Coaxed parents and forged the admission notice of Tsinghua University, is candidate Cao too smart?

After thinking about it, the teacher thinks that the candidate Cao really should not use the forged Tsinghua University admission notice to coax his parents, and he not only deceived his parents, but also hurt his parents' hearts.

Psychoanalysis1. Vanity:Candidate Cao forged the admission notice of Tsinghua University, and in the opinion of the teacher, he was playing tricks with his vanity, trying to fabricate the fact that he was admitted to Tsinghua University, in order to win the recognition and praise of others, because Cao's vanity was too strong, which led him astray, he not only deceived himself, but also deceived his parents, relatives and friends.

Candidate Cao Mou was actually too smart, smart but was mistaken by smart, and in the end, the paper couldn't contain the fire, and the matter of forging the Tsinghua admission letter was finally exposed, and after being exposed, not only did he lose both sides of himself, but his parents also lost some face.

2. Inferiority complex:In addition to vanity, we can also see that candidate Cao forged the admission notice of Tsinghua University, and if he is confident and confident in himself, he does not have to win the affirmation of others by forging the admission letter of Tsinghua University.

Is it worth forgiving your parents for apologizing after you know your mistakes? Candidate Cao's forgery of Tsinghua University's admission notice was exposed, and he still couldn't hide it in the end, and his lies actually couldn't last long, and one day he would show his feet, but this day came early.

**After being recognized, candidate Cao realized his mistake and apologized to his parents, and his parents forgave him.

And some people think that the candidate Cao forged the admission notice of Tsinghua University and coaxed his parents is very wrong, and if his parents forgive him so easily, it can't prevent him from committing it again in the future.

Indeed, Mr. Xiaojiang also believes that parents should treat this matter harshly, and parents should not turn a blind eye to their children's dishonest behavior, and ignoring the mistakes made by their children is actually harming their children.

Some reflections hope that every candidate can understand the difficulties of their parents and be sincere to their parents, so as to live up to the nurturing grace of their parents.

The candidate Cao's forgery of the admission notice of Tsinghua University also reminds parents to pay attention to the mental health development of their children, if their children make mistakes, they must not choose to avoid it, nor can they choose to ignore it, parents should learn to guide their children on the right track and help their children correct their wrong ideas.

In the process of educating children, parents should not spoil their children too much, let alone spoil their children, and should give children frustration education in order to guide their children's healthy growth.

This candidate is indeed too smart, and he has not used his cleverness on the right path to carry out these crooked operations.

Outsmart oneself. This is a very strange thing, I wanted to be a blockbuster, but as a result, the whole family fell into infinite embarrassment, and it is better to be honest.

No. Cao was able to take the Tsinghua University exam when his father asked how he did in the exam, and he forged the admission notice in order to lie, but he could correct his mistakes.

This behavior reminds me of a movie, that is, a scumbag who forged an admission letter from a university for his parents, made a full set of dramas, and opened a university by himself, and unexpectedly received a lot of classmates. In the end, the officially agreed school was successfully opened. This admission should not be inspired by this movie.

It's still quite smart, but it's just that the whole network knows that there is a feeling of being smart but being mistaken by being smart.

Yes, this is a manifestation of over-cleverness, thinking that this can bring glory to itself, but did not expect to overturn so quickly.

I don't think his behavior is too smart, but too reckless, so coaxing his parents, he will definitely be exposed in the future.

Always imitated, never surpassed.

Nowadays, technology is becoming more and more developed, and it is very simple to forge a notice, and I think it is helpless to think about the particularity of the notice so that others cannot forge it, which actually brings damage to the reputation of Tsinghua University.

It's a joke. This kind of forgery of Tsinghua admission letter will only make Tsinghua feel ridiculous, a famous school is not just good at studying, students have bad morals, and it is a joke.

Tsinghua University said it was helpless. After all, the school's reputation is too great both domestically and internationally.

Tsinghua University should not care about this matter, after all, this matter may have little to do with Tsinghua University, it is the candidate's personal behavior, and Tsinghua University will not hold the candidate responsible.

What can Tsinghua think of the forged notice, I think it's just a smile at most, there is a saying about what?People are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, and the reason why the notice of their own school will be forged is also because Tsinghua University is famous enoughIn the eyes of most people, being admitted to Tsinghua University is the smoke coming out of the grave of the ancestors, which should be the highest glory for the college entrance examination students who study hard in the cold window.

A college entrance examination student spent about 3,000 yuan to make a fake admission letter from Tsinghua University, and his father was so happy that he spent tens of thousands of yuan to entertain relatives and friends, which alarmed the village committee and the Education BureauOnly to find out that the candidate's admission letter was fake

However, after this incident was exposed, the candidate who forged the admission notice of Tsinghua University ran away from home and has not been contacted for several days, but according to his father Mr. Cao, this person is usually very well-behaved at home, and he usually cooks and cooks, he is the youngest son in the family, and has two older brothers and one sister who are married. Mr. Cao said that his youngest son was originally repeated, and after this lie was exposed, he once threatened to go out to work and no longer study.

But after the whole thing, the saddest thing is Mr. Cao and his wife, Mr. Cao's wife has been crying for several days because of this incident, and she can't eat much.

But then again, this candidate is obviously playing big, you said that if you want to tell a white lie to make your parents happy, you can just make a better school notice and get a national top2 admission letter, to be honest, what are your usual grades and what are the materials, don't the people around you know, if I tell my mother that I was admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, maybe my mother will send me to a mental hospital.

But then again, this little brother has to reflect on it, it really doesn't matter if he doesn't do well in the exam, there are still a lot of opportunities in society, but he pretends to be a prospective student of a famous university like this, and he is laughed at by the people of the whole country as a joke when he shows his stuffing, not only does he have no face, but his parents also have no face.

is also outrageous, and it is his parents. Isn't it true that the child has never communicated with the teacher in the class since he was a child?What are the grades of your children, don't you have a little sense of proportion in your heart?Everything is an empty mouth of a child. I remember that since I was a child, every time I changed the class teacher, my parents would communicate with him, and every time I took the test results, there would be teachers who would send them directly to the parent group, which was the final college entrance examination score inquiry and voluntary filling, and my parents had been discussing with me all the time.

Therefore, things have developed to this point, although the child is at fault, but for his parents, everyone can't help but sigh.

It is a manifestation of satisfying vanity, and when the college entrance examination score is not very good, forging a university notice is a manifestation of satisfying vanity.

Lost morality. The purpose of forging the notice is to deceive his family, but in fact, he is deceiving himself, and the future is in his own hands, not his family's.

I understand this Cao's mood, but I don't understand his behavior. Although it was to make my parents happy, I was really happy at the time. But do you know that lies will be exposed sooner or later, and how disappointed your parents should be in you the moment they are exposed?

Don't make up lies for the happiness of your parents at that moment, if you want to make your parents happy, you need to do it through real results.

What era is it now that you still forge admission letters, it's just a farce for yourself, a joke in the eyes of others, a conversation after dinner, and a harm to others and yourself.

In fact, his approach is very wrong, although each of us wants to be admitted to a good university, but we should not use this way to deceive our relatives and friends.

Because this student wants to make his parents happy, he will make such a mistake and make his parents happy.

I think maybe he wants his parents to be happy and proud of him. It's just that I didn't expect this matter to make such a big fuss, making everyone watch jokes, give this child some tolerance, after all, it didn't cause much consequence.

Because he usually lied to his parents that his grades were very good, and at the last moment, he could only lie to the end before he would forge the Tsinghua admission letter.

Being admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University should be everyone's dream, recently a candidate forged Tsinghua admission notice, for this matter, many netizens said that it was because this child was too vain and too good to face. Some people also say that it is the failure of parents' education, which does not teach children to seek truth from facts, and makes children's vanity inflated. In conclusion, there is a lot of speculation of all kinds.

It is true that the child did something wrong, but the reason may not be as bad as we think. When you don't know the truth, you don't have to maliciously speculate about others.

Vanity is too strong for such a thing to happen. His family also spent tens of thousands of dollars to set up a banquet and prepare to wear a big red flower parade. In fact, the children are quite pitiful, they are all underage or just adults, and they want to communicate well with their parents.

Forged the Tsinghua admission letter, perhaps because his own grades were not good, the college entrance examination results were not satisfactory, in order to make his parents happy, but also to satisfy his own vanity, so he forged this admission letter.

Vanity, because I want my parents to be proud of me, but I don't have that grade, so I have to forge a fake notice.

First of all, you ask if there is a hidden secret, in my opinion, this kind of thing is not a big deal, first, it does not involve illegal crimes, and second, there is no point that needs to be concealed, there should be no hidden secret. As a student, he is upright and young, but his thoughts are very naïve, he simply wants to make his parents happy and earn some face for his family, but because he is still young, he doesn't think about the consequences at all.

In this era, only reading is the most correct way to change fate, which parents do not like their children can change their own family status quo because of knowledge, so there are a lot of expectations of parents in it, and here is also invisibly added to the children a lot of home, so many children will not be able to bear this pressure, and because they can't discharge this pressure and do many extreme behaviors. Maybe that's why it's important to lie.

Yes, through investigation, it was found that the child had already told a lot of lies before he falsified the admission letter. If you tell a lie, you have to use countless lies to come back, from the top few in the class to the top number in the city, the admission letter is the last stubbornness.

In fact, many parents are self-aware, because genius teenagers will always be in the minority, their children don't need to be too genius, they can live a life like normal people, it's actually not bad, as long as parents can correct their thinking, will children tell lies one by one? I always have the feeling that a child is really heartbroken to take care of his parents, but the child does it in a way that he doesn't even expect. So I think this kind of thing is mutual, if the adult doesn't put pressure on the child, will the child give the adult such feedback in return?

He thought that being admitted to Tsinghua University would let the people in the village know that he was very good and his parents would be happy for him, but in fact he was not so smart and could only forge his certificate.

There is nothing hidden. The boy may have just wanted to make his father happy, but he was so happy that he informed the whole village that he felt that he could not stay any longer, so he ran away from home. Explain it and it's over.

The male student in the incident usually thinks of himself as a good student, lied in front of his parents that his academic performance was very good, and lied that he scored more than 700 points after the college entrance examination, all so that he could raise his head before his parents and relatives, which is actually quite regrettable.

Now briefly introduce this absurd thing, in today's information openness, the efficiency of good things and bad things spread thousands of miles is 10 times faster, there is a young man in Guangdong, Cao, who did something that he regretted for life, he made a fake Tsinghua University admission notice for himself.

What makes people feel ridiculous is that there are typos on such a shoddy university notice, the report is written as a report, and the higher education is written as a high degree of education, such a notice is still believed, and the father is even more hyped, and it took tens of thousands of yuan to set up a banquet in the village, and the village also welcomed it with great fanfare in order to welcome such a talent, but in the end this proved to be a farce, and Cao Mou fell from the peak of his life to the trough, and the chosen son in the eyes of everyone has since become a laughing stock.

** has begun to investigate this matter, and the conclusion given is that it does not constitute a crime, and the way to deal with it is educational criticism, and it has not caused too serious social impact, but the impact on himself is not small, and then Cao ran away from home because of this, he can't accept everyone's criticism and accusations against him, and at the same time he also has to face a big shadow in his life, if you want to ask him why he did this, I believe he didn't want to do anything bad, and he did not do anything bad, He never thought that one day he would be able to study at Tsinghua University with a university notice, he just wanted to experience life, or he just wanted to experience the feeling of being recognized after being admitted to university.

Cao only scored more than 200 points in this exam, let alone Tsinghua University, even the general university is difficult to enter, if you are a student with very poor grades, you will especially understand that kind of psychology, we have always wanted to be praised by others, we have always hoped to be praised by parents and teachers, but because of the poor academic performance we have been looking forward to it, maybe this behavior is just to satisfy this vanity, this boy just wants others to pay attention to himself, admit himself.

To sum up, the boy who forged the admission letter of Tsinghua University is not a bad person, and he did not hurt others because of it, and he did it just to get the approval of others.