Why do I want to live alone now when I m married?

Guang Lao's point of view: this phenomenon is a more common marital state among only children, they have been used to living alone since childhood, and the living conditions before marriage are often better, with their own independent room, and they have a sense of security for their privacy protection. After getting married, two people living in the same room immediately felt that their privacy was not effectively protected, so they wanted to live more comfortably alone.

In this regard, Guang Lao suggested that after marriage, you can live in separate rooms, and after completing your husband and wife life, you can live in your own room, so that you can meet your needs alone, and you can also meet the needs of husband and wife at the same time.

You are escaping, after all, getting married is a life for two people, and there will always be bumps and bumps in life, and there is a run-in process. It's completely different from living alone. You don't want to face the problems and conflicts that come with your family.

The ideal is not the same as the reality, which leads to inadaptability. On the contrary, I feel that it is good before marriage, so I will want to live alone after marriage.

Answer: It means that this marriage has not brought you satisfaction, on the contrary, it may be that your current life is a mess, and you have not seen the other party's sense of responsibility and career.

Maybe it's not happy after marriage.

If you're married but have another person in mind all the time, it can be very bothersome and upsetting for you. Here are some suggestions that I hope you find helpful:

1.Acknowledge your feelings: Don't try to suppress or deny your feelings, as this will only bother you more. Instead, acknowledging your feelings and trying to understand them can help you deal with the situation better.

2.Seek support: Talk to a friend, family member, or marriage counselor about your feelings, who can provide you with support and understanding.

3.Explore marital issues: Be honest with your spouse about your problems and try to find a solution to the case to strengthen your relationship.

4.Keep your distance: If you have to stay in touch with that person, try reducing contact with them to reduce your upset.

5.Seek professional help: If you feel that you have no trouble dealing with this problem, or if your actions have started to affect your marriage, then seeking professional help is the best option.

Whatever you choose, remember to respect your marital relationship and take appropriate action to deal with the situation.

First of all, you should recognize the reality, they are married, you should not continue to think about them, but try to control your feelings, don't let yourself be moved, find a way to change your thinking, and don't let yourself be burdened by this emotion. In addition, you can also actively arrange your work and life, and try to have as little contact with them as possible, so as to avoid troubles between you and them. In the end, you can go and find a new love and put your heart and soul into it, not an unattainable dream.

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The reason is simple......Marriage is not happy.

If the marriage is happy, the husband and wife are loving, and the family is harmonious, then the small life will be very nourishing, and you will never think about how a person is.

This matter should be done rationally! Definitely not impulsive! Otherwise, the situation will get worse!

Why did I get married at that time, it was because love and marriage were still attractive. Now that I have been married for more than ten years, the novelty of love and marriage has long been gone, so I want to live a single life and live a quiet life alone. Quiet is quiet, all living beings, there should be many such people.

You may not know their lives, and the loneliness in your heart is always with you, and that is not something that everyone can bear. You may be living in too small a circle, so you should make some friends, travel with your family, arrange more activities with other people, and spend less time alone.

Emotional frustration is not because the other person doesn't love you enough.

It's because it's been a long time since you've been together to talk properly.

I know the troubles of life, I am annoyed, tired, and I just want to hide from reality!

Not satisfied with married life? It is not easy to manage your marriage with your heart, and it is not easy to live a good life.

When the people around you get married, it will affect your thoughts, at least you will feel that you have indeed reached a marriageable age, and you will feel that it is time to find a partner. Someone else got married because she found the person she felt right, and it didn't matter if she wanted to get married or not. If it weren't for the people I love and love myself, I'd rather be lacking than ragged, lest I hurt others and myself in a rough shot, which is very hurtful.

Who says a woman has to get married? A person is also very good, if you meet someone who feels right, not to mention that you want to get married when you see someone else getting married, and you must marry because you fall in love and want to be with him, and the marriage is happy and beautiful. Because there is a good emotional foundation in it, we can share weal and sorrow.

But I have to say that most people nowadays pay attention to external conditions such as money, status, and status, and I think their marriage is probably not because they got married. When I was young, I got married because I really fell in love and wanted to be together, and when I was old, I would get married because I got married, and the requirements were not so high, just find someone who felt the same. Getting married because of marriage, so that two people will not be happy, and it will delay each other's time, such a marriage makes there is no hope.

Marriage will only be happy if it is established in the case of the same heart, and such two envy individuals will trust and respect each other, otherwise they will only accompany the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with someone you like, every day is torture, and it can also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.

I can offer some possible answers from a general interpersonal and emotional perspective:

1.*Shared Experiences**: Shared experiences, whether happy or difficult, can deepen mutual understanding and affection.

It may be that during a difficult time together, you saw the tenacity and perseverance of your other half, and made up your mind to be with her.

2.*Mutual understanding and respect**: Understanding and respect are the foundation of a long-lasting relationship.

Your significant other may always be willing to listen to you, understand your thoughts and feelings, or respect your decisions and choices, which may make you feel incredibly comforted and warm enough to make up your mind to be with her.

3.*Her kindness and love**: Kindness and love are qualities that everyone enjoys.

If your significant other is always concerned about others, willing to help others, or shows selfless love for you, then this may make you deeply attracted to her and make up your mind to be with her.

4.*Shared Values and Goals**: If your significant other shares the same values and goals as you, and you can share your expectations for the future together and work together to achieve those goals, then this may make you feel at ease and stable and make up your mind to be with her.

Overall, making a decision to be with someone is usually based on deep emotion and understanding, as well as shared experiences and values.

Hello subject: I have a strong feeling when I see your description, that is, you want to be safe, and security is a person with you. When you're alone, you can be safe, alone in the house, alone in the house, alone in eating, alone in a book, alone in the movies. So the question is, what kind of trouble, or pressure, do two people bring you?

It's understandable that you want to go to a far place to go to college, and it's understandable that you want to have your own house, but when it comes to getting married, you are under pressure from the outside world, so you want to have a man who you won't suffer and have an interest relationship. What I feel is that you feel less in control of being with others, and you are afraid of accidents.

It's like a sense of distrust of the people around you and the world, although I don't know why you like someone so much, but it's also your way of life, but marriage is really not as simple as interests, because the man may ask you to have children, and then the elderly will have to take care of them together.

When you are ready for yourself, how about entering marriage again, if you like someone, then you will be alone, and when you meet the person who starts to make you look forward to the life of two people, then two people. If you don't will, you won't be wronged, you are very good. Best wishes

Because the people around you are married, and you are now talking about marriage, you will also follow everyone to find someone you like to marry.

Anxiety. Anxiety about yourself.

You don't have to envy others, live yourself as you want, and you are also the object of envy of others.