What to do if a friend is alienated from me 15

Friendship takes two people, but you can always take the initiative to contact him for a long time.

The world is small...

I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm just like you, hehe, maybe I'm because of fate, I regarded him as my best friend in high school, but I don't know what he thinks of me... Maybe just ordinary classmates? Hehe...

But in the past few days of vacation, I figured it out, friends have to gradually build friendship, and they don't necessarily have to be together every day.

Maybe everyone cares about this friendship, but we just think too much... You tell me?

Simply put it simply, trust each other, and I believe that as long as both of you are sincere, you will definitely become good friends.

Simple, life is beautiful!

See that your nickname is very similar to mine (the same name as me?). Hehe), it's the same year, I feel the same way, and I have fate. So I wrote so much for you... May you find true friendship! Come on!

Hehe, give me the share

There is a reason for the estrangement of the relationship, first see if you have changed, find out your own shortcomings and correct them, friends need to be together often, take the initiative to get close to her if you have nothing to do, chat more, increase some time together, and slowly become better friends!

Go and be tolerant with her! You apologize!

Find the cause to solve the problem! Ask the other students, maybe the authorities are confused?

Why is it estranged, find out why.

1. There is no constant contact.

Time can erase many things, and feelings can change over time. If two people don't have contact for a long time, they will slowly become strangers, and eventually they will even become speechless.

2. There is no human relationship.

Even if they are good friends, they need to be maintained with heart, and they can't just rely on feelings to maintain their relationship with each other. Therefore, if the corresponding favor is not in place, it will make friends unhappy, and slowly there will be estrangement, and finally they will naturally be estranged.

3. There is no interest at all.

Nowadays, everything is about interests, and the same is true for talking about friends, if a person has no value, then naturally no one wants to spend time to maintain a relationship with him, and it is useless to do it.

4. The circle is not blended.

Although they are friends, they will also have their own lives, and the life circles developed by two people are different, so the knowledge and interests they have will also change. In this way, both sides have no common language, and slowly they become estranged.

5. Changes in social status.

People are equal, but their identities are not equal. If a friend becomes rich and the other remains poor, then eventually the two will slowly drift apart. It's not necessarily because of interests or anything else, it's just that the levels are different and it's difficult to blend again.

6. The concept has changed.

Just like the three views in lovers and couples, friends also need to have similar concepts, if one is negative, the other is positive. With such a huge difference in ideas, it is also difficult to maintain a friendship relationship. Slow distancing is quite normal.

7. The mentality has changed.

Nowadays, life is too stressful, and slowly people's mentality will change, and there is no such great need for friends, even if there are no friends, it doesn't matter, because there are more important things such as family, children, and career. Therefore, friends are slowly estranged.

1. The entanglement of wealth and profitPure friendship is based on trust. Nowadays, people can't trust each other, and once there is a conflict of interest, they will break up unhappily. There are countless examples of friends who have faded or even broken off because of interest disputes.

2. Different values and like-mindedness are the ideal state of friends, but this situation is really not much, and there are often more daily exchanges between good friends. It's not a person all the way, and the way is different.

3. Personality differencesPersonality differences will produce psychological distance, two people with a distance in their hearts will be together, they will produce things they like, the other party does not like them, the other party has done a good thing for themselves, but they are very disgusted. After a long time, the friendship between the two quickly faded.

4. The actual distance is not seen for three days, and the change of people is really fast. No matter how good a friend is, if you don't see each other for a few years, you will reduce your trust and your feelings will become rusty because you don't know what each other has experienced. Fortunately, now that there is an Internet network, maybe it will ease a little.

5. Disrespect for each other and excessive understanding of each other's privacy are dignified, no matter how good the friendship is, we must respect each other, and the essence of interpersonal communication is to accurately grasp the scale. Especially the privacy of friends, don't ask what you shouldn't ask, don't say what you shouldn't say, otherwise, the other party will hate you very much, but you're embarrassed to say it, so you can only stay away from you, and distance yourself, understand?

6. Many people say that friends are used as tools, but this sentence is actually very long-term. In a person's life, what is most lacking is a confidant, a good bosom friend, which cannot be exchanged for gold and silver. If you all use the people around you as tools, who is more stupid than anyone else in this world?

Sooner or later, they will stay away from you, or even turn against you, disrupting your life everywhere. It is important to be a man with self-knowledge, don't take advantage of people, and then unload the mill and kill the donkey. Otherwise, if you look at history, this kind of person will not end well.

7. Mutual jealousyJealousy is the most common and most likely behavior to damage friendship, but it is also human nature. People's jealousy can only happen to the people around them, so when interacting with friends, try to be simple and simple, even if you are very powerful and rich, but if you want to make real friends, you must learn to bend down and interact with others on an equal footing, especially don't show off in front of friends.

2.You've done something that makes him unhappy, and he can't take it anymore.

3.Someone is saying bad things behind your back.

4.He found a better friend than you and you're just a spare tire5I encountered something that I thought I couldn't carry and didn't want to drag you down6I really hate you.

7.You're getting closer to someone else, and you're making your friend unhappy.