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Now let's talk about the general process of this incident, this absurd thing happened in Guangdong, a college student Cao forged such a Tsinghua University admission notice for himself, the father thought that his son had become a Chan, and spent tens of thousands of yuan for this banquet, and the local village also hyped up that there were students in the village who were admitted to Tsinghua University. However, the moment the lie was exposed, Cao's peak life had fallen into a trough, and the feeling of heaven to hell made him miserable, and finally ran away from home, and his father was also very anxious, but who can blame him? The blisters on the feet come out on their own.
What is ironic is that this Tsinghua University admission notice is forged with thick branches and rotten leaves, and there are even typos in it, the registration is written as a report, and the higher education is written as a high degree of education, such a notice can only deceive the family and the villagers, but I believe that this Cao Mou did not think about using this notice to do anything bad, and such a notice can not do anything bad, the police have investigated this matter, and the treatment plan is not a crime, Simply carried out the educational process. But this matter will not end here, and Cao's online accusations and moral pressure have had a great impact on his life.
When everyone asked him why he did this, he was silent, but we can all see the clues from this silence, everyone who has experienced the college entrance examination understands that mentality, we want to take a good school so that the people around us look up to us, we want to return to our hometown so that our parents can win glory, Cao, who only scored more than 200 points, made a wrong choice, he used a wrong way to let his parents earn light, and at the same time pushed himself and his parents into an embarrassing situation, if time can be turned back, I'm sure he wouldn't do that anyway.
Maybe it's not just the boy's mistake behind this incident, maybe family education and society should also take some responsibility.
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It is rumored that the man only scored about 200 points in the college entrance examination, and he probably didn't want to live up to his parents' expectations and was ashamed to face his family, so he forged the Tsinghua admission letter.
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Because his father has high expectations for him, and he has always compared others to her, and in order to reassure his father and make his father approve, he thought of this method, in fact, it is also for his vanity in front of his family.
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The man did very well in the college entrance examination, and he was afraid that if he told his father the truth, his father would not give him living expenses anymore. He came up with this method to deceive his father.
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Because a boy is a psychologically twisted person. He usually deceives his family in his studies, often deceives his family, and he studies very well.
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Regarding this matter, on the one hand, I feel that the man is trying to satisfy his vanity, and on the other hand, it may be that his parents are good to him on weekdays, and he doesn't want to live up to his parents, so he came up with a fake notice to deceive his parents.
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I think it's the boy's vanity, and the parents' expectations for him, maybe he doesn't usually study well, and his parents are negligent but want their son to become a Chan, so in the end, in order not to disappoint his parents, he chose to forge a notice in an attempt to get by, but he didn't think that the lie was exposed, so it's better to seek truth from facts.
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Behind the unbelievable **, there are often secrets that are difficult to detect. Compared with the legal consequences of the candidate's falsification of the admission letter of Tsinghua University, the motive of his behavior and the deep family relationship behind it are more worthy of attention. In many cases, it's not because parents are "cheating", it's just because they're too new to their children.
In the face of such a thunderous reversal, the father who appears as a "victim" is actually a real object worth reflecting on.
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It's also very understandable to react like this after being debunked. If a normal person stays in an environment where he has lost his dignity, he is afraid that he will collapse every minute, and he will be very annoyed. There is a very strong rejection of oneself and others.
Either lock it in your room, or choose to leave the place, go out for a while, and wait until everyone is willing to understand and forgive yourself before going back.
I also hope that the majority of netizens can give some understanding in the process of verbal criticism. After all, for a rural family, children like him are very common. Self-esteem is particularly strong, but the chances of success are low because of low education or poor environment.
But I am very eager to let my parents' wish to make their son Jackie Chan come true, so I will do such a thing.
During the time that he has been away from home, I don't know what he is doing, and I don't know what he will do, so I hope everyone can give a tolerant attitude.
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The boy was afraid that he would not do well in the exam and make his father angry. In order to satisfy his vanity, he did not know that the consequences of doing so were even more serious.
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Parents have too high expectations for their children, boys don't want their parents to be sad after failing the college entrance examination, and there is the boy's vanity that wants others to look up to others because they did well in the college entrance examination.
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The boy usually cheats his parents about good grades, and after the college entrance examination results are released, he lied that he took more than 700 exams, and he forged the notice in order to continue to cheat.
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The boy who forged the Tsinghua admission letter ran away from home, and the boy may have been a white lie, hoping to make his father proud of himself through this means. This kind of behavior is not advisable, and good grades are earned by one's own efforts.
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Because he had been deceiving his father for fear of being scolded, telling him that his grades were very good. In the end, when it came to the college entrance examination, I was afraid that my father would be disappointed, so I had to continue to deceive.
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Due to the epidemic, this year's college entrance examination and admission have been delayed by one month compared with previous years. In recent days, candidates from all over the world have begun to receive their admission letters, and everyone has a happy smile on their faces. But at this moment, someone suddenly broke a piece of news.
In Zhanjiang, Guangdong Province, a candidate bought a fake Tsinghua admission letter online, and his father set off firecrackers in the village to celebrate. After being identified, the candidate ran away from home.
There are many people who will wonder, is it necessary to do this level of bad grades? Isn't it good to be honest with the truth? In my opinion, being honest with each other is of course best, and parents and family will understand.
But many people will have vanity, in the eyes of his parents, he is a good student with excellent grades and filial piety to the family, and what about the facts? He was a student with poor grades. In order not to destroy his perfect image in the hearts of his parents, he chose to buy fake notices to maintain his image.
When ** was recognized, he was worried about being scolded by his family, and he also recognized his mistake and felt guilty, so he chose to run away from home.
It can be seen from this incident that parents should usually care more about their children, not only in terms of grades, but more importantly, let them understand that grades are not everything, it doesn't matter if grades are poor, the most important thing is to learn from failures, and it is best to make progress on their own.
After this incident, the pressure on this candidate is also very high, I hope everyone will not continue to speculate, give him more space, he may have other unspeakable secrets.
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Because he wants his parents to be happy for himself, their family is a relatively poor family, and his parents want their children to be successful, but his method is wrong, and he wants to make his parents proud, they should study in a down-to-earth manner, instead of going the wrong way.
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Parents work hard to pay for their children's schooling, in order for them to study well, because with knowledge they can change their future destiny, get into a good university, and get a good job after graduation. The hope of success, the hope of success, but many times it is also counterproductive. The young man coaxed his parents to be happy, he was recently admitted to Tsinghua University, and he has been waiting for the news of admission to candidates from all over the country, and after years of hard work, he will also receive the moment of admission.
But there are some surprises.
On August 19, the story of a noisy student forging a "Tsinghua admission letter" went viral on the Internet, attracting widespread attention. Xiaocao is a high school student in Guangdong. When he checked his gaokao scores, he found that his test scores were just over 200 points, and he never passed the admission score.
In order not to disappoint her parents, Xiaocao spent 3,000 yuan, and someone forged a Tsinghua University. When he saw the admission letter, he was ecstatic, glad that years of hard work had not been in vain, so the whole village informed him that his son had been admitted to Tsinghua University, and his father made a banner for his son to hang in the village and fire cannons to celebrate. Accept it to his brothers and friends.
After he was caught red-handed and ran away from home, the village official of his village sent his application form to the local ** working group. When the mayor of Tiaofeng Town in the regiment saw Xiao Cao's "Tsinghua Admission Notice", he found that there were some wrong characters on the admission letter and felt that it was a little untrue, so he called the school's Zhanjiang Education Bureau, reported the situation to them, and confirmed that it was fake. Then bring the cadres of Xiaocao Village to the village and let them take down the banner in the village, and they will not let this matter go, nor will they set off firecrackers.
He has been studying in Zhanjiang, and his father and mother have never known the truth about his study. They just think it's good for the kids to study in Zhanjiang. According to his father, he was usually a good boy, but he didn't expect to cheat them this time by pretending to be accepted.
Although the incident did not cause any physical discomfort to his parents, it made them feel terrible and stressed. After his lie was exposed, the father and son quarreled, and Xiaocao also suffered insomnia for several days in a row, and then ran away from home, threatening not to go to school and to go out to work.
In fact, Xiao Cao's parents did not spend 20,000 yuan at the banquet, and Xiao Cao's father did not like the upload on the Internet, so he went to the hospital very angrily, unwilling to run away from home. Cao, a runaway from home, was contacted yesterday and now lives with relatives in Zhongshan. Xiao Cao was also ashamed of what he had done.
He also educated Xiao Cao, telling him not to think too much about it, and to correct it if he knew that he was wrong. Conclusion: Cao Cao did something wrong, and in some ways, his actions were unpopular, but it is likely that he did so only to make his father happy.
After all, today's parents attach great importance to grades and studies, and it is conceivable that Xiao Cao's father is usually very strict with him.
Although Xiao Cao's practice is not popular, it has not caused harm to the society and is not an illegal act, so please look at it rationally and treat this candidate well. After all, knowing your mistakes makes a big difference!
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Now that he is running away from home and living with relatives, he feels shameless to face his parents, but his parents have educated him to return home quickly.
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These things have long passed, and the parents were very excited at first, but they can understand Bo Hu, they feel that the child's emotions are the first base and block, there is no need to scold too much, and now the family gets along very well.
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The status quo has been debunked and guessed, after this matter was known, his parents scolded him for hiding in the mountain, and he was also very miserable after that, so he could only go to work and make money, and life was not easy.
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After the forgery of Tsinghua notice was exposed, the father and son quarreled, and the boy ran away from home for a few days, and later said that he was going to work outside with someone and not go to school.
On August 19th, a student in Leizhou, Guangdong, Cao, forged a Tsinghua admission notice in the WeChat group, and his family happily prepared to make a big deal to celebrate the honor of this lintel, and the villagers were all very happy, and even alarmed the local education office. Because it was found that there was a typo on the notice, it should have been a higher education to a high degree of education, and after investigation, it was found that Cao's notice was fake, which was a notice that he forged for 3,000 yuan, which put the family in an embarrassing and uncomfortable situation.
The child's original intention was to make his parents happy, but he didn't expect the matter to be exposed too much, which put the family in an embarrassing predicament, not only did the father lose sleep for several days, but the two also had a big fight. It is rumored on the Internet that his father was hospitalized with a gas coma, etc., these are rumors and are not true, but the unhappiness is indeed true.
As for whether Cao has violated the law, he has not found any other misconduct in him for the time being, nor has it caused harm to society, so his behavior can only be regarded as a child who is ignorant and does not constitute a violation of the law. What we need to be concerned about now is that this matter is published on the Internet, which may cause a lot of pressure on Cao's psychology with radical remarks, intensify the contradictions, and make the matter more serious. Relevant local personnel also gave Cao psychological counseling.
Now that the Internet is developed, anything can be put on the Internet for public trial, which is extremely disadvantageous for young and ignorant teenagers, who may be under considerable pressure or even cyberbullying because of temporary willfulness or vanity, which is also unfair to them, and I hope this matter will settle down as soon as possible.
In fact, it is normal for young people to do some ridiculous things, as long as they do not harm others, this matter from beginning to end, it is just a lie that happened in this family, and it will not affect others, I hope that Cao can act more steadily in the future after this incident, and I also hope that he can become a proud person in the family through his own efforts.
It varies from place to place.
Based on the data of 2020, the reference number is more than 400, and the number of students admitted to Tsinghua University is 85. However, it still can't be said that there is a chance of being admitted to Tsinghua University when studying in Tsinghua High School, which is only a statistical concept, and it is not applicable to individuals. If you don't work hard to study in this school, then the probability of being admitted is 0.
Falsifying Tsinghua admission notices is a crime, but if such forgery does not cause losses to others or commit fraud, it can be punished lightly!
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