Thank you for your objective views on my business

What you said in PS shows that you are indeed very sober, and you also know some of her personal situations very clearly, and you have also made a certain analysis, and the answer is actually that you yourself know that she is not suitable for you. To put it mildly, you are really together, and when the relationship is good, you may not feel it, but when the relationship encounters a bottleneck, you will turn her previous things out and think about it, and the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes, and your war will escalate. Ambiguity is very close, love is still far away, remember this sentence!

Ambiguity doesn't mean love, maybe you're just enjoying the time before dawn. She's really not for you, so give it up!

Barely there is no happiness, and it is better to simply do it.

Actually, then again, it's still your own problem, and you can ignore what outsiders say, right?

If you can, I hope you can be a blank slate, and it is best to be yourself. She doesn't cook you, it's not that you're bad, it's just that she doesn't know how to appreciate it. At the beginning, I thought I wasn't handsome, and no one liked me.

But what is unexpected is that it is not me who pursues girls, but girls who pursue me. Love is like a person who has stopped beating and magnetic resonance, you have to have the same frequency as each other to wake up the person who has stopped heartbeat, and now you just haven't found someone with the same frequency. May you succeed!!

Don't say anything if it's right or wrong before you start!!

But before you start, you really have to think about it!!

ps: Personally, I don't think there is anyone who is not suitable for anyone!! The important thing is to know what you want and how to get along with each other.

Brother, this is very clear, if it is not suitable, it is 88

When two inappropriate people are together, they are doing sin.

The woman is not the only one who is more than her.

If it's not suitable, don't be together.

I don't think she's a good fit for you either

It feels like you can't hold her in your hands!

So, if she doesn't have deep feelings for you, it probably won't last long.

Stick to yourself and find the right one.

To be honest, I think you're justified in doing this, your intuition is terrifyingly accurate! But the way you're doing it is a little too much! You see you've got two hostile sides all at once, one is this woman and the other is your boyfriend!

Quarrels, like wars, are not just forgotten after they are won, but about benefits and costs. I think you've lost this battle!

Everything is planned before it is acted!

From the point of view of your boyfriend and the man, there is a girlfriend like you, and then there is a girl who may be cheap to take advantage of, he ponders that this is not a cheap and white thing, when the problem is, he is not necessarily so Yushu Linfeng, saying that he can take it, so he does not take the initiative and does not refuse, if there is a advantage to take advantage of, just let this result happen, anyway, the man does not suffer.

From that girl's point of view, I originally hoped to develop an emotional relationship with your boyfriend, but when you make a fuss, your boyfriend has a girlfriend and hooks up with him, it is inevitable that the atmosphere, coupled with your abuse, will be a big loss!

From your point of view, defending love and watching your boyfriend are all understandable things, but your approach makes the three of you very unhappy, and the strategic intention is fine, but the battle result is indeed the worst.

If there is still a battle to be fought, then it is recommended that you calm down and surrender without a fight!

It's okay to find trouble, but if your boyfriend is really so easy to talk about and get hooked, it's really not a good thing.

Besides, if they are fine, you will definitely quarrel with her if you come to talk to her about this.

Immature, objectively speaking, is too unconfident in feelings.

Give a man a moderate space, give him proper understanding, give him proper care, and give you peace of mind.

Why quarrel. Did your boyfriend admit it? Do you think they have ghosts, so even if your boyfriend wants to explain you, he still says he's lying?

That girl praises your man for being a peerless good man, and you should be happy because that peerless good man is yours.

But why is she praising you man, you're still not happy?

It's also possible that they're just friends.

What did your boyfriend say about you? You got into an argument with her, didn't your boyfriend say anything to you?

Examine what a person does, observe the methods he takes, examine what he is comfortable doing, and how can he hide it.

Look at the reason, look at the reason, observe the safety, how are the people? It's a shame.

Isolate yourself, make it seem irrelevant to you, and then evaluate it

Look for a scale, a positive, optimistic, far-reaching and calm attitude.

Dialectical materialism plus historical materialism, to see which of his merits and demerits is more, if the merits are greater than the faults, then it is worth affirming. (Because no one is perfect, and there is no one who does not make mistakes).

Learn to find your own understanding in other people's opinions

There is no objective thing in this world, to use a simple analogy, maybe not appropriate enough, a teapot is placed here, who dares to say that he sees the most objective and comprehensive? Which one would dare to say that?

What you're talking about is a question of mass standards. If it conforms to the opinion of most people, it is basically objective.

Jump out of this matter and then look at the essence of this matter, if you really can't objectively evaluate this matter, then ask someone else, see how he evaluates, ask a few more people and you will definitely find the answer you want!!

Evaluate from a perspective that has no interest in this matter.

Be a bystander, connect with the context.

Oh, yes! You can draw on the book "Introduction to Psychoanalysis".

.Objective things directly determine whether emotions are good or bad.

What's the matter, I'm here to save you, hehe.

It can be seen that you don't like him, and if you don't like him, talk to him and tell him to give up.

If you give up on him, you will definitely be scolded by your parents.

It's best to talk about a boyfriend yourself, so that your parents are not in a hurry.

Since he wants to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival together, he still brags about being rich and capable, and he goes to your house for dinner, I wonder if he has any money?

Please go to the Grand Hotel with your family.

1 Understand things.

2 See what others have to say.

3. Have independent judgment and thinking, and don't blindly follow the trend.

4. Evaluate the problem objectively.

Write according to what you have in your heart.