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According to the records of Tongcheng County, the old family and neighbor Wu of Zhang Ying, a scholar of Wenhuadian University and a scholar of the Ministry of Rites in the Qing Dynasty (Kangxi period).
Six-foot lane archway.
There was a dispute between the family on the issue of the homestead, and the homestead land of the two compounds was the ancestral property, and it was a confused account for a long time. People who want to take advantage are not afraid of foolish calculations, and they often trust their iron abacus too much. The dispute between the two families abruptly started, the public said that the public was reasonable, the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was reasonable, and no one refused to give in to each other.
Because of the involvement of Lord Shangshu, the government and others did not want to get involved in right and wrong, and the dispute became bigger and bigger, so the Zhang family had to tell Zhang Ying about it. The family flew to the capital and asked Zhang Ying to greet and "settle" the Wu family.
A stone engraved with Zhang Ying's limerick poem.
When Lord Zhang Ying read the letter, he just smiled with relief, and the people next to him looked at each other, inexplicably. I saw Mr. Zhang waving a big pen, and a poem was swept away. The poem says:
Qianli's family book is only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet. The Great Wall is still there today, and Qin Shi Huang is not seen. "Give it to the person who came, and take it back to your hometown quickly.
When the family saw the letter back, they couldn't help but be overjoyed, thinking that Zhang Ying must have a tough way or a clever plan, but what the family saw was a limerick poem, and they were very disappointed.
Six feet lane archway 2
Later, a total, there is indeed only the only way to "let", real estate is a very valuable family property, but it can't be facing, it is better to let three feet see. So they immediately mobilized to tear down the wall, and everyone praised Zhang Ying and his family for their open attitude. Zhang Ying's behavior is in line with the old saying:
The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly. The forbearance of the Shangshu family moved the neighbor's family to tears, and the whole family unanimously agreed to step back the wall three feet. The dispute between the two families quickly subsided, and between the two families, there was an empty alley, six feet wide, half of the Zhang family, and half of the Wu family.
So there was an alley six feet wide between the courtyard walls of the two houses. Villagers can pass through it freely. Hence the name Six Feet Lane.
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One day, Cao Zhi wrote a poem in seven steps: "Boiling beans and holding them as soup, wetting them as juice, burning beans under the kettle, and weeping in the kettle, are the same root, and they are fried together, so why is it too anxious."
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Satisfied. The first is to promote communication and promote mutual respect among people. In interpersonal communication, consciously implementing etiquette norms can make the feelings of both parties communicated, and gain the understanding and respect of the other party in the process of showing respect and respect to each other.
When people treat each other with courtesy, it helps to strengthen mutual respect between people, establish friendly and cooperative relations, and ease or avoid unnecessary contradictions and conflicts.
The second is to regulate and restrain people's behavior. In social life, etiquette restricts people's attitudes and motives, regulates people's behaviors, coordinates the relationship between people, maintains the normal order of society, and plays a huge role in social interactions.
The third is to advocate and educate people to abide by moral customs. Etiquette plays an educational role in maintaining the normal order of society for everyone in the whole society in the form of a moral custom. Through the study and application of etiquette, people establish a new type of interpersonal relationship, so as to be strict with themselves, lenient with others, respect each other, humble and give each other, be civilized, understand politeness, get along in harmony, and form a good social custom.
Fourth, cohesion and coordination. In modern life, people have intricate relationships with each other, sometimes suddenly clashing and even taking extreme actions. Etiquette is conducive to prompting all parties to the conflict to remain calm, alleviate the conflicts that have intensified, so that interpersonal feelings can be communicated, and a relationship of mutual respect, mutual trust, friendship and cooperation can be established, which is conducive to the development of various undertakings.
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Students should understand each other.
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Caring is a kind of happiness.
It is a kind of happiness to be cared for by others, and it is even more happiness to care for others.
Money is not everything, care needs the common concern of society.
To care is to care and love, and it is everywhere around us. Each of us needs love, and love is indispensable in life, and others give us love, so we should care for others, so that the world will be full of love!
Caring is a kind of giving, caring is a kind of dedication, caring is a virtue, let us start from little things in life, learn to understand, learn to care, learn to be a man. "Love" is the sail, "love yourself" is the boat, only each other's promotion and support, in order to make love forever, love forever.
Caring for others is caring for yourself, because only if you care for others, others will return you when you need help. Caring for others is actually caring for ourselves, and caring for others is the premise for us to be cared for by others.
To be a person is to be for yourself.
"Caring for life" is a responsible attitude towards life; A person who disregards his own life and tramples on the lives of others is pathetic and hateful, because he or they bring sorrow, pain, and even hatred; We should have a "caring heart" for all life, not only for our kind, but also for other life on earth, because their existence in the unique biosphere is closely related to us, and it is because of their existence that the planet we live on is more colorful; Caring for life, we also have to pay attention to the way, the growth of life has its natural laws, and improper care is harmful to life; Caring for life, we must say goodbye to all bad habits, stay away from those things that will poison our lives, such as drugs, and let ourselves live healthily is also a manifestation of caring for life......
Boiled water, sure enough, is a good medicine to wake up, open your eyes, see the world, care for yourself, and care for others.
When others need help, if a person can sacrifice his own interests without the knowledge of others, even if it is only a little sacrifice, it is also commendable. Helping others is often helping oneself.
Helping others is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, and in the process of a person's growth, he must have received the help and care of many people, and everyone helps each other to form a harmonious society.
Friends are the seeds of friendship and warmth that you sow, and they will sprout and grow; It is the people you have helped and warmed, and you will benefit immensely in the end.
Only pure warmth can warm people's hearts, only sincere emotions can move others, and the so-called help wrapped in money and interests will only cause disgust.
A true helper is a true hero who improves his personality by helping others. They don't think about anything in return, and the perfection of their personality is the highest state.
The infinite fragrance is gone, but only the green trees remain. Because it is rooted in the soil of personality, silently dedicates itself, and gradually strengthens itself.
Give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands.
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I once read a book! It's called "The Education of Love", and after I read this book, I think a person should not be selfish. Love everyone is there, but never use the heart to find love, I like the world with love because the world with love is beautiful and pure.
Love is everywhere, in the classroom of primary school, there is the love of teachers for students, and the love of classmates for school. There is staff care for the elderly in the nursing home! Speaking of love, I think of my mother.
Father. Teacher. Schoolmate.
Brother. Sister ......They are to their own children. Student.
Friend. Brother. My sister has love!
I have an older brother who is a bad temper and loves to get angry, but his love for me is indelible, he taught me a lot, surfing the Internet. Mathematics. Chinese.
Physical ......One night in the cold autumn it rained, and my brother and I came out of the studio very late, and found that it was raining, and my brother and I had no raincoats or umbrellas in our hands, and my brother was afraid that I would be drenched, so he gave me his big and thick coat, and I said, "Brother, don't use my clothes to be very thick," and he yelled at me: "If you are told to wear it, you can wear it, and you are not allowed to talk back."
I knew my brother yelled at me for my good, and I wasn't talking. I sat in my brother's car and hugged my brother tightly, I was afraid that he would catch a cold, and when I got home, he sneezed and sneezed, I didn't know what to say, I took a cup of hot water to my brother. I couldn't stop crying when I looked at my brother's uncomfortable feeling, and ran into the house crying sadly.
Brother, you are really my good brother! I'm so proud to have a brother like you! From then on, I knew that he was not only my brother but my umbrella on a rainy day, my happiness when I was troubled, a good brother and brother that I will never forget in my life, and I ranked him in my heart!
I was so touched that day.
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Who is the Liberation Primary School (old) 6 (5) class.
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Celebrity Inspirational Stories: Lincoln's Life.
There was a man, at the age of twenty-one, who failed in business.
At the age of 22, he lost the race for state legislature.
At the age of twenty-four, the business failed again.
At the age of twenty-six, his lover died.
At the age of twenty-seven, he had a nervous breakdown.
At the age of thirty-four, he ran for the U.S. House of Representatives.
At the age of 36, he lost the election for the U.S. House of Representatives.
At the age of forty-five, he lost the election for the U.S. Senate.
At the age of forty-seven, he was nominated as a vice president.
At the age of forty-nine, he lost his bid for the U.S. Senate again.
At the age of fifty-two, he was elected the sixteenth term of the United States.
This man was Lincoln, because he firmly believed that God's delay was not God's rejection, so he was able to rise again and again, and finally achieve greatness.
This poem uses the same root and beans as a metaphor for the brothers who share the same father and mother, and uses the fried beans to metaphorize the elder brother who is the flesh and blood of the same brother to mutilate the younger brother, vividly and in simple terms reflects the cruel struggle within the feudal ruling group.
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Cao Pi forced Cao Zhi to write a poem in seven steps, and the poem made after walking seven steps is therefore called "Seven Steps Poem". >>>More
Cao Zhi of Wei during the Three Kingdoms period.
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