I met my fianc e on a blind date, and now I regret it?

Shocked by the reality of the scumbag? I don't have any thoughts about people like you, since I regret it, make it clear to her as soon as possible, don't delay people's youth, girls are very innocent.

First of all, you must know that this matter is that you are sorry for your fiancée, and what blind date you know is not a reason for you to regret it. In real life, there are many examples of men and women who meet on blind dates and eventually bear fruit, and they are also very happy. If you feel that the woman is not your cup of tea and is not suitable for her in the process of dating, you should make it clear as soon as possible that you are separated, why do you want to give up dumping people until you are already engaged.

It not only wastes the woman's time but also hurts her feelings, first make it clear that you are at fault, and your attitude should be correct.

Then, in order not to let the mistake continue, quickly find a way to talk openly and honestly with the woman and the woman's family, and make it clear. The emotional things are not sweet, reluctant and meaningless, you don't want to continue, just end it completely. Here, you have to explain and apologize to the woman and see how she reacts.

As long as it's not particularly excessive, you will suffer from it, after all, you are sorry for others.

To be honest, I really look down on you like this, no matter when you have to be a man, you have to be responsible, you have to learn to be responsible for what you do, here I advise you, please be serious about your feelings in the future, and when you don't reach a certain level, don't easily make promises and give girls expectations for the future. If the character is reversed, and you are dumped after getting engaged, you must feel hurt in your heart.

Finally, I hope that your ex-fiancée can come out of the shadows as soon as possible and find a man who is really good to her, don't feel sorry for you, it's not worth it.

I think if you regret it now, you can choose to regret it, and I think it's very good for you or your fiancée. You regret it now, and you must have found something that you can't agree with, whether it's his personality or his behavior and habits. If you don't think it's someone you want to walk through your life hand in hand, then I think the best way is to leave, after all, you're not married yet, so it's just your fiancée, then even if you break up, it's just a breakup, it's not to the point of divorce, you must know that a woman is divorced, and a man divorced is different, a man divorced may not be nothing, but for a woman, she divorced not long after she got married, which is a very bad influence on him.

If you met on a blind date, you feel that you don't have a sufficient understanding of him, and you want to regret it, I suggest that you think carefully about what kind of person you want to find, whether he meets your requirements for the future, and whether he is someone you really want to live with for life? In fact, sometimes blind dates are like this, you haven't got to know a person in depth, but because of the urging of your parents, or the eyes of others, and then you quickly decide to go through with him, but if you want to live for so many years, forty or fifty years, how do you want to go about the rest of your life, it's impossible. <>

If you think about it again, you still feel that he is not the person you want to work with for the rest of your life. Then I suggest just break up. As the saying goes, it is better to die early than to divorce at that time.

Are you already engaged to her? Then you're a little complicated, you regret it now, isn't it too delaying others, wasting other people's emotions, you let the relatives and friends on both sides know that the two of you are engaged, and you're about to get married, you're already a bride-to-be, a groom-to-be, and now you regret it again. Generally, people who know each other on a blind date are more knowledgeable, and the two parties are either relatives to relatives, or friends to friends, so it is easy to affect the feelings of both parties, after all, they are acquaintances.

If you make a decision and think clearly, then don't delay any longer, after all, if you delay one more day, the marriage date of the two of you will be close to one day, and it will hurt each other more, fortunately, you regret it now, not regret it after marriage, it's better, so that both parties have a choice. You can ask your fiancée out, you explain it to her well, tell her that you don't like her anymore and want to break up with her, and persuade your fiancée well, don't think too complicated and can't think about it. <>

If your fiancée doesn't agree, and you can't say it clearly, then you have to find her a few more times and tell her that it is impossible for the two of you to be entangled, even if you continue to entangle each other, it will only delay each other's youth. I believe that after your persuasion several times, your fiancée will also understand that the relationship between the two of you has come to an end, and she will let each other go free.

In addition, I also want to tell the matchmaker who introduced you to know that it is impossible for the two of you to break up peacefully, don't let the matchmaker feel embarrassed, and I will never dare to introduce you to the object easily, I believe that after a period of time, it will be calm again!

I feel that since I regret it, I should bring it up as soon as possible and not delay the other party. Otherwise, if you regret it after marriage, it will only hurt both parties more.

It's that you already regret it, then tell him quickly, don't wait for the two of you to get married, then it's useless if you regret it, and divorce will have a bad impact on both of you, so hurry up and make it clear to him before you get married that I should break up and break up, and I should do it. And then try not to drag it out anymore, and then it will cause some bad things, no one wants to see it that way, right?

I just want to say that love is sharing, marriage is sharing, love can end at will, but marriage is appropriate, don't expect any love, only you don't have to worry about it! My fiancé and I also met on a blind date, and the first time I felt as if I had finally waited for someone who could spend my life in peace, there was no vigor, only two people sitting together and the years were ......quiet

If you miss it, you miss it, and if you want to open it, there are better girls waiting for you in front of you.

Fengyang scholars went out to travel, and they did not return for a year, and their wife Fengyang Nu was in suspense day and night.

In fact, whether you need to cold her or not can't just be understood from us outsiders. It is necessary for you to get along and observe together, and if you feel that her personality is suitable for this, then it does not hurt for you to be cold to her, but it must be done in moderation. But if she's not suited to cold violence, then I hope you don't do that.

In fact, when two people get along, they need to communicate more and be calm. Otherwise, it's all about communication, and life is meaningless.

The customs vary from place to place, and the meaning of engagement is different, but engagement is by no means the same as marriage.

Marriage is definitely not child's play. Only on the basis of a full understanding of both parties can a family be formed and live together.

It may be that for a period of time, the other party will show indifference and retination, but this is not an interface for you to withdraw or avoid. On the contrary, if you care about her, you should understand the reason for her state.

Of course, sometimes just the changes in the menstrual cycle can determine the changes in a woman's mood, which require you to understand and communicate patiently.

All happy love life is based on mutual understanding and mutual respect!

We're all engaged, you're going to be a big man. Learn to take responsibility. Don't play with children's temper and ignore people's cold treatment. Talk to her more about whether there is something on her mind.

You still don't think like this, this won't do you any good at all, since you have all decided to go to the end together, don't test each other like this anymore or something, girls are used to hurt, you should do your best to be good to her.

You should not be very familiar with each other and get engaged, there is no emotional foundation, if you don't take the initiative to get married, you may end up withdrawing from the marriage. Since you like it, you have to take the initiative, after all, you are a boy.

Girls are sensitive, after being engaged, girls will take you very seriously, will care about your every move, you spend less time with her she will feel that you don't cherish her, and then you will be cranky, at this time you must not snub her, it will only make things more stiff, you should go and chat with her more, accompany her more, she will be fine.

Now that you're engaged, you're ready to get married. Since two people want to shoulder the burden of the family together, they must know how to tolerate each other, and the cold war and revenge will only cause a rift in the relationship. So, even if you endure, be tolerant.

If you want to get married, you have to treat me, since she can get engaged, it means that she wants to give up everything she once had, and you give her happiness that she never dreamed of at this time, and she will always be with you.

Since the engagement is about to be made, the man should take the initiative to create an atmosphere, it is normal for a woman to be subtle, if the man is not active, the woman does not know where to start, so as long as there is a person to drive the enthusiasm.

Hey, another tragedy repeated, life is not easy, do it and cherish it

If you want to be colder, the probability of leaving Huang is getting higher and higher, and you have to take the initiative.

If you're sure you're getting married, don't get cold!

The two of them are not angry, she is cold and you are hot, maybe she is testing you.

Are you a man, if you are a man, take the initiative to be enthusiastic.

Find a time to talk to her, ask her what's wrong, if there are any difficulties, and I'll share it with you.

Love at first sight also requires communication, and without communication it will leave hidden dangers in the future.

is about to get married, it's better not to be cold to her, it's fate to be together.

It's a man who doesn't have this idea, women generally only get hot when you give her temperature, and if you give her ice water, she will freeze

It's better to be cautious when getting married.

No, just take the initiative yourself.

Don't, big boys take the initiative.

In this case, let her dry up for a while, if she comes to you, you get along with her, if she doesn't come to you.

It's good that you just find someone else to continue the blind date, and don't take her too seriously......Finally, men think more about how to make more money, don't think more about how to find a wife, you have to be strong, everything is not a problem......Hope to adopt.

It shows that the woman is unwilling, looking for a wife to find someone who likes you, the twisted melon is not sweet, if she is really unwilling, it is better to let it go as soon as possible.

This situation can only show that your relationship is not in place, or your blind date is because everyone is single to the age of marriage and reluctant to be together, not really accept each other from the heart, and maybe even the other party is more concerned about how much economic benefits can be obtained by the individual, so it is recommended that you still think about it seriously, if there is no emotional foundation, even if you are reluctantly combined, whether you can go on for a long time in the future is another matter.

Do you have some weird behaviors that seem to be independent and special, such as raising a snake that looks poisonous, such as pretending to be cute in front of your boyfriend all the time, and now that you have changed your painting style, all kinds of images of female men have been exposed. After getting married, we have to live together, and many habits will always be inadvertently exposed in life.

Instead of waiting for that time to be discovered and quarreling over these things, it is better to expose all these shortcomings to the other party now, so that your boyfriend knows that he also has all kinds of small shortcomings. Lin Yu's words made me fall into deep thought, I thought it was just Lin Yu's death before marriage, but I didn't expect that she had so many thoughts in her heart, and these thoughts couldn't tell whether they were right or wrong.

Our old idea is that when we are about to get married, we should take care of it, and don't be out of tune like a child every day like before. But people's personalities have been stereotyped for more than 20 years, and it is really hard to change if they want to change, and at this time, suddenly two people with different personalities want to form a family, and both men and women who are married must have a certain degree of restraint, such as taking a step back more or less in character.

But the current situation is that Lin Yu has been giving in, and her boyfriend seems to have become a little bit worse, but the object is bearable, and getting married is not something that can be endured. So Lin Yu decided to change back into himself and let go of himself, if her boyfriend can still accept herself, it is true love, if you can't accept it, then don't force yourself, after all, an unhappy marriage might as well not start directly.

At this moment, I understood that many unmarried people, their thoughts, the original goal is very simple, is not to settle, and it is better not to start with a divorce in the future, at least they will not leave too much pain.

Blind date acquaintance, first of all, communicate in a good environment, the three views must be the same, even if they are inconsistent, they must be about the same, otherwise what is the use of so many people picking on a blind date, so if the right words are right, it is better to become a family, and it is better to be right, otherwise it will be icy, and it will be nothing.

It seems that this girlfriend of yours hasn't necessarily wanted to marry you yet, or started liking you, and now she's shaken again. Today's girls, this mountain looks at that mountain, and their minds are wavering. It's really hard to say how to break through, and if you reluctantly get married, it's not necessarily good.