The problem of love rivals, what should I do if I meet a love rival in love?

If you want to prove that you can win the hearts of girls, you might as well choose to give up. After a long time, you will find that you don't love her at all, you just like the process of competition, and the result is not interesting to you. If you really have feelings for this girl, then you really have to be ready to give it all.

Start with her parents first, buy some gifts and desserts. Her parents like you, and you're half the battle. Then every year on the holiday send a text message or send a gift to the girl, and come up with some new surprise to move her.

I think this situation is likely to be that although she has a boyfriend, her parents don't agree with the two of them being together, and her parents are more thoughtful and realistic. Because I met a girl like this in my life, but in the end she and her boyfriend separated because of some problems other than their parents. So, I suggest that you tell the girl to be friends first, so that you can get to know each other more and see if she is someone you really like.

Don't do this kind of thing unless you really like her. There is no point in being angry for the sake of a moment.

The question is, do you like her or not?

Hehe, if she doesn't feel too bad about you, you can start with her as a friend first, if she really has a boyfriend, and you still think she is a good girl, then you have to change your mentality and be an ordinary friend, maybe you can change from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend in the future, or maybe you meet another, really the person you can date, there is nothing wrong with making more friends.

Love can't be forced.,If she likes you, she won't say that.。。。 If it feels right, there will be love, but you can't find it, you know?

It's a matter of fate, but it can't be ruled out that she deliberately provoked you like this. Believe in yourself and go through to the end, but prepare for the worst so that whatever the outcome, you can accept it!

In fact, it would be better to meet the girl yourself, in life, online. That way, you'll get to know each other a little bit better, and you'll know whether you're really in love or like it or just a little bit like. Like the blind date in this era, I think that since she went, it was not only her parents' meaning, but she also wanted to.

She politely rejected you, maybe she didn't like you, or she didn't know you well, so she was embarrassed to say it. She just said that someone was chasing her, but she didn't say she had a boyfriend, right, if you can be sure that you really like her and want to be with her, then be bold and chase her. As long as you work hard, there is nothing that cannot be done.

It seems that she doesn't like you, give up! If she really likes you, he won't say that, and besides, you haven't been in contact before, let alone have a deep relationship...So I advise you to give up! Don't ruin her feelings, it's yourself who will be sad in the end....

This suicidal your male self-esteem problem is nothing more than a matter of real liking.

Try to start with her as a friend, and you need to be patient, careful, and caring in the process. Don't give up, believe, and persist is victory.

You can't be impulsive about this kind of thing, think about it.

It depends on how much you like him, if you like it very much, you have to chase it without hesitation; Nothing is impossible.

Why didn't she say that she had a boyfriend, only that someone chased her. Instead of rejecting you outright

Be strong and don't care too much about others.

In love, there are many variables, people's minds will change, and sometimes feelings will fluctuate, and then it is very likely to meet a love rival. So how to deal with it when you meet a love rival? Here's my opinion.

First, the appearance of a rival means that he has entered the world of you and your lover. You can test your lover's attitude, or what he thinks. Sometimes the conversation between couples is very important, it is to open the window to each other's hearts.

By talking, you can figure out your lover's thoughts, see how he freezes the weight between you and your rival, and take his heart back. After all, you spend more time with him than your rival, and you know your lover's character better. Capture the hearts of lovers from the perspective of what you understand.

Second, don't engage in head-on conflict with your rivals. Smart people don't do impulsive things, and if you quarrel or fight directly with your rival, you may be the one who messes around in the eyes of your lover. But it doesn't mean that you have to run away when you meet a rival, but that you should not have a head-on conflict, and the lover may think that you don't care about him, but will attract his attention.

The rival in love will be solved.

Third, improve one's self-cultivation and ability. Many times you often say that no one can be relied on at a critical time, it is better to rely on yourself. I very much agree with this, even if two people fall in love and get married, the other party is likely to be unreliable.

Only by improving one's own ability, no matter how many rivals in love there are, they are not their opponents. If your ability is very low and you are not excellent in all aspects, once there is a rival in love, you must be very flustered when dealing with the problem and don't know what to do, but if your cultivation quality is high, in the face of this situation, your momentum will not allow you to lose to him. There is also in the process of falling in love or marriage, before these relationships, your thinking should be clear and avant-garde, don't rely too much on each other, you have to have a time when you fall in love and fall out of love, even if you get married and divorced, if you maintain this mentality, it happens that your love will be smoother.

In the process of falling in love, if you meet an opponent, you must make yourself better, so that you can win without a fight. Suffering from gains and losses, cowering will be preempted by the opponent.

Two people should adjust the way they get along with each other, even if they meet a rival, don't be too flustered, you can have a good communication with your partner, discuss countermeasures together, and the two of you should do more romantic things to consolidate your relationship.

When you encounter a rival in love, you must firmly hold the other party's heart and let the other party ignore the rival.

When you encounter a rival in love, you must firmly hold the other party's heart, and the other party ignores the rival.

1. Be generous and polite in the face of love rivals.

No matter what your rival does to pursue your girlfriend, there will always be a day when you will officially meet him. There is a saying that is very true, rivals in love must be very red when they see each other. But even if 10,000 divine beasts roar past in your heart, you must be polite and relaxed on the surface.

When you see a rival in love, you can greet him calmly, which is the basic manly demeanor you show in front of your girlfriend. Remember, you're only sure to win when you can't make the other person guess you. If you see a rival in love, you will shout, and you will not calmly want to rush up and beat someone, or you will face it coldly.

That can only show your stinginess and lack of self-confidence as a girl's boyfriend.

2. Strive to enhance personal charm.

When you have a rival in love, please don't mess with yourself. It's useless to always worry that your girlfriend will be snatched away, you have to work hard to improve your charm and make your girlfriend even more desperate for you. So how to improve your personal charm?

First of all, be self-motivated in your career and make your girlfriend confident in your future. Secondly, learn more to improve your skills or knowledge, knowledge will make your overall temperament different. No one will like an unmotivated boyfriend, let alone a boyfriend who will only be jealous in front of a rival.

You have to try to be better than your rival, so how can your girlfriend be snatched away?

Trust your partner enough.

When you are constantly suspicious of your other half, your likability will plummet, and it will even cause conflicts between you. And once these contradictions are linked to trust, then it is difficult to resolve. Most of the end is to break up, not to mention whether the other half will be good with the rival, at least people will not be with you!

So when a rival in love appears, you have to show your tolerance and generosity, and you have to trust the other person. For example, when you ask your partner if she is interested in your rival, and your partner gives you a negative answer, then you can rest assured.

Many boys will belittle their rivals to nothing in front of their girlfriends when they encounter them. This is completely unnecessary, and it will also cause disgust among girls, no matter what method the other person takes to pursue your girlfriend. You also have to take some proactive actions to show your love for her and show your confidence in your relationship.

The most important thing is to make your girlfriend feel that you are much better than your love rival. In this way, how can rivals in love have a chance?

When you meet a rival in love, don't directly tell the girl not to be with the rival, or directly say bad things about the rival, which will deduct points for yourself.

Introduce a better one to your rival, let him love others, and don't come to your dishes.

There are other suitors in love, and I think it is very necessary to tell the other in general, be honest with each other, and respect each other, so that the relationship will be stronger.

Mutual tolerance. Couples must learn to tolerate each other, if the two can't tolerate each other, then it will be difficult to maintain, so both men and women must learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

No one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings and advantages, we can learn to develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, tolerate each other's shortcomings, understand each other, sit down with two people on the side, and communicate well face-to-face, so that we can avoid quarrels and sublimation, mutual understanding and tolerance.

Empathy. Sometimes we have to put ourselves in the other person's shoes. For example, girls are more likely to get angry, so boys can think about Qihu from the perspective of girls.

But girls sometimes have to stand in the man's understanding to see the problem, as a boy has also paid a lot to understand the girl, he also has his own pressure, if the girl can think like this, then the two people can understand each other.

Develop a common hobby.

When two people get along together, they must have common hobbies, and even if they don't, they must learn to cultivate them, otherwise the two will have no common topics together, and they will feel that life is very monotonous, and in the end, it will be possible for the two parties to not be able to interact and understand.

Therefore, two people can walk together, it is best to have a common hobby, so that life will become richer, and both parties can also interact and understand each other well.