Can you help me analyze whether I should trust my husband?

Updated on workplace 2024-06-02
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now it's time to believe in your husband, but you have to pay attention to it, because I believe it because I look at the child's face, so I believe it for the time being.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Well, I think you still believe in him more, after so many years together, there is something that the two of them sit down and slowly say not to be changed by others.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If there is a conflict between friends or colleagues, or even between couples, the best way to deal with it is to keep silent first, then see what the other party says, and finally think about his thoughts, if you really do something wrong, then just like they apologize! If you don't make a mistake, think about it first, and husband and wife need to understand each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, I'm glad I also think that after reading your long narrative, I think that trust is mutual, you don't blindly trust him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If there is no conclusive evidence, it is best to believe the husband because the relationship between husband and wife is most afraid of not believing each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your husband still has feelings for you, and sometimes he cares more about you, you should trust your husband, and the two of you are a pair of lovers, so you can communicate with each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are already married and have children, you still have to trust your husband, and if there are some conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is inevitable to live a good life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is best for husband and wife to trust each other, your husband, as your closest person, should believe in him, if even you don't believe him, your relationship will have problems.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since two people come together, then try to trust each other, so that it is better for you to be between you, of course, at this time, you should also respond to the situation and think about it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you should believe in your husband, but at that time you should believe her, not doubt her, only in this way will your relationship be better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I read your text, I think you should believe your husband, your husband is a good husband, don't doubt that his family is the best.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's help me analyze whether I should trust my husband or not. You have to believe your husband, and if you admit that he is your husband, who else can you trust if you don't believe him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Well, if you believe it, you have to have a degree, you can believe him once, but can't you want to believe in him forever because of his own body after all? He's going to feel a dislike for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's best to believe in him, after all, it was because of believing in them in the first place. But, you can communicate with him well about your worries.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be too angry during the confinement, everything will be said after the confinement. His parents are like that, and the son is not much better, he has saved up all the words in his heart, and he has saved enough for a one-time outburst, find a few people who understand to listen, those who are interested can change, and those who are not interested can continue to be arrogant, you can consider cutting off contact with his parents, and there is no obligation to take care of them for the elderly, and everyone is you who are good to me, and I am willing to repay you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should still trust your husband a lot, so that you can build trust between the two of you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think now that you have become a family, whether you believe your husband or not? But in terms of the overall situation, I still have to take care of my face, but I still have to take care of it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not easy to see, but I think it's okay to believe what you shouldn't believe. Don't believe too much, still believe a little, but don't believe too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a long article, but you have to trust your husband. Because elders are your elders after all. Like your husband said, it's okay to get along with them with a smile.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After all, it's your husband, and I think it's still necessary to have a basic sense of trust, and you can test him later to see how he feels about you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let's help me divide it, should I trust my husband? I think you should trust your husband.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This question still depends on yourself, think more about what he thinks, and you will feel it slowly after a long time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think two people have to trust each other, otherwise such a family will not survive.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you still want to. Think carefully and don't believe it completely.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If this were me, I would not hesitate to believe him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If those two people are husband and wife, then I want you to choose to believe it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Generally uncertain.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since you're married, why don't you believe it?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why are you becoming more and more distrustful of your husband?

    That is enough to prove that your husband has a form in the details of his life that is difficult for you to understand, and it makes your thinking and consciousness vigilant, and you feel that you are not as relaxed with her as you used to be in your heart.

    In general, there are two possibilities for this psychological condition, the first is that your husband's life trajectory is changing silently, he needs to hide some things from you that he doesn't want to be known, he has a tendency to avoid you, and he doesn't even dare to look at your gaze, and the previous honesty has now become a little insincere, you don't find that he has bad deeds, but you are aware of it by feeling, your intuitive vision, is based on your husband's behavior to judge whether his changes in life are in line with common sense, So it means that your husband has already behaved unreasonably in your eyes, which makes you lose trust in him.

    Second, because of the work relationship, your husband often socializes outside and often does not come home, his shadow gradually blurs around you, he spends less and less time with you, and more and more people accompany him (especially women), so your spirit is depressed and becomes a little neurotic.

    Excessive sensitivity makes you think that he has betrayed you in all kinds of life behaviors, even though she is not as immoral as you think, even though he is still the same person, but you can't look at it with normal eyes, you can't understand him with normal thinking, how can you trust him? I advise you that it is necessary to calm your mind first. First of all, change the doubts in your mind objectively.

    And then face up to the psychological problems.

    I always hear such words "As soon as a man has money, he will become bad, no matter how honest he is", so if you have such worries, it is obvious that it should be a lack of self-confidence, and the conditions at home are getting older and better, and I personally feel that it is better to do what a wife should do, don't limit her husband's financial expenses too much, remember the sentence "**There is oppression, **there is resistance", and you should be willing to spend money to make yourself look better, and try to create some freshness in husband and wife life, it should not be so easy to be cold to each other.

    Good luck! Thank you! I don't know where this distrust comes from, he has the handle in your hands?

    Or is something breaking your heart? You should have a good talk with him, understand his true thoughts in his heart, and usually have multiple eyes, for the sake of the child and the family, and can live well.

    Because he hurt you! Think more about his good and forget about his bad! Care more about him! Honor the elderly!

    First, I have no opinions, and I have listened to gossip; Second, there is an unexpected "accident" in your relationship with him; Three, his behavior disappointed you.

    Maybe he lied to you, maybe he you were suspicious of him.

    I don't know why, how.

    Did he do something, or did you feel something was wrong with him?

    You say that you don't believe it anymore, that is, it has been precipitated after a period of time.

    It's not the result of one thing. You don't say why, let you guess?

    Why??? Saying why is it will help you analyze the problem.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The husband always distrusts the wife, and can deal with it like this: first of all, you must correct your own mentality, and don't affect your mentality and confidence in life because of the distrust of others. For women who have to work and support their families, the most important thing is to be strong inside, and without a good attitude, they will not be able to face the difficulties and setbacks in life, and thus they will not be able to properly deal with the problem of distrust of their husbands.

    02 The husband always doesn't trust that he can deal with it as a wife: if he hasn't done anything wrong, and there is nothing to be sorry for his husband, then tell the other party righteously, please don't continue to doubt himself, please keep trust in himself, because he is the closest person in his life, and he will not do anything sorry for him, distrust will only hurt the feelings and is not conducive to everyone's development.

    03 The husband always doesn't trust that he can deal with it as a wife: if there are indeed many things in his life that are not appropriate, he will let his husband distrust him the most, and he needs to take the initiative to admit his mistakes, and be brave to say it to the other party, promise to the other party, and in the future, he must pay attention to his words and deeds, let his husband rest assured, and let him see that it is right to trust him, and there is a reason.

    04 The husband always doesn't trust the wife to deal with it like this: find his relatives and friends to help persuade his husband, it is not easy for two people to live, there are old and young, and they support each other almost the same, mutual suspicion and distrust will only threaten the common family, and the children and the elderly will be implicated. So ask your trusted relatives and friends for help, and don't alarm the parents on both sides so that they don't worry.

    05 The husband always distrusts the wife and can deal with it like this: find a time to avoid children and the elderly, make an appointment to sit down with your husband and have a good chat about trust, and see why your husband always distrusts herself, whether she is not good enough, or wrong. It's best not to stay at home, because if you can't control your emotions at home, arguing will only make the problem worse.

    06 The husband always doesn't trust the wife to deal with it like this: quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, as a wife, you must learn to use your identity, when the husband doesn't trust herself, she quarrels with the other party with confidence, and makes the other party compromise with a reasonable and unforgiving posture, and then when the other party calms down, when you admit that you are sometimes in a bad mood, always make the other party angry, or provoke the other party, do not give each other some powerful hints, etc., resulting in misunderstanding between husband and wife, you will suspect, If you analyze the whole process openly and honestly, your feelings will deepen and you will not easily suspect each other in the future.

    07 My husband always doesn't trust that he can deal with it as a wife: no matter how hard he works, how he proves that he is wholeheartedly devoted to him and his family, and he pays wholeheartedly, his husband always can't let go, and even makes trouble unreasonably, even to the extreme point, he can only choose to leave temporarily, take the children, hide for a while, wait until the husband understands and come back, or choose to divorce.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then let him calm down and ignore him. Let him suffer a little loss, and he will know that his wife is right after a long lesson. It's all for his good. It's not okay if you don't have an opinion.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My wife usually talks too much, and my husband can't listen to it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why don't you calm down and think about whether what you say is emotional, whether it is correct? It depends on what it is.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't believe in it, why be together.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    <> "Not believing in your other half is a very painful feeling, and I've been there. When I encounter this situation, I try to stay sane and not take extreme actions.

    First of all, I try to figure out why my partner is distrustful, and I respect their feelings and try to understand their thoughts and emotions. This will allow you to better grasp what is happening with your partner and be able to better understand how the other half is feeling.

    Secondly, I will respect my partner's doubts, be patient and polite, and try to prove my truth with practical actions. This way, your partner will be able to trust you more easily and be better able to accept your explanations. In addition, it is necessary to accept the doubts of the other half, and to communicate fully, try to be honest with each other, and try to solve the problems of both parties.

    This way, both parties will be able to communicate more easily and will be able to better understand each other's thoughts and feelings. In addition, it is also necessary to pay attention to maintaining a certain degree of objectivity in the process of communication, and try to avoid emotionality, so as not to affect the communication between the two parties. Only through rational communication can the problems of both parties be better resolved, and the trust between the two parties can be restored.

    Thirdly, I can also try to solve the problem between the two parties through some external help, such as family, friends, etc., and be able to better restore the trust between the two parties. In this way, both parties can get to know each other better, better grasp each other's situation, and be able to better resolve issues between them through the help of a third party.

    Finally, both parties can also try some other ways, such as reading some books about marriage, or attending some marriage counseling courses, etc., to get to know each other better, better understand the thoughts and feelings of the other half, so as to better resolve the problems between the two parties.

    It is only through these methods that the problems between the two sides can be better resolved and the relationship between the two sides can be more stable and harmonious. Only when both parties are able to accept each other's differences, and are able to communicate and understand each other better, can a harmonious and stable relationship be truly achieved.

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