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There is no good in this world for no reason, it is easy to be good to others, there must be a plan, even if you don't have what you want, others will think so. This is an economic society, all your personal behaviors, including all the good to others, will be returned by others as they are, because others don't want to owe you favors, and the favors are not good.
Easy to be good to others, others will be afraid of the current society, people get along with each other very materialistic, you have a good point for me, I will also give you a point, there is only one purpose, I don't want to owe others favors. A few years ago, a sister once said to me, if you owe someone a favor, buy something for someone else, someone else accepts, or someone asks you for money, this is easy to solve. I'm afraid that the other party won't accept your money and wants you to repay the favor, but you can't afford to repay it.
Therefore, the mode of getting along in the adult world is not to treat a person easily, it will make the other party feel particularly scared, do you have a request for others? Others will also want to hurry up and return it to you.
I am good to others, and I hope others are good to me, I think no one in this society is so selfless, I just treat you well for no reason, I am very persistent in being good to you, is there such a person? In this world, only my parents can be good to me for no reason, and they will be good to me without asking for anything. Other than that, is there anyone else?
Including if I am good to others, I also hope that others will be good to me, and if others are not good to me, I will also feel very wronged. While I am good to him, I also hope that the other party will also be good to me. It's a report for a report.
No one is perfect, everyone expects the same reward for what they give, and so do I and you. But such people are usually unhappy, because others do not force you to say that you must be good to others, and being good to others is of your own volition, so you have no reason to force others, morally kidnap others.
When you take the initiative to be good to others, you also begin to be ready to accept grievances in your heart. So don't be easy to be nice to others, and don't easily accept that others are good to you, it's not for no reason, it's all conditional, in this world, only your parents will be good to you for no reason.
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Others pay 3 points to you, you return him 3 points, he pays you everything, of course, it is also worth our own help, some people you are good to him, after a long time he will take it for granted, one day a little thing does not follow him, you will become a bad person.
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Because you take the initiative to be good to others, you will often make some of your status looked down upon, and then you will easily lose some good things, and you will not be good at your own development and making friends.
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If you are easy to be nice to others, it will make others think that your good is particularly "cheap", and over time, this will become a matter of course. So don't do this, you'll get hurt.
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Because if you are easy to be nice to others, then you will appear to be cheap, and you will not let the other party cherish you.
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Being easy to be nice to others will make it seem that your good is cheap, and others will not take your good to heart, let alone care about your good.
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Be kind to others. See if the values of the two people are on the same channel, otherwise you will easily give and be despised by others.
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If you are easy to be nice to others, others will look down on you and think that you are a bully, but people still have to love themselves more.
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No. If you can treat others with sincerity, others will also treat you with sincerity, and people are kind.
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I think the price will be secretly marked. Because if you are good to others, others will measure and measure their value.
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The price should be marked, because they don't necessarily think that this is the truth, and they will feel that it is just a relationship of interest and needs to be returned.
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