Now that I m engaged, I m always thinking about my previous partner, should I give up this relations

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When you don't like her, the other person's feelings for you will slowly fade.

    Thinking about the previous object, it is because the other party left some details in your mind, in fact, this kind of detail is just that, it is difficult to find a person who loves you, if the current boy is very good to you, and the conditions are very good, I think what you should do is to create a life, find out the shining point of the other party, and package each other at the same time, men need to be cultivated, if there is no cultivation that can make you nostalgic is generally not reliable, your choice is actually correct.

    Everyone imagines the original her, but these will basically be forgotten after marriage, because you will gradually find that talking about feelings actually requires responsibility, and it is especially important to cultivate the relationship between you, since you have chosen to get engaged, the other party may not only get your family's approval in some aspects, but also get your approval at the same time, don't always feel that men need some mystery, need a little bit of bad, need a little bit of romance, in fact, people who have entered the marriage hall have already let go of these, what they pursue is a kind of love from the heart, In fact, this kind of love can last forever.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to think about your future life, and you have to get used to different environments. Besides, you also have to think about how your former partner is feeling now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't think about the old ones. Once you are engaged, get used to this man.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. No, although it is said that children are now the basis for binding two people together, the probability of breaking up without having children is indeed high.

    We've been in love for almost three years, and we've been engaged for a year and then divorced, and my family has always disagreed with us being together, and I can't let go of this relationship, but it's very difficult to get back together (because we haven't had a child for two or three years).

    Why doesn't the family agree to you being together?

    The distance is mainly long, and secondly he is not pleasant.

    It turns out that it was because of your boyfriend's own problems and not objective problems.

    But what does the reunion have to do with the child?

    2, 3 years without children is the reason for whom.

    We haven't been pregnant for two or three years, so I think we will break up together in the future because we don't have children.

    No, although it is said that children are now the basis for binding two people together, the probability of breaking up without having children is indeed high.

    But in terms of feelings, it is still your feelings that are the most important.

    If you really have feelings for the other person, if the material conditions allow.

    It's okay to have no children.

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  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm very embarrassed to see your question, I feel like you're an ignorant woman, but as someone who came over, I'll give you some pertinent advice, and you'll experience it no matter how you go in the future:

    1) You are looking for your husband, not his family conditions, as long as he is really good to you, this is the most difficult thing in the world to find, if you give up, you will regret it 100% in the future, people are very realistic now, having a man who is sincere to you should be your blessing and should be cherished. 2) Our background is not chosen, your family conditions only represent the ability and merits of your parents, but if you don't work hard, you may be a loser in the future, no matter how good the family business is, you may not be able to toss, your end may be very bad, so don't use your family conditions to measure your love and marriage.

    3) Remember that our life is irreproducible and unrepeatable, don't look at this mountain and look at that mountain, the definition of happiness cannot be measured by money, so you don't know the blessing in the blessing.

    4) People should respect each other, in front of outsiders, you have to give him enough face for a man, he can be good to you for a lifetime, if you toss a man with human nature, he will leave you sooner or later, making you very faceless.

    5) The good or bad of the family only represents the past, your own struggle after the combination is really your own fruit and happiness, the good family conditions do not mean that you will be rich and happy in the future, you have to do it yourself!

    I sincerely bless you, you have to cultivate yourself well, cherish such a man, and go all the way, you will definitely be content and happy!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the conditions are good, you are not so good, you don't want to scold and scold, you want to quarrel, you must know that children from poor families can endure hardship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel like it's best for you not to get married now, because if you ask that, it means that you don't love your current boyfriend at all, just because he is good to you and makes you nostalgic.

    And a man with bad conditions wants to keep a woman for him to marry and have children or something, in addition to being good to her, can he come up with any other conditions? He didn't have anything else, so he had to be nice to her.

    If you really love him, it doesn't matter if the conditions are good or whatever, you just love him, so you can get married or get married naked.

    If you don't love him, forget it, after getting married, all kinds of troublesome things, chicken feathers, you will find that his good to you can't support your marriage at all, especially after marriage, the good man to the woman is not comparable to marriage at all, and it will be greatly discounted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to take pity on the man in front of you. You will be very happy in the future. I'm sure. Remember that I spoke today, thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It seems that you are indeed immature ...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What are you asking, everyone, if you want to marry, marry him. This kind of thing can only be decided for yourself. Remember @!

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