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I just don't want to stay at my in-laws' house, and I don't want to go back to my hometown. Actually, it wasn't like that before. Including when I first got married before I got married, I was very happy whether I went back to my in-laws' house or my parents' house.

Before, I used to be with my mom and mother-in-law to see what they were doing, and as long as I went back, they would do it for me. By the way. I think my mother and mother-in-law have a good relationship.

However, the doctor told me that during pregnancy, especially the month before birth. Amniotic fluid.

A lot, and gestational hypertension.

What is said here, grandma didn't have ** when she was pregnant. I knew about moving, going to the hospital for checkups, etc., and I didn't care about it once. At that time, my mother often asked **, but her attitude towards my grandmother changed a little. A little disappointed.

After that, I went to the hospital to give birth. The grandmother was finally stopped by her husband's beating, but she didn't know what she was doing. You can't coax your child. It was also useless for the hostess in the evening. Confined.

I only care about sleeping by myself. Didn't care at all.

So I brought the child myself, and I was so tired that I was dying. She doesn't care about once either. Who wants to go back in this situation?

And I think the mother is a typical patriarchal and inferior thinking, and her daughter is married. She couldn't worry. A daughter can't be compared to a son, so she doesn't want to take the child to discuss or pay.

Then, if you meet someone, do you plan to bring your daughter's children? When I asked, I said firmly. "I can't take you there. There are sons. If grandma can't bring it, please bring it yourself. 」

I've heard a lot of that. It's true. Although the sadness is light, I really don't want to talk to her about it.

So take your time and get friends together. Or even at home, don't want to go back to your hometown or hometown. It's yourself who gets lost. I'm also tired when I go back, so it's best not to go back. The family is not as simple as living together, and now the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife are not easy to solve. Going back to your parents' house can't solve the problem, you still have to face the contradictions of life with your husband, after all, you are the ones who want to spend the second half of your life together!

The main reason for reluctance to return to the mother-in-law's house is that it is easy to have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there is also a gap with the mother-in-law and father-in-law. I don't want to go back to my parents' house because I am afraid that my parents will think that I have been wronged, and I have something to do with my parents.

There is no sense of belonging in the in-law's house, it is difficult to integrate, and in the mother's house is treated as a guest, and there is no sense of home, so a woman will feel lonely after marriage.

It's because I can't fully integrate into my mother-in-law's family after a short time together, and my mother's family often goes back for fear that my parents will worry when I get married, so both sides are unwilling to stay.

It shows that I am not very happy and happy in both places, so I don't want to go anywhere, I just want to have my own independent space.

It is because women feel that their family life is happier and that they will be more free in their own family, so they don't want to go to anyone's house.

Why do women rarely return to their parents' homes after they get married?

It is because after marriage, women want to have their own independent home. I want to live a two-person life with my husband and I don't want to be disturbed by others.

This is normal, women have no home after getting married, and it is no longer the home where you grew up when you were a child, and now your mother's family is a brother's home, and your mother's family instinctively protects her nephews and nieces, and when dealing with various contradictions, she also instinctively protects her inside, women are just guests to her mother's family, and she can never go back, and her mother-in-law's family is like an outsider, she can't melt in, she can't stay, only her own small family is the real master, a free and easy life, each has its own life without contradictions, and put your mind on that small family, once a woman gets married, The center of gravity will involuntarily bias to the side of your in-laws, because you are married, have your own small family, you have grown up, you should have the ability to take charge of yourself, whether some things should be done, how to do it, you should have a number in your heart. When you get married, you are no longer an independent individual, although you are still your parents' little padded jacket, but you still have to fight for your own small family, and you don't have much time and energy to think about your mother's family. And since the moment you got married, from the moment you got married, from your heart, you have been estranged from your mother's family.

After that, you will put all your thoughts on your little family, and naturally you will not pay too much attention to the affairs of your mother's family.

Reality does not allow you to do this, now the times are progressing rapidly, and the pressure is also very great, you get married means that you are an adult, you can no longer reach out to your parents to ask for money, and if you have children, you and I will be mothers, you will care more about the children and your small family. For the busy family life, you still want to spend more time with your children when you have a little free time, and your family of three still wants to go out to play, ** will think of your mother's home. What can be done is to give your parents a little more money, but your parents don't lack your money, they just want your company, after all, family affection can not be measured by gold debate and money.

Over time, the relationship with his mother's family will be estranged.

Hello! 1.After getting married, women will devote more time and energy to their new family, such as taking care of children, taking care of housework, and accompanying their husbands, resulting in them not having much time and opportunities to spend with their families.

Over time, women will find themselves drifting away from their parents.

2.After a woman gets married, her natural growth and life circle changesWith the growth of age and the change of the living environment, the social circle and life circle of women have gradually changed. After getting married and having children, a woman would make friends with other mothers, party, communicate, take care of children, etc., and these people and events gradually filled her life, making her less connected with her mother's family.

3.Conflicts between a woman and her mother-in-law after marriageIn some cases, there will be some conflicts in the relationship between women and their mother-in-law, causing them to be reluctant to return to their parents' home. For example, the mother-in-law does not like the son-in-law's family, or the woman disagrees with the mother-in-law, which can cause the woman to be reluctant to contact her mother's family.

4.After the woman Liang Yan got married, she preferred her own family, and women would also begin to establish a relatively independent life and family with their own family. Compared with her mother's family, she is more willing to devote more attention and energy to her family, so that she will feel that her mother's family is gradually becoming strange.

First, I don't want my parents to see my situation.

Second, marrying far away, it is inconvenient for Xunxian to go back to his parents' home.

Third, the daughter who married out spilled out the water Heng Changyin.

Fourth, the mother's family is patriarchal.

Fifth, going back to her parents' house without anything means that her daughter's marriage has a problem.

Sixth, the daughter is a guest when she returns to her parents' house, and the brothers and concubines are difficult to get along with.

Seventh, it is not the daughter who alienates her mother's family, it is the parents who treat their daughter as an outsider first.

Eighth, the mother's family treated her grandson unfairly, which made her daughter feel cold.

In fact, after a woman gets married, she should also contact her mother's family more, even if she is not doing well, or if she was unhappy with her family earlier, as long as she is coquettish with her parents more, it will always ease up.

But I also hope that these women can live their current lives, others dislike you and abandon you, and at the same time, you must also learn to protect yourself bravely and make yourself stronger and stronger.