal experience!

I have met a "good buddy" who has not been in touch for many years to borrow money from me, and I borrowed 500 yuan from him out of the idea of friends and buddies. But the "friend" said: Brother Xie, I will pay you back in a few days.

As a result, he never wanted to come back......

If you don't know each other, if you don't have mutual friends or know each other's relatives and parents, I suggest that you don't borrow money easily.

It's easy to borrow money, but it's hard to pay it back.

I suggest that if this colleague does not reply many times, you can group the colleague who borrowed the money and the person everyone knows, and directly ask the other party when to repay the money. It would be better if you could find out the company where the other party is working now, and it is not impossible to go to the door to block people.

As a last resort, you can also find the police uncle.

The trick is very bad, but who let the other party borrow money and not pay it back?

Finally, I would like to advise everyone, no matter how rich you are, no matter how much love you have, don't borrow money easily, and there is nothing bad to refuse, just say no money and it's over.

In life, it is clear that he took out the money to help the other party solve the problem, but he was injured or himself. Borrowing money is to meet the needs of others, it is a sudden, accidental thing, seemingly ordinary and trivial, but it bothers many people. Some people's view is that if friends borrow money, they should be prepared for the other party not to repay it, so that the two parties will not be angry or have conflicts when it comes to repaying the money.

For the other part, whether the other party pays back the money and the attitude of doing things, can people see the friends around them clearly. People who talk about money and hurt their feelings don't really care about you as a friend, but value whether they can take advantage of themselves, which is an egoism.

Logically, borrowing or not borrowing is not an absolute, just as no ruler can measure all right and wrong. In the face of confusing things, it is better to analyze whether to borrow money from the perspective of a third party, and you will quickly come to a conclusion. Don't leave the big ball to yourself, it's better to calm down and think about how to pass the ball.

How much does a colleague borrow money, if the amount is relatively small, lend it to him, Bi Jing colleague, I think my colleague must have encountered some sudden special circumstances to borrow money, otherwise I would not ask my colleague to borrow for a small amount. Don't worry about not paying it back, if you don't pay it back, there won't be a next time, so don't make a donation.

The purpose of borrowing money from colleagues, if the amount borrowed by colleagues is slightly larger, you must understand the purpose of borrowing money, if it is some improper things such as playing cards and gambling, you will resolutely not borrow, if you encounter any difficulties at home, such as children studying, selling houses or sudden illnesses and other legitimate things, I personally feel that I can borrow some appropriately according to my ability. The depth of personal feelings between myself and my colleagues, if I have a deep relationship with my colleagues, we both know each other. I think I'll borrow no matter how big or small it is, but of course I'll have to do it according to my means.

If it's just an ordinary colleague, I personally don't borrow a large amount of money, just find a reason to push it off.