Have you ever blamed your parents for children whose parents were born in their forties?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-22
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    With the continuous development and progress of society, more and more people marry late and have children later, and parents who give birth to children at the age of thirty or forty abound, and some families choose to give their children a better life and material conditions, which is the performance of parents who are responsible for the growth of their children. The love of parents for their children will be far-reaching, and the love of children for their parents is equally unconditional.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I didn't blame my parents, because I felt that no matter what age my parents were in, their love for me was more real.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parents should not be blamed. Our parents gave us life, and this is the greatest gift they have given us. We need to learn to be grateful and repay them, not to take revenge.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My parents gave birth to me when they were 40 years old, and although they are old now, they have never given me less love and have done their best to create a better life for me, so I have never blamed them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I blamed my parents, because I was ignorant when I was a child, and I had a parent-teacher conference when I was in school, and other people's parents were young and beautiful, but my parents were already old, so I blamed them for giving birth to me in their 40s.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For children whose parents were born in their forties, I don't think they should blame their parents, after all, the greatest benefit that their parents have given to life, and they should be grateful instead of complaining about their parents.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no reason to blame parents for this, because having a child is affected by many things. Our parents give us life, and we should be grateful to our parents instead of blaming them for the time when they gave birth to us.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why blame your parents? Are they willing to have children later? Blame them for not being able to help their children in their future life, studies, and work?

    As the saying goes: who wants to be bald if you have hair! Giving birth over the age of 35 is risky for both adults and children, not for special reasons, who are not willing to solve the fertility problem in the good years.

    To be a human being, we must learn to be grateful, and at the same time, we must understand that only what we have worked hard to obtain is the strongest and most reliable ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello. What's there to worry about ?

    I'm just like you, I was born at the age of 39.

    But maybe because of work, my dad looks older. The hair is all white.

    It doesn't matter, these things. The most important thing is to honor your parents.

    Earn money. Try to get married as soon as possible, while your parents are still alive.

    At the Beijing Allegro Salon, the oldest is 80 years old, and there are men and women, old and young, all of whom are Allegro enthusiasts. There is a public welfare event held by the Second Cultural Center of Dongcheng District, and you are welcome to participate.

    Of course, it's a little too late. Thirty-five years ago was almost the same as getting married. However, if you succeed in your struggle by forty, it's not too late. Now you can find anything if you have money.

    For China, you are still young. For China's marriage law, late marriage is worth encouraging, you are not too late, don't be afraid, the ratio of men and women in China is so contrasting, women can easily get married.

    The maximum age for conscription is 20 years old, 21 years old for high school or above, and 22 years old for college degree or above.

    23 years old is a little late.

    It's not too late! As long as you are willing to work hard! And when the body is developing, learning ** can help Zen to grow with you, such as playing the piano and your fingers will grow.

    It's not too late, boys won't mature until they're 21-23 years old, and it's not too late to be at the age of now.

    The ** period of learning Yinghe's stupid words has passed, but it can't be said to be late.

    Many people around me are very old (until after 20) to start learning English due to the needs of work or life, you have to be confident!

    In any case, there are still some difficulties in studying at 30.

    I think the main thing is in the spoken language, which is generally difficult to break through at this age (especially for people with accents), unless you have a good language environment and can make up for it.

    Everything else is not a problem, language is a thing that is important to use, and it is easy to forget if you don't use it, no matter how young you are.

    It depends on what you think, if you want to go professional in the future, this age is not too late, if you just want to cultivate interests, this age should be a bit late, after all, in junior high school or even high school, the academic tasks are very heavy, and there will be very little time to practice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now life is under great pressure, both men and women are very ambitious, because career leads to many people who only dare to get married and dare not have babies. But I was busy, and more than ten years passed, and I didn't feel that it was time to have a child after the age of forty, so there were more and more elderly mothers.

    Women who have passed the age of 35 can be called advanced maternal age, and at this time, there are many problems in planning to have children. Next, let's analyze what difficulties people in their forties who give birth to children may experience? The people who came over were very clear.

    Difficulties that may be experienced 1: Poor physical fitnessWhether you want to admit it or not, no matter how well women are well maintained, the physical fitness of people in their forties is not as good as that of people in their twenties. Especially for advanced mothers after the age of 35, the risk of various diseases of mothers and babies will increase, blood sugar is the hardest hit area for mothers, and allergies are the hardest hit area for children.

    On the other hand, the recovery of elderly women after giving birth is relatively slow. To give a simple example: the same caesarean section, the twenty-year-old can walk around the ground two days after giving birth, and the forty-something-year-old may barely get off the ground four or five days after giving birth, not to mention the energy problem of taking care of the child.

    Difficulty 2: No one to help with the childrenAlthough we all advocate that our children bring their own children, it is indeed much easier if there is someone who can help you. However, if you have a child in your forties, then the parents of both husband and wife are also of a certain age at this time.

    Most of the elderly at this age have some chronic diseases and need more time and a quieter environment to recuperate. In this case, even if the elderly offer to help with the child, the average person will not accept it, and if they are asked to help with the baby, it will obviously cause a great burden to the physical and mental health of the elderly.

    Benefits of giving birth at an advanced age 1: After being financially prepared to enter middle age, the income of both husband and wife tends to be stable, there is enough money to buy various insurances for the family, and there is also some extra money to cope with some sudden situations. Because of the fixed income model, with a little adjustment, you can take care of the baby while working, giving more warmth to the children and more comfort to the parents.

    Benefits of giving birth at an advanced age 2: Mentally preparedBy middle age, the couple's minds gradually become mature. And after several years of running-in, the relationship between the husband and wife has gradually stabilized, the three views are also closer to each other, and the number of quarrels is getting less and less, which can give the child a more relaxed and pleasant family environment.

    And some young couples around me, especially those who are not financially and ideologically independent, because they rely too much on the help of their original family after giving birth, family conflicts will be exposed at any time. In this not easy family atmosphere, the relationship between husband and wife is also easily affected, and the family environment for children is also a little bad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    must have been blamed, because the parents of children of the same age are very young, only their own parents are older, and they are embarrassed to say that they are their parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I didn't blame my parents because I felt like parents had their own stand, and I also felt like my parents really gave a lot for themselves.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There was no blame because our parents gave us the best and we had no reason to blame them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Surely I don't blame my parents. Parents are already taking a big risk to have children at an advanced age, and besides, parents should be grateful for giving them life. Secondly, when my parents were young, they worked hard outside the home and gave themselves good living conditions.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No. I think it's been very hard for my parents to give birth to me, and I don't care when I was born.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I didn't blame my parents because I felt like it was all my parents' choice, and I was grateful to them for bringing me into this world.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No. It's not easy for parents, who are already advanced maternal age in their 40s, and she risked her life to bring us into this world.

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