Will the girl who sticks upside down really be looked down upon by her in laws?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on the situation.

    First, some boys are very good and have a very superior family background, but he has always been single, or has been in a relationship once and was hurt and took the initiative to choose to be single, in this case his parents will also be very anxious, so if you chase him backwards, his parents will be very happy, and even take the initiative to match the two of you together. Of course, the most important thing is that you are good enough to be a virtuous wife, otherwise your in-laws will treat you preferentially at first, but after a certain amount of time together, you will find that you have many shortcomings, and you will gradually lose hope in you, and even treat you coldly.

    Second, the man's conditions are not very good, but his parents have higher hearts than the sky, and they always think that their son should find a woman with better conditions. In this case, you can easily be ostracized by the other person. However, feelings are a matter of two people, and the most important thing is what kind of opinion your object has.

    If he can stand on your side and work hard with you to live a good life, then his parents' side will gradually loosen up. But if he is a man who has no ideas, then you should separate from him as soon as possible, in life, he listens to his parents in everything, and you will have a very hard time.

    Third, if your own conditions are very good, but the other party's parents are not satisfied, it can only mean that they are full of jealousy in their hearts, and they will try their best to suppress you. Because they know that their son is not good enough and thinks that he is not worthy of you. In this case, you have to think carefully about whether to continue with the other person, because the parents are not optimistic about their son, either they don't know him well enough, or he is really not good enough.

    So you have to watch carefully, think carefully, and leave decisively if he really has a problem.

    To sum up, it is not difficult to see that most of those mothers-in-law who treat their daughters-in-law badly make choices based on their sons' personal circumstances. This also reflects some of the qualities of the person you are dealing with, so you must be cautious.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    will definitely be looked down upon by your in-laws, because people live with dignity, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to handle.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think so, girls can't take the initiative to post upside down, so that men not only don't cherish it, but also their in-laws will look down on it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The girl who sticks upside down will not be looked down upon by her mother-in-law's family, and if her mother-in-law is sensible, she will be very grateful to you, because you don't want to reduce the burden on the family in nothing, which is a sign of love for her son.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's really easy to be looked down upon, because it makes people feel cheap.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think so. Some people are more open-minded, and they don't look down on such girls.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because men and women are equal, the girl who is upside down will definitely be looked down upon by her in-laws, because he thinks that he is willing to follow the girl without paying, so she will look down on you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think that the upside-down girl will not necessarily be looked down upon by the in-laws, sometimes, as long as you use your sincerity to impress the in-laws, you will slowly establish a certain dignity in the minds of the in-laws.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inherently mutually restrictive, and this is also related.

    The mother-in-law is afraid that her daughter-in-law will abduct her son, and from the mother-in-law's point of view, her son is more important than the object.

    In addition, the daughter-in-law has no money, the mother-in-law is afraid that the daughter-in-law will spend all of her son's money, and most of the father-in-law listens to the mother-in-law, so she will be looked down upon.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Every mother-in-law wants to be good for her son, and wants to find a wife for her son who can help, not to find trouble.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Women must not marry upside down, will make the in-laws look down on you, will not cherish you, feelings are not charity, marry 2 million and be beaten, your experience is indeed sympathetic, but everything has exceptions, your experience is just an accident, everyone wants to get married for life, mutual understanding and tolerance, is the true meaning of marriage, the water is clear, there is no fish to use in ** are appropriate, get along well, it is better to keep a family, I wish you success.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feelings can also be charitable, being looked down upon by your in-laws, not cherishing you, and being beaten for marrying 2 million, all because you didn't find the right person, and if you find a boy who loves you, don't take the blame for charity. When a woman meets someone who loves herself, she can post it upside down and do charity, the key is that you have to keep your eyes open and get married only when you see it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your thinking is extreme, it's a minority. It's too rare to be beaten for marrying 2 million yuan like you. What kind of husband and in-laws did you meet?

    Regardless of whether you accompany the family or not, domestic violence is not advisable. If it doesn't work, just break up. One more point, although you went home 2 million.

    Did you do something wrong when you were being abused? Are you too strong? Is it because you lost 2 million yuan and looked down on your in-laws?

    It's always a feeling of being on top. It is understandable to be subjected to domestic violence in this way. If not these.

    You're just like a normal normal girl. Husbands and children live well. Approachable.

    Be empathetic. If you are abused like this. Then you break up and get a divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No matter how much you post upside down, no matter whether you post upside down or not, if you can't get along well with your family, they still look down on you and won't cherish you, you can only look down on yourself, you can only correct your position, so that they can understand your status in their family.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What is the situation, the actual beating and whether to marry or not, it doesn't matter how much you marry, it can only show that you can find a scumbag, it is too rare for a man to beat his wife, so get a divorce quickly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It can only be said that you are unladylike when you meet someone. In fact, it has nothing to do with whether you marry or not. However, I don't agree with the marriage, so I don't have to give it to my daughter with so much fanfare.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think this kind of thing is almost zero, if you have money, it's okay to post it upside down, but it's all a manifestation of incompetent people, or the woman's family is super rich, some people may not have money to manage their finances, not necessarily rich is noble character, and being a low-key person will be respected by others, otherwise no matter how much money there is, it will be in vain!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't even think about the man who asked me to post it upside down...

    Ordinary men simply don't let women post upside down. The one that will be upside down is generally not used to using women as meal tickets.。。。

    I advise you. Encourage him to work hard or develop his abilities...

    Otherwise, such a man doesn't have to follow. It's not that you can't do it without money. Rather, a man should at least have the heart and behavior of wanting his woman to be happy. It doesn't matter if you don't have money now. Don't want a lot of money either. But at least give a good attitude ...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because this kind of non-bride price may give the in-laws a feeling that you are upside down, after all, the bride price is a custom, so even if you want a little bride price, don't want a bride price at all!Imagine that the girl herself is for love, not for the bride price, so she found this male friend, but she was considered worthless by the family, and this type of girl is better if she finds a sensible in-law, but if the mother-in-law's thinking is relatively backward, she will often think that the girl's behavior is frivolous, even if she doesn't want the bride price, she will be upside down, so it is easy to be looked down upon by others.

    For the bride price, I think there are many families who hate it, and it can be said that the bride price does not know how much love has been ruined. The bride price is the bitterness of the bride and groom. Don't want the bride price to be looked down upon by the in-laws, the more the bride price, the more the in-laws can afford it.

    From what I've observed, there seem to be quite a few people who support this view. There seems to be such a habit in the countryside, that is, to get less than the bride price of anyone's daughter-in-law, and then cast a wave of envious eyes. If you don't want a bride price to marry a rural village, there will be such a rumor.

    Whose child really has his own, he found a daughter-in-law and didn't ask for a bride price

    Therefore, in my opinion, no matter how much a woman loves her boyfriend, she should never do without the bride price, and the amount of the bride price can be based on the man's local bride price customs, and their own local bride price customs to do a synthesis,It's best to take an intermediate value, don't ask for too high, and don't want too low. Otherwise, it may make the in-laws feel uncomfortable. In addition, when a woman asks for bride price money, she must find out whether she can get along with her future in-laws in the process, and don't wait until she gets married to find that she can't get along with her in-laws.

    Of course, if a woman and her future husband are more affectionate and don't care about whether they get along with her in-laws, it's best not to get too close to her in-laws' family after marriage, otherwise it is easy to trigger conflicts.

    To tell the truth, the bride price before marriage is a custom that has been handed down since ancient times, and it is a method for men and women to test each other before marriage, and it should be taken very seriously。If a woman thinks that love trumps everything, then the way to avoid conflicts with her in-laws after marriage is to stay away and not have conflicts head-on. As for whether the in-laws can afford it or not, it doesn't matter, after all, living a good life is the most important thing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You don't want a bride price to marry into his family. Not only does his family not appreciate you, but they look down on you, which shows that your mother-in-law thinks you are worthless. So I don't take you seriously.

    It didn't cost much to think about it, and if you left, people could talk about it. If you marry him, you will ask him for 100,000. 200,000.

    He doesn't feel sorry for you, he also cares about money.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Feudal thoughts, don't have much contact.

    The logic of this matter is: the more bride price you have, the less easy it is, and the less bride price, the easier it is. Even if you get it easily, you don't cherish it.

    This kind of logic doesn't make sense.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    How did you come to this conclusion, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be fair because of the bride price, as long as this daughter-in-law has the right to speak at home, will the mother-in-law still look down on this daughter-in-law. If you don't have money and can't swallow your anger and don't go out to do things, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law won't get along well, so that your mother-in-law doesn't look down on you, and others won't be able to stand it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If a woman marries, she has to ask for it, and don't be thought by her in-laws that if you don't marry her, you will be worthless, so they will look down on you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because you didn't spend a penny to go home, your in-laws don't think you're worth anything. Even if they get divorced, they don't lose the bride price.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You said that the woman doesn't want a bride price, but after marriage, she is looked down upon by her in-laws, first, this logical way of thinking is incorrect, is it true that the in-laws who want a bride price must be able to afford it? Second, the in-laws can afford or look down on it, and it has nothing to do with the bride price, and they tolerate each other according to the relationship and mutual understanding of the two people.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your in-laws will think that you are very casual, and you came here without spending money, and you must look down on you more or less in your heart!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't bride price, your mother-in-law will think that you are worthless, and you will post it upside down.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because marriage is generally a dowry, if you don't want a dowry, it will be like giving it away for nothing.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The days are spent by the two of you, and if you look down on them, you will go back less except for the New Year's holidays.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Girls having children out of wedlock will make their in-laws look down on them, mainly because their in-laws think that you are very good, so they will not cherish you, which is very wrong behavior, and it should be a little difficult for girls.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's true. Because many people now think that girls who have children out of wedlock are members of their family, it doesn't matter how much bride price is given, whether they want to hold a grand marriage ceremony.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, at least there are a lot of such things in this era, and they are used to it, and they don't feel ashamed or looked down upon, it's not good to let the in-laws hug their grandchildren early, and it's too late for the in-laws to be happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Now in this society, everyone advocates the freedom of love and marriage, and now we have no prejudice against this, I don't think we will be looked down upon by my in-laws, after all, they are all grandsons and grandchildren.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not like this, the current society is different from the past, it is relatively open, and my mother-in-law will not look down on it because of such a thing.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If a girl really has a child out of wedlock, maybe in the eyes of many people, she will really be looked down upon by her in-laws, and we girls must have self-respect and self-love to learn to respect ourselves.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, some in-laws will think that this girl is not self-loving, and think that she is her own son, so she will be looked down upon by her in-laws.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    For people nowadays, this situation will indeed be looked down upon by the in-laws. Therefore, girls should learn self-love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If a girl gives birth to a child out of wedlock, in the eyes of her in-laws, she is a manifestation of self-love, and she will be looked down upon by her in-laws.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The more traditional the family, the more likely it will be, and the mother-in-law will be a little difficult at the beginning, but it will get better later. However, there are many enlightened parents nowadays, and it is normal to get pregnant out of wedlock.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There will still be this possibility, and the current mother-in-law is relatively more like the kind of girl who is more secure.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think this is just the previous opinion, although the situation is really not good, but I believe that as long as the man is good to you, then everything is not a problem.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    will definitely be looked down upon by the in-laws, because the in-laws think that such a woman is very indecent.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's really very aggrieved, maybe it's useless to pay a bride price, so it has no status in this family.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When the woman entered the man's house in the hand. The man's parents will feel that they are not bullying, no matter what, they will not leave you, and they will often be ridiculed.

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