I hurt the woman I love most in my life, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-04
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you should take the initiative to admit your mistakes to the other party, since she is the woman you love the most, then why should you hurt her, you should improve your self-control, so as not to make mistakes again and again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since the damage has been done, don't dwell on it anymore, let alone bother her again, so as not to cause secondary damage, if you want to recover it, please treat her well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then marry her home and coax her, okay I miss you so much...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. What to do, let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and possession, let go of the burden and move forward lightly, get out of the sea of suffering out of danger, turn around and leave at the moment when the tears fall, don't let yourself be hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up with others, the twisted melon is not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem, self-love, lose your personality, and indulge in pain, why bother?

    It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Be strong, have confidence and courage, look for someone who really loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish it. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

    At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It can only be said that it has happened, if it is irreparable, then you can only accept the reality, what you have to do is not to let another person who loves you, or another relationship repeat the same mistakes, you have hurt one person, do not continue to hurt another person, as long as you do not fall in one place, the second time is worth forgiving.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you love too much, you do unforgivable things, and love that you like too much is more fragile.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I would be very sad to be in this situation, but I didn't want to do it from the bottom of my heart, so you can think about why it has become like this.

    You can try your best to redeem it and be sincere, because it is not easy to meet someone you really love, and you must cherish it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let him pass what has passed, there is no way to change it, look forward and live well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is selfish, you don't get it, and you don't want others to get it, and that's the case with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you do this, you want to destroy it because you can't get it, and many people have this mentality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's just fate. There is no fate, it is all creation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've always been proud of myself. People in their 40s look like they're thirty-five or sixteen years old. I'm often asked for advice.

    Now, I have gained 130 pounds, and I have a big pie face every day without knowing it. Until one day, a child called me grandma. I was stunned.

    Since my husband died, I've become listless. I don't like to dress up, I never change when I go out to work in a work uniform every day, and I get used to wearing it like this, and others slowly accept my new self. That stylish and beautiful person is no longer me.

    In the eyes of outsiders, I am an inconspicuous middle-aged woman.

    I feel sorry for myself. I know very well that if you don't lose weight, there is no possibility of becoming beautiful at all. But once I get fat, it's really not easy to become slim again, and I don't have the motivation to become beautiful.

    Is there no love? If you lose love, will every woman become numb and sluggish? Is love really that magical?

    Anyway, I feel that no matter how beautiful I am, who can I show it to, anyway, no one will see it, so it doesn't matter whether I am beautiful or sloppy.

    I knew that I had low self-esteem, I was afraid to face a new life, and I was even more afraid to face men. I don't know what I'm rejecting, what I'm afraid of, what I'm avoiding. It's been seven years, I've been with my daughter, and I've been sad all the way. 。

    The rest of my life is not long, I look forward to miracles, I look forward to fate, but I refuse to create opportunities. I'm conflicted.

    I am a person who has been hurt by love, I long for Prime Minister Bai to cling to, and I long to hold hands and never give up. Xu was too serious, and I was even more afraid to touch it. Fear of losing it again.

    If life is beautiful, I think I will be even more beautiful. In this life, I don't know if there is still spring warmth and whether there are flowers blooming.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us.

    Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love. If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone.

    But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

    1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

    You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

    Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

    2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

    You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.

    3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!

    But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

    Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

    Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

    The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Forget what to do, just keep it in your heart, or don't think about it, when you have another unforgettable love, you will occasionally suddenly remember, ah, there was such a person before, hehe.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to forget her, then you should be separated from her, the distance between the two places is far away, and use time to kill your thoughts...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Chase it back, you can't give it up if you belong to yourself. And then slowly change her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Stay away from this woman, work, live, you will find that there is a better woman, not yours, and there is no way to force yourself, only to let another gradually replace her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ignore her, don't want her, enrich yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really love someone, you can accept the harm she has done to you, and ask yourself if you really love her. Is it because you want to escape when you encounter a problem, or because you don't really like this person in your heart?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You shouldn't give up so easily, no one will like a man who runs away when he encounters difficulties.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Delete her number. Disconnect.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're not a good man, and if you love her, you have to protect her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go and apologize to her and ask her for forgiveness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Greet! Compensation is not! Under Guarantee! Take action!!

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