How do I get out of the past

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You are still young, don't be too anxious for the time being, and believe that time can ** everything. Don't force yourself to accept other girls, it's unfair to both of you, you just need to think about other important things in your life, such as family, such as career. You have to know that what you miss is not right, she may be the most special person in your life besides your mother, but in the future, you will slowly find that in fact, without her, your life will also go on.

    Especially if you are a boy, in addition to love, you also have responsibilities. Not in a year, then two years, three years, you are only 22 years old, what are you anxious about, if you can't forget, you won't forget, who can have a way to destroy those brain cells about her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, you are not waiting for her but you are angry, you don't know what life is, you don't understand that there are many, many things worth remembering in this world, why should you harm yourself, you yourself are the best psychiatrist, don't be entangled, if you can find someone who loves you, marry her, give her happiness, give yourself a way to live, I believe your life will be better, you said.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hey, the first time you fall out of love, there are only two ways for you to get out, one is a new love and the other is time. Men themselves are amorous creatures, and it is not unreasonable to forget old loves with new loves. Say something that might offend a fellow woman:

    Is it necessary for a man to be so unable to let go? Men should be confident, as long as you have the ability and economic strength, what kind of woman can you not find? A man who can't let go of the past is destined to be indecisive.

    Work hard, when you have the strength, you can choose what kind of woman you have, as for your ex-girlfriend, I have long forgotten that it is the green onion.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Did your girlfriend say goodbye? Are you waiting for her now, or do you want to forget about her?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What psychiatrist to see... Either find a new make-do, or just be a dink, I really can't stand to do it, how can there be no way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, you yourself are unwilling to let go of the past, only open your heart and open the lock in your heart. Keep the good of the past in your heart, accept and start a new relationship, don't run away, face is the root of the solution. In fact, it is very easy, and when you face it, you know that everything can pass.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget about her, it's better to meet her, you're sure to forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget about the previous and start over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello dear, if you haven't come out of the past for a long time, I think you can, well, go to the city you want to go to take a look, because you must not be relieved, you can go for a walk, you can look at other cities, and then you may understand something, and then you may slowly let go, you can also do something you like to do, or say what you want to do without trying some things.

    What to do if you can't get out of the past.

    Hello dear, if you haven't come out of the past for a long time, I think you can, well, go to the city you want to go to take a look, because you must not be relieved, you can go for a walk, you can look at other cities, and then you may understand something, and then you may slowly let go, you can also do something you like to do, or say what you want to do without trying some things.

    I'm anxious right now, and one thing has been making me unhappy and reminding myself that I'm suffering from insomnia.

    Can you tell us a little bit about what it is?

    If this matter has been entangled with me for a long time, it means that it has not been resolved, and it may be a matter in my heart.

    I work in a state-owned enterprise, work in a different place, I have been anxious recently, but I feel that I can adjust myself, suddenly the leader said that he would transfer me back to work at home, I suddenly became more anxious, and then I rejected the leader, now it seems that I will regret my anxiety no matter which choice I make, there is no clear direction.

    It's a foregone conclusion now, and it's impossible to change, but it's always in my heart.

    So then you regret it, right?

    Is it that after realizing it, I think that it would be better to go home and develop, and then I will feel very entangled and regret my choice.

    In fact, you can think about it, the moment you say no, it means that you don't want to go home and develop in your heart. In fact, this moment is the original decision of the heart. You can also think, if you don't have this choice, wouldn't it be the same as before?

    It's just that there is a choice that you miss, and sometimes you miss it not because it's wrong.

    I feel like it's a pity, because I think I'll face a new environment when I go back, and I feel more anxious when I think about it, and now this environment may be conducive to my state adjustment, but this is another rare opportunity, if I am given a choice, I still don't know how to choose, and I feel that I will be anxious about which choice, because what I want is that I have never had this thing.

    That's right, so everything has two sides, you can't always want to do both very well, you have to give up one, and the other can develop better.

    The platform doesn't allow you to add these, you can send me a private message.

    Because I had depression and anxiety before, I felt that I could regulate myself for a while, but this incident has been tormenting me, and I don't know whether to take medicine or not.

    If this is already disturbing sleep, I think you can go to the doctor and prescribe some medicine, because sleep is also very important, and if you don't get enough sleep, your mental state on the second day will definitely be bad.

    Actually, it doesn't matter, you have to think about it, it's just a small problem.

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