The woman I like treats me as a buddy How to solve this

Updated on psychology 2024-06-04
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As far as my own situation is concerned, you can refer to it, my buddies are basically all friends of the opposite sex, of course, I'm married now, so they can only be brothers, if anyone wants to confess, it is also said that your husband is early, of course, this is a marriage situation, including the situation of having a boyfriend, in this case, it is recommended that you do not make a meaningless confession, then if she has no boyfriend and is not married, it is much simpler, the opposite sex becomes a buddy must be different from the buddy relationship between men and men, Men and women are opposite-sex attracted, and if he doesn't like you, or doesn't have a good impression of you, you can't be buddies. To put it simply, she thinks you're good, so you're friends, so it's easier to confess, in the form of a joke, probe the tone, if it's very repulsive, then stop there, if you don't talk or something else, hehe, you still have a show! In fact, chasing a girl is to talk about means drop, if she doesn't react much after the confession, and you don't want to give up, then usually care more about her, such as sending an umbrella in the next rain, of course, there is no time to call a courier, and it will not show that you are very attentive, anyway, just pay more attention to it, impress her with your heart, she will get used to it after a long time, and she will definitely understand if she is not a fool, roar and laugh!

    In short, the confession is wanted, otherwise she will suffocate to death, of course, the way is very important, or the buddies don't do it, so don't make any emotional environmental confessions, then if she doesn't have that meaning, she will die of embarrassment, and she will avoid you in the future, even if she is still a brother, she will be wary of you. Pay attention to the method.,If you usually have the habit of drinking k-songs, it's better in that case.,Hehe,It's more verbose! Brother, you have it yourself!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's like making a movie.

    I like it though.

    Then continue to be the north, and choose 1 by yourself when a long-term buddy or a short-lived lover.

    There is 1 more option, and that is to be a couple. Because it's longer. Kindness. This is good. You just say it straight one day"Hey, buddy, you're happy to be my family. "

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Is it because she has someone she likes, so she treats you as a buddy?

    When a girl doesn't have someone she likes, she can't just think about being a buddy when she is friends with the opposite sex.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Obviously, the rejection is real, quite convincing, and you don't have to care about it, and now you are treated as before

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    ..It can only be said. Speechless.

    But it's nothing, maybe you're righteous enough This kind of girl is very generous, you may accept it calmly if you say it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You treat her like a wife.

    Constantly expand your reach over her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's only for the time being.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. The girl treats you as a brother, first of all, you have to brush your sense of existence in his world, when he encounters difficulties, when he is lost, you have to appear by his side, slowly penetrate into his life, he will be inseparable from you, and then you subconsciously reveal your preference for him, and your eyes also reveal your love for her.

    What should I do if a girl treats me as a brother? I like her.

    How to confess. The girl treats you as a brother, first of all, you have to brush your sense of existence in his world, when he encounters difficulties, when he is lost, you have to appear by his side, slowly penetrate into his life, he will be inseparable from you, and then you subconsciously reveal your preference for him, and your eyes also reveal your love for her.

    At the moment, if he doesn't feel for you, he can be subtle, for example, you can tell someone about it and let everyone set the mood.

    How to confess. Give a copy.

    You can confess like this: I don't know when I started to see you, I will be inexplicably moved, I don't know the reason, I can't help but care about you and care about you, and I don't want to reciprocate, as long as you are happy, I will be happy.

    In the hair two. You can also confess like this: If you are sure that the other party also has a good impression of you, I think it is more boring to simply send a text, and it is better to do a confession ceremony directly, and tell her that I like you with a rose face.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When a woman treats you as a friend, she will say it directly, and when a woman likes you, she will say it in a roundabout way.

    If a woman doesn't mean anything to you and just treats you as a friend, the conversation will be very honestIf you can go to the appointment, you can go to the appointment, and if you can't, you really can't. But if I like you, the conversation will be lively and will take the initiative to find a topic to talk to you, even if it is not necessarily an interesting topic. In the face of an invitation, if you can go, you will say yes, and if you can't, you will try to say yes.

    The conversation between good friends is sharing, but the conversation with the person you like is about sharing and hoping to get your response. In the relationship, if a woman has a better relationship with a man, then she prefers to chat with men, women feel that she has common topics with men, and women often talk to men about daily trivial things. There is no ambiguity, so men don't be mistaken, and they can't take women's initiative as liking themselves, in fact, women just treat you as buddies.

    If a woman likes a man when she behaves obviouslyWill pay attention to that man often. If the girl thinks about the boy everywhere and when the boy encounters difficulties, the first time to be there, although friends can also do it, but it is still different, when the boy has troubles or falls out of love, she will be by your side all the time, such a girl belongs, I don't know how to express my heart, I am afraid that I will say it, the boy does not agree, so that the relationship between the two people is very awkward, I like him very much, I want to see him, I see him with other girls talking and laughing and laughing is very helpless, You don't dare to go over and talk to him.

    Nowadays, many boys like narcissism and feel that the female friends around them like them, so they will misunderstand that this is the girl's infatuation with him. In a relationship,If a woman treats a man as an ordinary friend, she has a better relationship with him, She doesn't actually treat men as boyfriends, and she won't do things between boyfriends and girlfriends with men, sometimes women chatting with men will make men mistakenly think that women like him and treat him as boyfriends, in fact, this is a man's illusion, then, women who like to chat with you like this, just treat you as a buddy, don't be mistaken. In the relationship, if a woman treats a man as a buddy, then the relationship between the woman and him is better, and he may be the kind of good buddy that the woman is looking for, and the relationship between the two is not a couple, because the woman treats him as a good brother.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think she should like you.

    First of all, it's just because I don't want to talk about rejection now, instead of hating you, second, she bought you a lot of things, which means that she is very good to you, and third, she plays ambiguously with you, hoping that you don't give up on her, continue to be good to her, and finally bless you to have lovers and eventually become married.

    The Qixi Festival is coming.

    Seize the opportunity

    And what I want to tell you is that it has become, remember to tell me

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm afraid he's a bit entangled right now.

    So choose a feeling of detachment.

    It's better to be friends like this.

    If you really like him, show it well in front of him and pay attention to your words and actions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Confession, go with chocolate and roses. It's best to confess in front of everyone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In this case, if you cold her, she will chase you instead.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. If that's the case, it may be because he thinks you're better for her, but this kind of goodness doesn't rise to the level of a lover, that is to say, his kindness to you is just a relative-like affection, in this case.

    I like a girl and she says treat me like an older brother, what should I do?

    If that's the case, it may be because he thinks you're better for her, but this kind of goodness doesn't rise to the level of a lover, that is to say, his kindness to you is just a relative-like affection, in this case.

    Right. If you still like her, then you can try to do something that will make her like you, such as asking her to have coffee with you, watch a movie, and of course, it is better to hang out together, and the relationship can be cultivated slowly.

    Isn't it too hasty to confess now.

    Because there is also a situation where she actually likes you too, but is afraid of becoming a lover once she becomes a lover. There is a possibility of a breakup, so in order not to let you leave, I said that I only treat you as an older brother.

    Having a good relationship is not as simple as confessing, you need to prove that you like it with practical actions.

    Instead of confessing to her, confession also needs timing.

    I am 8 years older than her, and she can feel that I am good to her, and she keeps saying that in addition to my father and grandfather, you are the third man who loves her, and he says that I am my own brother.

    This shows that she has a crush on you, not the kind of situation where she doesn't feel it, so you need to work hard!

    What should I do, she is a technical talent I recruited from other places, I like her, she treats me as a brother, I am afraid that I will say it, because of the work reasons in leaving, then it will affect the work, so tangled.

    In this case, it is recommended that you don't say it yet, but use your own practical actions, such as taking care of her in life, giving her some gifts on some special days, but it is best to ask her to go out with you, because it is easiest to like someone when you are relaxed.

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