With girls who are not particularly familiar with each other, what is the best topic to chat about,

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The first time you meet or communicate, try to make a good impression on the other person. If it's a meeting, it's the appearance and appearance, because I don't know each other, so I can only look at the appearance. If it's an online chat, it's easier to do without having to face each other, so it's not so nervous.

The first chat does not need to be too long, and it is controlled within 40 minutes to 1 hour. After chatting for a long time, there are many flaws, and it is best to be unsatisfied. The content of the chat can be from all over the world, starting with hobbies, to interesting things around school and life, to news hotspots.

When chatting, you need to know how to express yourself, not too self-conscious, and not self-centered. When chatting, you must know how to listen. Listen to her and digest what she says to understand her better.

It's good to talk about it, but too much nonsense and unnutritious words are counterproductive. A little lighter, a little humor, and more able to impress girls.

No need to chat at length every day. Talking every day, there's nothing to talk about. can be every time she goes online, you take the initiative to greet her politely, say hello, and don't bother, but feel that you are a gentleman and have no sense of oppression.

If her response to you is positive, then you can continue to talk, and if she has something, don't put pressure on her, don't force her to be invisible.

The best time to ask her out to meet is after you've already built up a good relationship online. In this way, celery lead can have fun and give full play to the best effect of "meeting". If the meeting can bring the two people closer, then a good thing will be done.

There are also types of light death. After meeting, they were estranged. That is probably not satisfied with the person's appearance and other more realistic conditions.

On a first date, you can go to a café or a teahouse or a western restaurant or other places with a more atmospheric atmosphere. Chat, listen, eat.

When chatting with girls, there are many issues that boys need to pay attention to, such as it is best not to mention their ex. If the boy always mentions it, it may make the girl suspect that the boy has no feelings for the ex, so she will mention it when she speaks. It is best for a boy not to ask a girl about sensitive topics, such as how many boyfriends he has had or a detailed family situation at home.

You can't talk about these things until you're done, and it's better not to talk about them now.

Some girls are very concerned about their height and weight, and may be slightly chubby in the eyes of outsiders, so they will modify their figure in various ways, such as wearing some well-cut and well-shaped clothes. If a boy talks about how slender a female star is or how thin his sister is in front of a girl, it will make the girl feel very uncomfortable, and it feels like you are insinuating about her. I hope that all boys can have a higher emotional intelligence, and can talk more about topics that girls are more interested in, such as movies that have just been released or more beautiful scenery across the country, and plan to go out and play during the holidays.

In addition to some of the above precautions, there is one topic that must not be discussed, that is, whether girls wear makeup. In the eyes of many boys, girls wearing beautiful eyeshadow or bright red lips are wearing heavy makeup, but in fact, this is just a sign of laziness, and they don't want to dress up exquisitely at all, so they only wear isolation or lipstick. Some girls are very good at dressing up, and they can paint that kind of no-makeup makeup that looks very pure, but in fact, there are a lot of small details on the face.

No matter what kind of girl it is, it's best for boys not to talk about makeup, because you don't know much about this thing, and you may say something that girls don't like to hear, which will make the atmosphere between the two very awkward.

When you are dating, you can choose some quiet places, and the surroundings should not be too noisy, otherwise you will not be able to hear each other, let alone talk to each other.

Don't talk about particularly awkward topics, be sure to smile when chatting with girls, don't have any physical contact with each other, be sure to pay attention to your clothes, and say your hairstyle; Don't talk about particularly awkward topics, don't ask about the other person's privacy, don't ask about the other person's age, don't ask about the other person's job, don't ask about the other person's income.

When chatting with a girl, you should pay attention to your tone of voice, and also pay attention to effectively grasping his inner needs to avoid directly hitting the other party's weaknesses; Mate selection criteria, personal privacy, emotional experience, family work, health problems, etc. are not to be discussed.

When chatting with girls, you should pay attention to your own way of chatting, and you can't talk about topics such as girls' weight.