How do I get out of the house, the moment I walk out of the house, I should know that you are my hom

You don't want to go out and look for a job because you don't understand the labor market and you're scared.

In fact, you can find another friend to go out with you to find a job, so that you don't feel lonely and helpless.

Of course, if you don't want to run into a wall outside, you have to think carefully about what you are suitable for, what specialties you have, and prepare the materials for the interview!

It's just to find it, wow, talent network, job fairs to go more, I also stayed for a few months before I came out to find it, first as long as I can earn money, I have some savings to find a better job change, isn't it!

I am also an ordinary two colleges graduate, now in the CCCC Second Harbor Bureau, I want to tell you that the school is not the most important thing at all, the important thing is whether you really learn in the university, position yourself, you stay at home is never a job to find you, you have to go to the unit to apply, don't be afraid of failure, one of my classmates applied for 8 times to find a job, we all call him "noodle bully", but people's current work is as good as ours, hurry up and go out, resolutely not gnaw the old people! Good luck!

Two books are not good, people who have never studied are working hard outside, you are male and female, you are a man, this life is over. The family background is generally still in the nest of the family.

School doesn't tell you everything, it's just whether you want to work or not.

Nothing to do today. Last night, I watched a few **, talking about the poor high-achieving students at home gnawing the old, very emotional, once in school so good grades of children, out of the society but can not withstand any test, in the face of setbacks quickly retreated, choose to return home to gnaw the old, although their growth experience has a lot of ups and downs, and they have not received good care from their parents, but in the end to escape from society, closed at home, it is still not advisable.

I feel the same way. I guess I'm one of those people who read a little bit but failed in the worldly sense, didn't satisfy my parents, let alone be proud of me. But I made the right decision to leave home and work in the field.

After graduating, I worked in my hometown for two years, and I deeply felt that staying at home, being too close to my parents, it was easy to restrain each other, and it was difficult for each other, and I should have my own independent space. Although you can eat and live at home, you don't have to worry about food and shelter, but the price you pay is that your parents constantly interfere in your life and dress up poorly, saying that your work is not good and you should do that, saying that you want to get married early and don't be picky, saying that the person you talk to is not good or that is not good, and saying that you want to learn who and who ......All kinds of ideas are pressing on you, making you uncomfortable, not to mention, and even worse, making you gradually lose your ability to think and judge independently.

I left home at the end of 2020, and at that time, I was also affected by the epidemic, and my work at home was not going well, which strengthened my determination to go for an interview outside, but there were many obstacles. Even my boyfriend, when I first went to Guangdong, proposed to break up and couldn't accept a different place. At that time, I didn't have the spare energy to save anything, because the most important thing for me at the moment was to live my life well.

Fortunately, the result was not too bad, in fact, it was not as difficult to get out of the house as I thought, at least I gained an independent heart.

In addition, you should also be responsible for your own life, whether it is difficult or easy, you have to go through it yourself, whether it is good or bad, you should bear it yourself. Children who are not in good conditions and are so strong should realize that the conditions at home are limited and they can't give themselves too much help, so they should get out of the childish mentality of wanting to rely on the family, and don't blame and complain to the family when they are frustrated, which is a very naïve mentality. I heard the teacher also pointed out that such children have some naïve personality, they should realize that in addition to being influenced by the original family, they still have strong subjective initiative, we should pay attention to the power of self-growth, bravely explore the outside world, don't always be limited to their own small world, self-pity, feel that they can't achieve something is not good at home, this is not good.

After I watched **, I felt that I should also take precautions, always examine myself, and make myself independent, such as exercising, such as working and making money, such as choosing a mate and marriage, ......Come on, your life is your way, no matter what, move towards where you want to go.

I appreciate a passage from Yu Bo in "Thirty Only":

All those who choose to drift should know from the moment they walk out of the house that in the future, you will be their own home. ”

The failed original family is not exactly the "root of all evils" of your weak personality, emotional unhappiness, and career failure; A happy original family is not a big way for you to avoid chaos after you encounter setbacks.

The joys and sorrows of the first half of life are always difficult to get rid of the inertia of the original family.

But in the second half of the race, you can choose your own track, expand your ability, link resources, and run your own unique scenery!