What do you think about some parents being keen on gift giving?

I don't think it's appropriate to do this, and now we advocate equality for all, and we should put an end to backdoor behavior.

Gift-giving is a form of expression, as the saying goes, many people are not to blame, parents think that the gift is in place, the teacher will take more care of their children.

This is nothing more than blindly following the trend, and some parents are afraid that the teacher will not treat the child badly or lose face because he does not give gifts.

Disagree, but it is difficult to avoid it, Chinese parents generally believe that if they give gifts to others, others will be more attentive to their children.

Personally, I don't agree that teachers should teach and educate people is their job, and teachers are also the same.

I don't think this is a good behavior, and it is pushing the teacher into the abyss.

I think that in general, the purpose of giving gifts to teachers is different for everyone.

1.Most gifts to teachers may be due to the desire for teachers to take care of their children. But the teacher won't be particularly impressed with you just because you give a gift.

The teacher is also a human being, and he also has seven emotions and six desires, and he also needs firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you give a gift, he may say "don't, don't", and his heart is still happy.

After that, on the road, I met you and the child with a pleasant face, and asked questions once or twice in class, and that was also the case. Human nature is understandable.

But most of the time, that's the end of it. I will definitely not ignore the other thirty or forty children because of this, and focus on taking care of one of your family's only seedlings.

The teachers like and are most willing to get along with those children who have good conduct, do not cause trouble, and are motivated.

Teachers, the most trusted, are still those parents who communicate happily, can seriously cooperate with the teacher's work, and actively supervise their children's learning.

2.Some parents give gifts to teachers for many different purposes, Teacher's Day parents give gifts to teachers to thank teachers for taking care of their children, and on the other hand, they hope that teachers can pay more attention to their children in the future. Some people just want to thank the teacher, while others just want to please the teacher.

Everyone's purpose is different, and the gifts he gives are different.

3.In fact, most people give gifts to their teachers, and they are really grateful to the teachers for taking care of their children over the years or for so long. Your own children will definitely be more or less naughty at school, or when they need help from teachers.

Then it is a good time to use this Teacher's Day to express gratitude. Thank you to him for taking care of his children for so long. Many parents don't have this opportunity in normal times, so they are in a hurry to express their gratitude to teachers through a variety of gifts on Teacher's Day.

I applaud the parents who had the courage to refuse to participate in this activity, and should resolutely resist in the face of gift-giving, and never follow the crowd, this kind of behavior needs more encouragement. If it is an individual behavior of parents, I think it is acceptable to give gifts to teachers in order to thank them for their hard work, but if it is a collective gift, I am less supportive.

Respect for teachers = gifts and bribes?

In order to respect teachers and value education, instead of spending all their minds thinking about how to bribe, they can make some handmade gifts or cards for teachers by themselves. It not only increases the relationship between teachers and students, but also improves students' hands-on ability, and can express their gratitude and gratitude to teachers.

Respecting teachers is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. However, to equate respect for teachers with gifts to teachers, or even to regard gifts as the only way to respect teachers, is not to inherit the fine tradition, but to corrupt the fine tradition.

It is not denied that parents are grateful to teachers, and it is not excluded that they hope that teachers will be more dedicated to their children, but when pure gratitude turns into high-end cosmetics, this will become a taste.

As an extension of school education, the family should work with students to create a clean, clean and honest home-school relationship, and help students form a positive, healthy and harmonious world view, outlook on life, and values.

The person who takes the lead in giving gifts in the parent committee is a high-end player. One copy per person, it is everyone's business to contribute, and the benefits are the business of these people. The chain of contempt for gift-giving is as follows: the teacher - the parent committee who gives the gift - the parents who follow the gift-giver - the immature parents who resist the gift-giving.

The most non-existent sense of experience here is the parents who follow the gift-giver, a lot of money, and they can't get a good impression at all, just a "honest person who doesn't make trouble" impression, in other words, they can't leave an impression. Needless to say, Zhang Luo's parent committee for this kind of thing is all human beings, making a bureau that people dare not drill, leaving a prominent good impression on the teacher, and his children can't lose.

A little special is the parents who resist gift-giving, these people are indeed the most despised, but when it comes to affordability, it is much better than the volume kings. A bad impression is better than no impression, and the parent association or the teacher generally stays away from such parents. There is no retaliation, there is; Whether there is anything that people feel unprovoked, and there are, it mainly depends on the personality of the parents.

If you set up a bad persona, basically the family committee and teacher will never look for you anymore, and you will think too much about worrying about your child being retaliated against.

One side of the water, one side of the people. If there are more parents who are not easy to do and have the upper hand, the parent committee will not be able to get up, and the teacher will not count on it, and there will be no such thing as gift-giving; If there are more parents in the family, the family committee does not engage in nothing, and uses other people's money to do their own things, how much can be more pleasant in the world than this. In the final analysis, it is the Education Bureau that asks you to report it, and you must first dare to report it.

Like this kind of parent who is forced to withdraw from the group, which teacher dares to embarrass her child.

As a teacher, my role is to teach and educate and treat every student equally. In the face of parents' gifts, on the one hand, I have to stick to my principles and never accept them. On the other hand, I want to reassure parents that they are entrusting their children to me through my own actions.

Specifically, I will start from the following aspects: First, reject the parents as soon as possible and explain the reasons. I would like to express my gratitude to the parents of the students for their recognition of me, but ask them to take back the gift.

Because giving and receiving gifts is against the requirements of the regulations. I won't do anything that violates the rules. In addition to that, I will inform the parent that I understand his feelings.

Now there is indeed some bad atmosphere in the society, and I want to let me take care of and pay more attention to his children by giving gifts. But please rest assured that I will not affect my good or bad for my children because of whether I give gifts or not, please rest assured.

Secondly, communicate with parents about the situation of their children, and the town tour answers to do a good job of cooperating with home and school. In order to avoid any worries from parents, I will communicate with them about their children's performance in school. Including his grades, progress, shining points, and his problems, etc.

For example, in this exam, he has improved in mathematics, he is usually very willing to help his classmates, and he is good at sports, so it is recommended that parents can cultivate his interests and respect his hobbies. For example, he usually likes to slip and has a short attention span, so I will tell parents how to cultivate their children's attention in family education and stimulate their interest in learning. Through the above conversations, I will dispel the concerns of parents, let them know that my concern for my children will not change because of gifts, and let them understand who I am.

Finally, send parents away and communicate more. Parents have put down their worries and fully believe me, I will send them out of school and tell them that we need to keep in touch and pay attention to their children's development. I also hope that in the future education, parents will pay attention to the cultivation of love and the importance of companionship, rather than everything that is measured by material things.

This will allow the child to grow up in a healthier environment. After that, I will often contact parents to communicate with their children and work together for their children's growth.

This incident also taught me that I should interact more with students and communicate more with students' parents, so that everyone can understand each other better, so as to better promote learning and family cooperation, and create a better environment for children to grow up.

The local education bureau responded that it hoped that parents could take the initiative to resist unhealthy trends, and parents could report to the relevant departments if they found that someone borrowed various names and asked other parents to pool money to give gifts to teachers. The Education Bureau encourages parents to send blessings to teachers by texting and calling **, and there is no need to spend money on gifts.

However, despite the Education Bureau's reminder, there are still many parents who have the idea of giving gifts. Some teachers refuse to accept gifts, and parents send gifts directly by sending couriers or charging phone bills. Parents are also very embarrassed about what gifts to give, they can't afford to give them if they are expensive, and they seem to be insincere when they are cheap.

I remember giving a gift to a teacher more than ten years ago, it was just a card or a painting, and I don't know when giving gifts to teachers became a comparison. As a result, the reputation of teachers has been damaged, and many schools now ask students not to give gifts to teachers during holidays to avoid adverse effects. In this regard, I said that there are many ways for parents to express their gratitude to their teachers, but gift-giving is the most embarrassing one.

The specifics of this matter.

Every year on September 10 is Teacher's Day, before which there will be parents, or students who are worried about what gifts to give to teachers. There is a group of parents in Liuzhou, Guangxi Province to discuss sending Lancôme cosmetics to teachers, the cost is averaged by all parents, and each parent only needs to take out yuan. Immediately after the suggestion was made, one parent said that he would not participate, and then the parent was asked to leave the group chat on the grounds that everyone had a different perspective and would be disturbed if they stayed in the group.

It is understood that this parent group was established by a parent privately, and also took a very loud name "Parent Consultation Group".

In this regard, I said that since it is a discussion group, then every parent has the right to express their opinions, and when they disagree, they will be asked to leave the group chat, so there is no need for this discussion group to exist.