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To be honest, I often quarrel with my boyfriend and say "this is the last time, let's break up," and every time we have a violent fight, every time I make up my mind to break up. My boyfriend also thinks every time, I'm so good to you, why do you break up, it's just a white-eyed wolf who can't be fed.
Do you know why you broke up? Anyway, the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend was that he was not motivated, didn't work hard, didn't care about me, couldn't meet my requirements, and although he always said that he was good to me, he did very little. Stingy, bad-tempered, sometimes rude to me.
Want to know how we reconciled? It's his dead face. Cheeky to coax me, occasionally bitter. That's the trick. 、
Now we're married. Naked marriage. Actually, I don't ask him for anything, as long as he really treats me for a long time. I'm sure your girlfriend thinks the same way, I just need to find someone who is good enough for me and has mine in my heart.
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Soft grinding hard bubbles, bear all the mistakes--- will not break up. She's being coquettish. Good luck with all your might!
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There are only two words: admit your mistake and add three more words; Be sincere.
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First of all, you have to be clear about why she is angry.
What is the reason?
Then you can deal with your relationship.
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It's all like that, and it will be fine after a while.
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In the process of falling in love, many couples will have conflicts, and when couples have disputes, men will often choose to apologize and admit their mistakes first. This behavior is correct in getting along, but if you blindly admit your mistakes without knowing what is right and wrong, your girlfriend is likely to be "spoiled" by you. I have taken the initiative to apologize for breaking up with my girlfriend because of trivial matters, why is she still unwilling to forgive me?
1. Attitude towards apologies.
There is a common misunderstanding about the part of the apology. They believe that an apology, if expressed well enough, can directly serve as a compound. This expectation is really too high.
If you apologize with this expectation, it is easy for your ex to see through your intention to get back together, giving the impression that your apology is purposeful and insincere. Recovery consists of a chain of steps. Some people need to apologize for their situation, but that doesn't mean that just an apology is needed to save the relationship.
The purpose of an apology is simply to let your ex know that you are aware of the seriousness of your mistakes and problems, that you are deeply sorry for the hurt and grievances caused to them by your mistakes, and that you understand their decision to break up. Maybe your ex has forgiven you but still won't get back together, or maybe he still can't think about it and is resistant to you. But as soon as you've completed this step, you've laid a good foundation for recovery.
Don't be discouraged or directly judge the failure because your ex apologizes for indifference.
2. About the way of apology.
Many people will apologize to their ex by sending a large text to their ex, which is very discouraged, because on the one hand, the text is very pale, and it is neither warm nor convincing across the screen; On the other hand, no one has the patience to read an ex's tirade, and even if you do, you won't fully understand what you mean. It's best to apologize sincerely and concisely in person, keep a firm look, and don't delay the communication process. Take the initiative to end the conversation after apologizing, give your ex time to digest and think, and avoid the suspicion that you are entangled.
Once the apology session is over, you can follow the recovery plan to take the next step, such as whether to disconnect moderately, or prove your sincerity with practical actions, and you need to push the process forward.
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It may be because you have too many conflicts with your girlfriend, or your girlfriend has a big temper, or it may be that your girlfriend doesn't know how to empathize, so she doesn't forgive you.
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Because the other party has been disappointed in you and thinks that you are a very unreliable person, they don't want to be with you.
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Because there are some things that there is no way to forgive, and you don't pay attention to the details of your girlfriend's life, even apologizing is useless.
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It's because you feel that the two of you don't have a common topic, and even if the two of you get along, they will break up because of some small things.
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Summary. If he didn't go, then you blamed him. I have to show an attitude to redeem it. What you said probably him off. It could also be his response to you when he gets angry. Not really the idea of breaking up.
My girlfriend broke up and said I still can't forgive you. Let it go.
Hello dear, have you encountered some unpleasant things, can you share it with the teacher specifically. Let's analyze and analyze together, shall we?
The girlfriend offered to break up. Then we do have to reflect on ourselves. If you have indeed hurt the other party. Then we have to show sincerity. Exchange your sincerity for your girlfriend's forgiveness.
During my relationship for four years, I went home on a blind date, agreed twice, and received a red envelope! Before the Chinese New Year this year, he said that his family arranged a blind date for her again! I had a fight with her and said a lot of bad things about her!
Love also requires perseverance. If you still love each other. Let's just explain a little more. Giving up is not a wise choice.
The blind date arranged by the key family, did she go?
If she goes, it means that you are not yet a marriage partner in his mind.
If he didn't go, then you blamed him. I have to show an attitude to redeem it. What you said probably him off. It could also be his response to you when he gets angry. Not really the idea of breaking up.
Let's message and chat with the blind date now! Her family is in a special situation! Dad was sentenced to twenty years in prison! Mom is not in good health! There is no other economy at home**! Mom has a subsistence allowance.
In any case, you must be clear and tough.
Don't be ambiguous, and make peace when it should be, and break it when it should be broken.
Love is selfish, but it still has to follow what your own heart really thinks.
She's now messaging and chatting with her blind date! What am I going to do.
Are you together now, dear?
Work together! I sent her a message that read-only and didn't reply! Everywhere I can appear, they're sneaking at me! My colleague has seen it many times.
I suggest you find a suitable opportunity to communicate with him.
It is better to communicate in person with sincerity.
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If you break up, I really want to say, I'm sorry, this is a good relationship but I can't hold on. It's really sad that I always feel like there's no future between you. I really know that if I still love you, I will continue to love you, but I will not give up, and I will even love you even more.
It's just that I can't face that you don't love me, and I don't dare to face this problem in the future. This is an irreparable regret. I know you said that a breakup will also have a bad impact on me!
1.I know you love me very much, but I didn't want to continue this relationship, I just wanted me to grow up slowly, and then slowly learn to take care of myself, but I couldn't face the fact that she didn't love me, and I didn't dare to face this problem in the future.
Actually, I am very grateful for your help to me in my most difficult time, although you have said many times not to give up this hope, but I have never dared to face it, and now I finally say give up, so I apologize to you. In my heart I have always been you, you are the person I love the most but I can't continue to love. If it weren't for this separation, I would still have taken care of you every day as before, and now I've forgotten how happy that day was!
Thank you! I really think I'm so stupid and naïve.
2.I know the reason the two of you broke up was because you hadn't hung out together for too long, too long.
I know I can't stand this, I can't accept this and that between you. I'm sorry I can't hang out with you, but I'd like to say it's not a reason I can't accept it. I think I'll try to find your own happiness after you break up, not because I'm friends with other girls.
I hope you don't go back in the future because of this dismantling of the pure thing. I'm sure you won't be separated again.
3.If one day you really don't be together anymore, I hope I can be like you, after spending a long time with you, you will slowly become mature and rational to face everything, and then learn to let go.
I want to thank you for your continued tolerance and understanding, I thank you for giving me so much and I really know to cherish what I have now. I will continue to face all kinds of difficulties in life with you, and you should not have any attitude of not expecting me. I'm also sad that you regret that I made a lot of impulses before.
I know you're not the reason and motivation for me to be with you for long, because really loving you is really loving you now. I also hope that you can come together again one day! Thank you!
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