My son, who was murdered by a teacher at school yesterday in the first grade, refused to go to schoo

I may have been scared, and I thought I was embarrassed in front of my classmates.

As a parent, you should understand the reasons why your child will be murdered by the teacher, and then, if the child makes a mistake, don't rush to blame, but slowly enlighten him and tell him why it's wrong to do that, after all, the child is still young, and many things can't tell right from wrong.

At the same time, let him know that his parents will always be on his side to support him, and if necessary, you can talk to the teacher and ask the teacher to be a little more gentle with the child.

You can also use this to educate your child, you can change your mistakes, and if you are obedient in the future, the teacher will like him, and your classmates will like him.

As a parent, we must ask the reason, understand the cause and effect, and communicate with the teacher in a timely manner while doing the child's ideological work, but pay attention to the wording. Good communication can make the teacher understand the reason why the child is tired of school without disgusting the child, and also lay a good foundation for the child to go to school happily. Be sure to communicate effectively!

1.Verify the truth and understand what happened. 2.Enlighten and guide children to communicate with teachers in a timely manner 3Encourage your child and tell him to distinguish between right and wrong.

When my son is in a bad mood, I will keep distracting him and make him happy. I hope you are happy every day.

Bootstrap it. Analyze the reason for his murder. Encourage him again.

Be sure to bootstrap it right.

Tell him that the teacher is murderous, and he is also doing better for him.

The teacher was also fierce because he liked him more.

I believe that he will do better than what he is doing now.

Talk to the teacher quickly, otherwise it will affect the child's psychological growth and produce boredom and fear, which is not good.

Take him to play The little ones will forget their troubles when they play.

The teacher's approach is inappropriate, it's only the first grade, so you must talk to the teacher.

The child is like this, as long as he reminds him of something happy at school, he forgets everything. Children are very forgetful of this kind of thing, just like the two children in the neighborhood who fought yesterday, they fought slowly and ruthlessly, and the next day they played and laughed. Children are like that, and they will be fine.

Summary. Hello, it is normal for children in the first grade to not be afraid of teachers, and teachers nowadays generally teach with kindness and mingle with children.

Hello, it is normal for children in the first grade to not be afraid of teachers, and teachers nowadays generally teach with kindness and mingle with children.

If you don't write your homework, it's better to be educated by your parents.

I don't use anything, it doesn't work, do you have a better way?

I've used everything, but it doesn't work, do you have a better way?

Hello, if you can't teach yourself, you can find a psychological counseling for your child.

It's just that he doesn't pay attention in class, he doesn't write quietly, and he is not afraid of Lao Zheng's teacher, he is beaten by the teacher every day, and every time he asks a question, he doesn't know what to ask. But when he goes home, he will write and shout Yunzhi, and now he has completed his homework at noon, which is not a child's problem, and may be related to his friends and family.

Whether it is the teacher's fault or the child's fault is not the most important issue, no matter which side it is on, the first grade child is still immature, naughty, but insecure, if it is a parent, I think, no matter what, you can't push the child to school, the child does not want to go to school, that is afraid of the teacher, he has lacked a part of the sense of security, if the parents do not protect him, although he can't say anything, but he will be very uncomfortable, which will have an impact on growth. So no matter whether the child is right or wrong, you are the child's parent, you have to take the responsibility, no matter what, the child is bullied by the teacher when he is beaten by the teacher, and a truly literate teacher will not beat the child. You have to shelter the child first, in front of the teacher you can't let the child feel like a cliff without a sense of security, you have to set up for the child

The notion that your parents are your strong backing. In this way, the child's heart will not be distorted, so that it will grow up normally. After stabilizing the child's heart, what we need is to deal with this matter, if the teacher is really bad, transfer to another school, after all, for the sake of the child can not prevent his growth because of a teacher, if the teacher says that he will not be corporal punishment in the future, it is still to be discussed in other ways, if the teacher is stubborn, transfer directly.

But no matter whether the teacher is right or wrong, you have to tell him that the teacher is actually for your own good, the teacher is because he cares about you and discipline you, the teacher is the teacher, and the teacher also has his majesty, otherwise the teacher is not a teacher, and he must correct his attitude towards the teacher. You also have to praise the child for being a good child, a good child should go to class well, respect the teacher, such a guide, you are honest and communicate with the child with the right attitude, I believe that the child will understand you and will go to school. After all, there is a strong kinship between parents and children, and children do not want their parents to be disappointed in him, because parents are the child's day.

Listen to the child's opinion, the child will not lie under normal circumstances, find out why the teacher hit him, listen to the teacher's opinion, and then deal with it. The child's fault, the child's apology, the teacher's problem, talk to the teacher. After you finish it, talk to your child well, no matter whose problem it is, don't be anxious about the child, if you are in a hurry, the child will have no idea.

It's better to enlighten him with words, or you'll leave a shadow. If it really doesn't work, it will be useful to go to a psychiatrist. It's a small thing, but it's a big impact. I hope you pay attention.

Lay out the facts and be reasonable. I still have to go to school, and I will show the broken teacher a good example.

Tell him that the teacher is for his good. Then ask the teacher to apologize.

Tell the teacher to buy a big pop candy to apologize,

Summary. Reasoning with a child is not that we, as parents, are on top to reprimand him.

We should be in the same position as him. Communicate with your child with the most peaceful mind.

Especially if your husband often beats him, his heart will be distorted. Because he knew that no matter what mistake he made, it would be solved with a beating, and he didn't know why he was beaten, and he didn't know why it wasn't right to do it.

My daughter is in the first grade of primary school, and she doesn't listen to the teacher at school, what should I do?

In this case, the first thing you need to do is to communicate with your child.

Ask why he didn't Lu You listen to the teacher, whether Bi Zhong didn't like this teacher, but he didn't like to go to school. Or the little hands around him, the friends of Sishan have a bad relationship with him.

So parents should enlighten him. Let him understand the importance of respecting his teacher. Let him know the importance of learning.

Is it a teacher for mental health counseling?

I am a mental health counselor.

The previous title is wrong, my son is now in the first grade, he doesn't abide by classroom discipline, to put it bluntly, he is not afraid of the teacher, which makes us very anxious.

The previous title is wrong, my son is now in the first grade, he doesn't abide by classroom discipline, to put it bluntly, he is not afraid of the teacher, which makes us very anxious.

The child is not afraid of the teacher, because the talk of the lead at home has been accustomed to spoiling. Then there is the education of the family. Children don't understand the principle of respecting teachers at all.

You should communicate your anxiety to your child well, and let him know that the teacher is teaching and solving doubts, and he is very envious of his future help. Learning knowledge that our teachers can teach to children. But the truth of being a human being still depends on our parents.

I brought it all myself, my husband went to work, and we didn't have to spoil him, if we were disobedient, we would both beat him, and the teachers often complained when we went to school.

Frequent hitting of children can sometimes cause psychological distortion in children. Therefore, parents still have to focus on teaching Mengjian to serve education, and Zhiwang let him understand the truth, beating him is not the goal, the purpose is to make him sensible. So it's more about communicating with him and communicating with him.

If you don't listen to him, my husband will beat him.

Reasoning with a child is not that we, as parents, are on top to reprimand him. We should be in the same position as him. Communicate with your child with the most peaceful mind.

Especially if your husband often beats him, his heart will be distorted. Because he knew that no matter what mistake he made, as long as he beat it, it would be solved violently, and he didn't know why he was beaten to the Xunqiao Bridge, and he didn't know why it was not right to do so.

Uh-huh, thank you, teacher.