In the TV series Parents Love , why didn t Lao Ding, who likes cultural people , dare not marry T

The subjective element of not wanting to marry is greater than the element of objectively not daring to marry.

Synopsis

Before liberation, Jiang Defu (played by Guo Tao) and An Jie (played by Mei Ting) are really two people who can't have a relationship. One of them is a young, promising, capable and resolute naval officer, and the other is a pampered, charming and luxurious capitalist lady since childhood, but the vicissitudes of life in the 50s of the 20th century brought the two together. Jiang Defu met the beautiful An Jie at the ball, although he was reckless and an illiterate old man, after some twists and turns, they finally formed a small family with mismatched ingredients.

The problem is not only the background, but also their respective experience, education and attitude towards life, in the years that followed, they fought and quarreled, which became the norm in the family, and there were characters like Jiang Dehua (played by Liu Lin) who added fuel to it.

This is a typical case of the fathers' ordinary and somewhat special, what keeps them tightly together is not only love, but also...

Because Lao Ding is still a little selfish, although Teacher Ge is educated, her composition was very bad in that era, and if Lao Ding marries her, it may affect his future.

Because Mr. Ge is a very traditional woman, and he also came to the island because he was punished at that time, many places are not suitable for Lao Ding.

Because it is not suitable, Lao Ding knows in his heart that he is uneducated and is not worthy of marrying Teacher Ge, and when Lao Ding met someone he liked, he dispelled the idea of marrying Teacher Ge.

Because Lao Ding loves the future more than Mr. Ge. But I think it's understandable, everyone has their own ambitions. Love is not a necessity for Lao Ding.

Because Mr. Ge's composition is not good, the above puts pressure on Lao Ding, if he marries Mr. Ge, he will lose his position in the army, his family is half grown children, he will definitely not lose his military position because of a woman with bad composition and can't help him, this is human nature and instinct.

Lao Ding wanted to marry Teacher Ge, but Teacher Ge was not good, if Lao Ding married Teacher Ge, it would affect his future, so Lao Ding did not marry Teacher Ge, which was a regret in his heart, but in the end, both of them had a good ending and found a suitable other half.

Because Lao Ding feels that Mr. Ge is not the best partner in life, although he likes Mr. Ge, he is still very realistic and knows that there is a big gap between the two people.

Since the release of the drama "Parents' Love", many people have been touched because of the real and moving plot, and many viewers have been fans of the actors in this drama. Lao Ding in the drama "Parents' Love" has always been envious and jealous that Jiang Defu can marry a wife like An Jie who is beautiful, cultured and emotional!

In fact, at the beginning of the play, Lao Ding was not envious of Jiang Defu, and he never thought of marrying a literate wife, everything started when Jiang Defu moved next door to them. He looked at Jiang Defu's wife An Jie next door, who could appreciate Western literature and eat Western food elegantly. And his wife, Wang Xiu'e, can only teach the children to swear, and the dinner table is full of Henan local dialects.

Faced with such a huge gap, Lao Ding realized how important it was to marry a literate wife.

Later, his wife Wang Xiu'e had four unfortunate births and finally died. When he was thinking about getting married again, he wanted to make up for his previous shortcomings, so he first had a cultured and beautiful teacher Ge, and then a cultured Wu Yizhu, but in the end he chose the uneducated Jiang Dehua, why is this? Why can't Lao Ding marry a literate wife, only Jiang Defu can?

In fact, Lao Ding can't marry a literate wife for the following reasons:First, Lao Ding is not as lucky as Jiang Defu. When Jiang Defu married An Jie, he got the consent of the political commissar of the base, and he also retained his military status, although in his later promotion career, because of An Jie, he really had some losses, but he couldn't take all the good things for him.

When he got to Lao Ding, he didn't have such good luck, he met Commissar Wang, who had coveted Teacher Ge for a long time, Lao Ding wanted to "win people's love", so what can Commissar Wang do? Naturally, their marriage application will not be approved!

Second, Lao Ding is not as good as Jiang Defu. Even though Lao Ding's image in the play has always been in a good state and has been loved by the audience, it is still not as good as Defu, for example, Jiang Defu told An Jie about his marriage, Lao Ding was against it at that time, and it can be seen from this that Lao Ding is not sincere in Defu.

Third, Lao Ding can't sacrifice for love. In fact, An Jie's background in the play is not good, Jiang Defu didn't mind her, and in order to be able to marry her, he didn't hesitate to go home to farm, and he didn't care about any future or status, and Lao Ding was ignorant because Wu Yizhu was ignorant and didn't get married, which is understandable, but Teacher Ge and the two are also a good match, just because the above did not agree with Lao Ding, he gave up Teacher Ge.

In the final analysis, Lao Ding didn't give much in love, and naturally he couldn't marry a literate wife.

Parental love: Why can't Lao Ding marry a literate wife? In fact, he is not even worthy of Dehua.

I don't think Lao Ding is as persistent as Commander Jiang. So when I met someone like Mr. An, I missed it. Normal.

Because there is no Jiang Defu Guanda, there are still a few babies with them, and there should be no opportunity to contact women like An Jie.

Because the cultural level is low, there is no high-educated person to accept it, the common language of the two people is very important, and the living habits and cultural people have different ideas.

Because Lao Ding himself has no culture, and he is not rich, it is difficult to say.

Because Lao Ding is not a very good person, and his thinking is relatively feudal.

Because of his family relationship, the family culture is not high, so he is like this.

Maybe it's because he's poor, older and less educated.

This has a lot to do with myself, maybe because Lao Ding's culture is not high, and I haven't watched this TV.

Because in terms of his personal ability, those who are literate do not like him very much.

Maybe his education level is not high, and she is not liked by others.

An Jie is very right, a widower with a child will treat him as a treasure.

Because those who are literate look down on him, and his character is not very good.

It is the need of the script, and it is easy to marry a daughter-in-law with Lao Ding's job level.

Maybe it's because I'm not educated, that's how it was in those days

I think it may be that educated girls don't look down on him, mainly because he is too cowardly and has a sloppy life.

In fact, in "Parents' Love", Lao Ding has always wanted to marry a literate wife, but he did not marry for various reasons. One of the biggest reasons is that he is worried about what impact he will have on the children if he takes off his military uniform and marries Teacher Ge, and whether others will poke his parents and his backbone when he returns to his hometown.

When Lao Ding wanted to report his marriage to Mr. Ge to his superiors, he was denied by his superiors, especially Deputy Political Commissar Wang. thinks that Lao Ding, as a cadre, has low consciousness and cannot marry Ge Meixia, who has a bad background, and has a bad impact. Because of the disagreement of the superiors, Lao Ding and Teacher Ge also broke up.

He told Jiang Defu that he was different from Jiang Defu before. Now he is old and young, his family has elderly parents to support, and his two children are still in the army. If he takes off his military uniform because of himself, then he will have to go home and farm.

He can't be selfish enough to endanger his parents and children for his own sake, so on the issue of Teacher Ge, he can only choose to give up and have no other way.

When Jiang Defu married his wife, he was single, and the whole family was not hungry when he fed himself, so he had no burden. When Lao Ding took his second wife, he was already very old, old and young, and he had a great burden. In case he is asked to go back to the countryside, let alone marry a wife, it will be difficult to eat.

Lao Ding was afraid. Lao Ding made a mistake during his tenure in school, and if he married Yuba's daughter again, he was afraid that he would not even be able to keep his military uniform.

Lao Ding is afraid that if he marries Ge Meixia, that day, there will be a bit of a stir, don't start a fire and affect his career?

This TV is saying that because the superiors did not agree with Lao Ding to marry Teacher Ge, Lao Ding couldn't let go of his career, his military uniform, and disagreed with the orders of his superiors.

Because the screenwriter arranged for Lao Ding not to marry Mr. Ge, if he marries Mr. Ge, he doesn't know how to write the plot in the next step.

I don't think he wants to or can't, because he is afraid that this will have a bad effect, he has too many concerns, and I think this is also a manifestation of not loving enough.

Because Mr. Ge is from a bad background, he is the daughter of a fishing tyrant on the island. After marrying her and returning home, I am afraid that it will affect my future promotion in the army, so Lao Ding did not dare to marry Teacher Ge.

Because of the terrible words, in that era, Lao Ding was a cadre with a good future, and Mr. Ge had a feudal background in the landlord class, which would affect Lao Ding's career, so Lao Ding did not dare to marry her.

It's because Mr. Ge's background is not good, and he can't joke about his future, after all, he is also a person who is old and young.

Because Teacher Ge at that time had a problem with the ingredients, Lao Ding didn't dare to marry her for the sake of his own future, in fact, Lao Ding was also quite cowardly.

It is precisely because he is a cultural person, and Mr. Ge's composition is not good, that Lao Ding is afraid of affecting his future, so he does not dare to marry Mr. Ge.

Because Teacher Ge's composition was not good, Lao Ding was afraid that he would be affected and affect his work prospects, so he retreated and did not dare to marry Teacher Ge.

Because Lao Ding was afraid that marrying Teacher Ge would affect his future, after all, Teacher Ge's background was not good.

Because even if he is a cultural person, he is not a person he likes, and he has many differences with himself, so he did not choose Mr. Ge in the end.

Because Lao Ding Zhendan's crush is An Jie. Teacher Ge must have just guessed that she was a beautiful woman who grew up in a fishing village, and in that special environment, she was submissive in her role, had a strong sense of inferiority, and her temperament and knowledge were not as good as Teacher An.

Because Lao Ding was afraid that he would fail Teacher Ge, and Lao Ding had been married, he didn't feel guilty in his heart.

Mr. Ge's father was a fish bully, and he belonged to a bad family at that time. Lao Ding was afraid that marrying Teacher Ge would affect his future career, so he was reluctant to marry her.

Because Mr. Ge's background is not good, under the circumstances at that time, if the two get married, it will affect Lao Ding's career, and Lao Ding is unwilling to lose his future for his relationship.

Because when Lao Ding mentioned to the organization that he wanted to marry Teacher Ge, he was rejected by the organization, and for the sake of his own future, he weighed it again and again, and chose to give up being with Teacher Ge, so he did not marry her.

I remember that it was because Mr. Ge's ingredients were not very good, and his superiors did not allow it, so he didn't get married.

Because Lao Ding has no chance with a cultured woman, except for bad luck. Lao Ding's conduct also has a lot to do with his work and cognition, and Lao Ding is just a layman in his bones.

Because he is not very good in his own right, the cultured people do not look down on him at all, and some of his ways of acting do not meet the appetite of the cultured people.