Because of me, what should I do if I feel that I am not good at sex and feel sorry for my girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
68 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You say it's because of you. I don't think I'm good at sex. I feel sorry for my girlfriend.

    Actually, this kind of thing. Don't feel pressured or burdened in your heart. You should also pay attention to the health of your body.

    In terms of food supplements, it should be carried out. Eat something that tonifies the kidneys. And, the main thing is not to have.

    Psychological stress. That's where emotions determine you. Sex.

    You feel sorry for your girlfriend. In fact, it is all a natural thing. You have to adjust your mentality.

    I want your feelings for life. It will definitely develop for the better. between you and your girlfriend.

    Love has feelings. It will definitely get happier and happier. You're happy.

    You will. Have a happy life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Sex is two-sided, for example, your performance is 3 minutes, but your girlfriend has gc, she feels very happy, comfortable, and that's enough, because both parties are happy, if you perform for 30 minutes or more, but your girlfriend doesn't feel it, that's also a failure, so what you say is not good, it's just that you personally think, I suggest that you must ask your girlfriend before doing other considerations.

    If your girlfriend complains to you, you can adjust the mentality of both parties appropriately, don't be pressured, a good woman will continue to encourage you, motivate you, and become more and more courageous.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is recommended to exercise actively**, sexual problems need to be examined through a regular hospital, and then actively cooperate**, this is not a big problem, and then compensate your girlfriend when you are better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You don't want to feel like you can't feel like you can't feel that way, and this feeling will affect you. Sister, since you have deep doubts about yourself, if you can't do that, you can do some tests and go to a regular hospital for some tests. If only physiologically, there is no problem, the mental aspect.

    Well, it's about to be self-defeating, and the key is to build up your confidence.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, this problem needs to improve your self-confidence, don't feel very sorry, this phenomenon is normal!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find out the reason, try to improve, and let go of the baggage of thoughts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas brother, if you can't do it, you can slowly recuperate, you have to do your best to be really worthy of your girlfriend, I suggest you buy some health care products to recuperate, Wan Kewei is very good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know how old you are, you know what it means to be okay and not to work, how does she know? It must be a person who has experienced non-wealth. Hearing her say that, I think she's just looking for an excuse to leave you.

    You can go to the hospital for a routine check-up to see if it doesn't cost much, if the body is normal then it is your own inner reason, then it is easy to do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She's already boring to you, if you say she doesn't love you, I'm going to say Huaxin, he can only say that it's not good, understand him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you break up just because of this, it is not true love, and it is not worth your love for her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should learn a little bit more about how to come first and then how to come and you don't come directly, in that case it will definitely be short.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to prove that you can do that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He doesn't want to spend time with you, just find a reason.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How can a man say no, be confident and her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Leave him, what does he like about you, and ask her if she loves you as a person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not true love, break up, she's not worthy of you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's still divided, or cuckolded in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The description is not very clear, to what extent, it is organic or technical can not be judged, this kind of thing is related to a lifetime of happiness, can not be avoided, it is best to go to a regular hospital to determine the cause, symptomatic**.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are still young, you can go to the doctor and start with the condition and find out the cause,**! Of course, there are some situations that can also be self-regulated, such as stamina is not good, hardness is not enough, such a situation can be strengthened by physical exercise, develop good work and rest habits, and supplement some nutrients to regulate physical functions, which should be able to achieve certain results; If the organ is too short, go to the doctor to see if you can use surgery to grow! But this is rare!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Charm infinitely increases masculinity, and if it doesn't work, it's rectified.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's okay, I think it's your girlfriend who is too vexatious, or he doesn't love you at all.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You are not physically strong enough, and generally Zhang Jian's men are also strong in that aspect, do more exercise.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Women need to be coaxed, you usually be humorous to her, you buy some tonic medicine behind her back, relax your mood, and take your time

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Oops, no, you're not as good as her ex-boyfriend

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No way! I can't help it, take some medicine and it will work.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you still have the face to say here? How big is the heart?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Forehead? If you can't do it, go to the hospital.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Sexual fantasies are normal, and you don't need to feel disgusted, but it just shows that your relationship is not only a complementary mental partner, but you also want to rely on her for physical problems.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's normal sexual fantasies, this kind of fantasy will be there for both men and women, but the men who show it are more direct, and the women are more reluctant to admit it, and there is no need to have a psychological burden.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's normal to have sexual hallucinations about your girlfriend, but if you don't have sex with others, you don't have to blame yourself, I think you have something wrong with your heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is just an instinctive reaction as a human being, **Can you use the word sorry? If you want to do something, ask your girlfriend if it's okay, just do it, is there anything else to say?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Man, this is too normal, as long as you don't feel sorry for people in the future.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The chromophobia is also very energetic, and the young man is energetic. Sexual fantasies about women are a normal psychological phenomenon.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's nothing if you have an established relationship between a man and a woman, you can ask her and tell her what you want! Give it a try!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's a normal thing, but being able to control it proves that you're still a good man.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's normal, if you don't have illusions about your girlfriend, you're not a good man.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm sorry for my girlfriend if I don't have this kind of fantasy about her!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Sex = eating, not excessive, nor lacking.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's normal, maybe your girlfriend thinks the same way you do, right?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's a little too dirty....

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    First of all, you have to ask yourself who you love the most, and then decide that after that, you should move on to the next step, according to what you said, the girl you love the most.

    Then, since you have chosen, it means giving up on the others, and giving up completely, forgetting about the other girls, and being as distant as possible; Don't look for other girls.

    Don't tell your girlfriend about this for the time being, and treat her well).

    After that, if you have all of these things in place, it depends on the situation. If it is necessary to tell her this, tell it; If it is necessary to keep it hidden, it will be a well-intentioned deception. If you want to tell, there must be foreshadowing, you need to create a warm and happy atmosphere first, and then be honest about these, if she really loves you, she should forgive you, but don't blindly say this without picking the time, place and environment.

    I'm more inclined to be honest, after all, it's between people who love each other).

    Think about it yourself, I hope you can be a good man, live up to the girl, and don't defile yourself!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Let's say, if you love her, this is something you have to confess sooner or later, long pain is better than short pain, she loves you and will not give up on you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's normal to be like this, but if you confess, you'll definitely regret it, and if you have a girlfriend before, you can confess, but it's better not to talk about it if you've been laid, or you will bear the consequences.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Keep this a secret forever, and don't explain it if you don't know, or she'll be very sad and think you're cheating on her or something.

    You lied to him, but now you know you're wrong

    Love her well in the future, I wish you happiness

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Don't make such mistakes again in the future, love her all the time, enough is enough.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    That's estranged and don't like it very much.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You must have something to attract her! Either the building near the water will get the moon first. Either you show up just right and your competitors don't have any, so you get ahead of the curve and you already have the high ground when they react.

    Realize that these are not enough, you have to improve yourself, work harder, be confident, be confident in your feelings, girls like confident men sometimes fate things are not clear. Since we are together, don't dwell on these, if you think you have shortcomings, try to improve if you can, and work hard in other aspects if you can't improve.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't be presumptuous, and don't overestimate the other person. If you don't feel worthy, try hard.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Love doesn't need a reason, it's a feeling for yourself.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Appearance is not the point, and in the eyes of the lover, you can also have specialties in other aspects, such as being aggressive, willing to learn, and being polite to others.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    This question is kind of interesting, why is it said after breaking up with an ex-girlfriend? That means that it was fine before you didn't break up, but now you suddenly feel that it's not as good as before? Are you comparing?

    Compare the current with the past? There's no need, if you break up, you have to open a point, it's all over, don't mention it, if you have a new girlfriend now, you have to treat people well, after all, people can't always live in memories, when it's okay, exercise more, don't have any mental baggage, bless your friends.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Blow this and say it again, and then go to the hospital to see, it's generally fine, don't watch the island country movie, the one in it either takes medicine, or it is filmed several times, it's not that strong at all, it's purely misleading.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    In fact, if you can't do that, just use the prelude to make up for it, think about it and you'll understand.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It shows that your girlfriend doesn't really love you, don't keep it.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Eat more aphrodisiacs, wild oats are recommended.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Eat Viagra! It definitely works!

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Haha, I'm dizzy, let's eat some maca.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    This one... You can buy some props...

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Don't even have confidence in yourself?

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Isn't your girlfriend very introverted?,Introverted girls generally don't know how to confess.,In all kinds of things, girls themselves will be reserved.,I don't think there's a big problem.,If your girlfriend has been like this since she met you.。 Otherwise, as the second floor said, I don't love you anymore.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Maybe it's frigidity, but it's not very reliable, I think I don't even think about you, and I'm stingy with hugs, so I shouldn't have feelings for you. I don't know how long you've been talking, but that's my opinion as a woman.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    This is not necessarily, it may be embarrassing.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Do you want to develop more? Always be reserved in the beginning.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Many girls are very reserved and afraid of ugliness, even if they have some needs, they won't show it, and it's not frigidity.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    There are two possibilities, 1. The personality is cold 2. The frigid nature is due to its own physiology, and this situation may be more serious after giving birth, and the mind is all on the child.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    If you are particularly active, you are afraid, right, so things are two-sided, you want her to take the initiative, but if she is too active, you will come up with other problems, generally boys take the initiative, you don't have to think too much, you take the initiative and she cooperates with you, it's okay, if you take the initiative and she doesn't cooperate, then it's another matter, brother dei, you see for yourself that you take the initiative and she cooperates, if you cooperate, you don't have to think too much, because most girls are passive, and a girl who is too active is too cheap.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    It should be more shy or reserved. It means that she is young or more traditional. You can talk to her calmly and ask her what she thinks or feels. I dare not say that she is cold.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-06

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