How do I say it, how do I say it in reality?

Your situation is the same as mine, and my girlfriend wants to give up on me, so the joke of our breakup, in fact, I just thought she was playing, but I didn't expect her to say to me every day, saying that she is not good-looking, help me introduce a beauty, be my girlfriend, let me give up her, I am often not very interested in her books, because she likes to lie, and she tells a lot of lies, so I don't believe much in what she said Later, that night, she said it to me again said that the family knew about our situation and did not agree with us being together, and said that she had a person she liked before, and that person came to her, so she had to give up on me and return to the man's side I know that if a person doesn't like you anymore, no matter how much you keep it, I can't get it, so I gave up on her, this is not the result I want, since you like someone else, then I wish you happiness, I would rather me be sad than you be sad

Just say that the family doesn't agree, and put all the blame on the family, so that he won't blame you.

Does your boss allow employees to interact with each other? It seems that in addition to changing boyfriends, there is still a need to change.

Upstairs, "I'd rather I'm sad than you sad" is great. But how many of us can willingly bear it?

Persuasion and not persuasion.

If you really have feelings for your boyfriend, why not work with him to try to change or convince the family? We can't go against our families, but we can try to change.

I know it's difficult, because there is a female friend who is facing this situation, and her boyfriend is facing a lot of eye pressure, but in the end, aren't the two still together? The key is to have the ability to love and hold on to love blessings!

You are such a thing. It's like confession.

I can tell you very solemnly. I've been through a lot.

First, the first point. This is also the most important point. First of all, you can't be timid. Be brave. Loving such a thing is mysterious. It's sacred.

Second, I won't dare to look at her when I face her. I've had this experience before. Remember my experience.

First of all. Look at her bravely. In this way, you will be a brave man in the eyes of others.

This can be done with your cheerfulness. Hide your timidity. It can have a good effect.

Three, if you are ready to confess. That's even more fearless. You could say that.

Because after all, we didn't meet. So don't be afraid.

Fourth, if you are accepted. You're good to go. You can ask her out to play. So that the feelings come out. Or in school. Just send her home.

Listen to me. All my experience. It's all for you. You have to look good. Don't fool me.

If you think about it, it is always an idea, and only by making it can you know the specific approach, do it bravely, and if you don't do it, how can you know the result?Maybe it's an opportunity, maybe it won't work out. In any case, if you don't try, you won't get results, you can only guess in your own heart, not all day.

Take a brave step forward and you'll know the answer.

I think, first of all, you should first confirm what is the probability of success after speaking, if "=50 , then you can tell him directly to her face, it is best not to give the other party any psychological preparation, just two sentences, "I may be in love with you!"."What about you?When saying this, it is best to approach the other party, give the other party psychological pressure, remember, the tone of the first sentence must be said like this, it is best not to omit a word, because this sentence is a back road you leave for yourself, if the other party stays in place and blushes, the confusing person She said nervously:

You're kidding!"Don't fool me" or something like that, then you have 80 percent chance of success. But if the other party doesn't care and rejects you, you can immediately distance yourself, and then pat him on the shoulder and say

Haha, stupid, just kidding you, don't really fall in love with me!Be relaxed when you say these things and don't let the other person see what you really think. If you have a <40 chance of success after confessing, then you can tell him online or in a text message that you are in love with him, because it is not face-to-face, and you will not be too nervous

Well, good luck!

Spoken language: The language used in everyday oral conversation (as opposed to "written language"), as the name suggests, is to speak, how to say it? In fact, this problem is really not a personal problem, many people, including many men, are particularly afraid of opening their mouths!

I've also read a lot of experts' articles, and when it comes to how to say this, I always say something that is not afraid to say wrong, don't be shy, and overcome my fear and other non-painful words, but the problem is that we all know this truth, but how can we break through this psychological barrier and make ourselves really not afraid?

1. After all, English is not the mother tongue, and it is not as fluent and natural as we speak Chinese. Therefore, I always feel awkward when I say it, for fear that others will hear and laugh at me. I was already unskilled, and the idea of being afraid of people's jokes made me even more nervous. The more this happens, the more I dare not say it.

2. The number of sentences in my head is too small, and I have learned a lot of words, but I can't organize them to achieve the purpose of expressing my thoughts at will, which brings difficulties to communication. Because when communicating, what you hear is passive, and you don't know what the other person will say, so you will be nervous, for fear that you can't speak or can't understand some words, which will produce nervousness, and nervousness will bring fear to people.

3. Maybe you have to deal with foreigners, although the streets are full of foreigners now, and they are also everywhere in TV and movies. However, if there is really a big foreign person standing in front of you, talking to you in English, you are really confused, because after all, the listening exercises you usually do are standard recordings, not daily speaking. There will be a big difference in intonation, voice, and tone.

4. When you don't have foreign friends, you want to go over and chat with those foreigners who are shopping, but you don't dare, because you are afraid that people will ignore you and have no face, and you are afraid that you will not understand what people say. Because they are very strangers to each other, let alone foreigners, it is the Chinese themselves who come forward to say hello without knowing each other on the street, and look at you with strange eyes like thieves one by one.

In short, it's better to go with the flow. First of all, you must practice your spoken English well, even if you pass the sixth level, it does not mean that your English level is high, so you have to read a lot of oral books and watch more original movies, the more life the better. Collect a lot of everyday conversations from the movie, and say them as skillfully as if they were your own name, and say them like "what."'s your name?

thank you!"That's natural, and then you have to say to your family, you're not shy to talk to your dad and mom, are you? You name a sentence in English, and you can tell them what you mean in Chinese.

This will also allow you to practice your Chinese-English swap. And then you say the same sentence to your best friend, because they don't laugh at you for being wrong, and everybody knows that speaking good English is a very good thing. In this way, if you say the same thing to different people, you will gradually feel less fearful and speak more naturally and fluently.

Since you can speak Chinese well with others, you must be able to speak English well.

If you want to learn to speak, you must overcome the nervousness and shyness, don't worry about whether what you say is in line with grammar and whether there is an organizational structure, as long as you break the embarrassment of speaking, you will not be far from success.

First of all, vocabulary and grammar are important to speak a beautiful spoken language. If you don't have enough vocabulary, you can't express yourself clearly. If you don't learn grammar, you will get pimples when you speak English, and you will keep making mistakes, which will make you unable to continue.

The most important thing in speaking is to be bold and not shy. In the final analysis, speaking is for communication, and if the other person can understand it, it will complete the task. So when talking to foreigners, don't pressure yourself, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, the other party generally understands. Even if you don't understand it, you can express it in another way.

The most natural reaction, just imagine how you react when you speak your native language.