A psychological problem with a boy who loves to fantasize

Hello, judging from your description, it can be seen that he likes the woman very much, because the woman's proposal to break up makes him feel insecure and can't get it in reality, so he hopes to satisfy what he can't achieve in reality through fantasy. In fact, he is the one who has been hurt the most about this relationship, and this kind of injury makes him feel unconfident, so he hopes to improve his self-confidence through fantasy.

In fact, he must have understood his own problems, but it was difficult for him to extricate himself from them.

At this time, we need everyone's guidance and help.

In fact, in this case, it is best for the woman to try to have less contact with the boy and not to contact him. (If you can still be good friends, doesn't that tell him that he still has a lot of hope to be together?) ）

After this, it is still difficult for the boy to forget the girl, and he may not forget it for a year or two. During this time, the boy has to set a big goal to achieve and accomplish. You don't put the experience emotionally. (We often struggle for someone or something for a long time, but when the goal is realistic, it changes from time to time).

Losing him will only allow you to meet your true partner sooner.

And why be sad about a passerby?

If you're still fantasizing, find someone to wake him up. Because when he is deceiving himself, he is tantamount to being beaten.

If he can't stand up, then he'll always have to be a boy! You can never become a mature man - a charming man who makes women nostalgic!

If you don't know how to let go, you won't get what you really need!

Women just like to give you hope and then break it.

Get used to it and see it clearly.

Beat him up and sober him up.

It is recommended that you try to socialize with boys.

has the ability to die and let him die next to him, watching him dare or not.

This is normal, boys and children are the same, teenagers are in a period of longing for a love, looking at classmates around who have boyfriends and girlfriends will be very envious and even jealous, coupled with the pressure of high school study, you will be very eager to have a opposite sex, longing for a sweet love, this is normal. As for the loneliness after getting out of the fantasy, the fantasy is very beautiful, immersed in the fantasy, you may have excellent grades, excellent appearance, and the opposite sex who loves you, and you will be very proud and satisfied in your heart, and feel that you are living in an ideal blueprint, but when you get out of the fantasy, you may find that you are not as perfect as in the fantasy, and others do not care about you as much as you in the fantasy, fancy you, in fact, you must know that at this age, fantasy is a very normal and common thing, a certain fantasy can help you regulate your mood and launch your imagination, Exercise your mind, but if you get too caught up in fantasies, you will become more and more dissatisfied with yourself and will lose confidence in yourself in the real world, which is not good.

Maybe you don't have a girlfriend, but you can improve yourself, be able to do your best to be outstanding, and take steps towards your fantasy self, if you fantasize that you have excellent grades, why not try to improve your grades, if you fantasize that your skills are cool, then you might as well go to the court,,, arrange your life reasonably, and make yourself better every step of the way. More brilliant.

I can tell you clearly, loneliness is because you feel that you are not good enough, not as good as your ideal self, the only way is to approach like your ideal self,,, when you become better and better, you have an appreciation for yourself,,, girls will also adore you and appreciate you very much. So, how can you feel lonely with such an excellent self?

Your age. It's normal to have this thought, but you should focus on studying and reading your favorite books. Divert your attention. Learn to be self-controlled. Slowly it will be fine! I wish you success!

That's because you don't have a girlfriend, so you'll be lonely.

Me too, but I'm a girl.