I feel very sad that I have a boyfriend but I don t love me very carefully Do you want to continue

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    1.Is the loan to buy the house for their family, or for your wedding house?

    2.Since he mentioned that you should go home and tell your family about getting married, have you seen his family? Did he tell his family about your marriage?

    3.Or because of the limited economic conditions, so the boyfriend can rarely do more romantic things, and besides, he may have a woody personality, so he doesn't know what you call pity.

    4.Selling clothes is a long time and hard work, is it possible that because he came home and saw you sleeping, he had to play alone?

    5.If a woman wants to be considerate to a man, she must first be kind to a man.

    6.You're not young anymore, and you've been dating for 3 years, if at first, you think he's not good, why bother together, be sensible, think about it.

    7.He has no money now, it doesn't mean that he will always have no money in the future, as long as he is willing to work hard and struggle, he will still have money.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Mine is even more pathetic than you, I really mean to him, he still can't beat people at every turn, and a former girlfriend can't stop breaking, although most of the money on the salary is given to me, but I'm still not happy. Now I want to part with him, and he promised me everything that the money will be mine in the future, and I will definitely break up with that woman, but I can't say one day, I am very distressed, I love him very much to pay for him, why does he not know how to cherish it at all, I hate it. Now I have a male friend who is chasing me, he is super ugly and small, but he loves me very much, and he is very rich, and he is very generous to me, and I am full of thoughts about the person I love, what should I do...

    It's really difficult for such a thing, do you choose to love yourself or the person you love?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You will collapse sooner or later, this kind of person will not stand in the position of others for the sake of others, let it go as soon as possible, your personality is not suitable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Downstairs is right, he is insecure, you can try to talk to him, talk to his heart, say what is in his heart, let him know what you are thinking, so that he will not think so much, remember not to deceive him, you deceived him once, then it will bury suspicion for the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Two people frankly communicate thoughts and emotions in this regard, since you know that he is good to you, nervous about you, you should seriously consider, but also consider your own feelings for each other, two people together will always have estrangement, contradictions, you can put your feelings seriously and straightforwardly to each other to see, occasional communication of emotions or specific things is the best way to make two people get along happily and increase emotions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Scale, decide for yourself, which side is heavier, for the more suspicious object, you should take the initiative to avoid contact with men, from the root to dispel the other party's doubts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People who are too controlling should find someone who likes to be controlled.

    Obviously you are not, you have to enjoy considerate and good care, and naturally you have to pay the price of being controlled.

    There are two sides to everything.

    I am a man who believes freedom and freedom, and if you want to limit me, I don't want to be considerate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I thought you had too many boyfriends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That's because he doesn't feel safe enough ...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Women all have their own reasons for their choices. If you don't love it, you don't love it, and there's nothing inappropriate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You know best if shoes fit on your feet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't do irreversible things in a fit of rage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It might be better to think about the problem differently.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sometimes you only know to regret and cherish when you lose it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This kind of scumbag, hurry up and divide it. What are you waiting for?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Explain that you can't love his shortcomings, divide it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think the brother downstairs said it well, is it necessary for this kind of woman? She just depends on you to like her and be good to her, so she doesn't care all the time, you have to ignore her slowly, don't be too nice to her, she will naturally feel uncomfortable, and may come back to you. But I don't think it's necessary, this kind of girl with a boyfriend still enjoys other people's good ...... for grantedActually, there is nothing you can like.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    To be honest, look for a chance like this, and then talk about it after playing. There's no need to take a relationship, the road is still long, and what you encounter in the future is not necessarily, marriage is the highest choice for love, and if you are not married, you may not know when you will break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Does it mean a girl who likes a flower heart?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go after it. Let go and chase it, and if you miss it, it's a lifetime.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your first love, you chose a man who was not very good. What can you do now? Or break up, if you break up, the greatest value of this love to you is to teach you not to choose such a bad man in the future.

    Can you not break up? Strange, can you tolerate such a person without breaking up? Ignore it, and feel that there is and nothing are the same. You're still an introverted girl, and you're forced to take the initiative.

    I think that we want to fall in love, find a boyfriend, find a girlfriend, get married, etc., all because we all need a companion, a companion to accompany us through this life. Is this boyfriend you're looking for now still a boyfriend at all? That is, does he play the role of a boyfriend?

    Does he play the role of your "companion"? Since there is none, even if it is not explicitly said to break up, it is actually a "breakup".

    I appreciate your cherishment, I appreciate that you have been by his side for two years, and you still know how to cherish. However, I would say that you are stupid, and you have been stupid by his side for two years. You could have lived happier.

    It's right to know how to cherish, but don't you think it's a bit silly to use it on him? Isn't it worth it?

    Sometimes we are kind to people and say selfless dedication, at the very least, at least we have to ask for a sincere thank you, right? Now you are, being good to him, using your youth, and using your time, all of which are consumed on him, and he doesn't even say thank you. Do you think it's really worth it?

    I'd say you should let go of this one and find another one. I really think you're a good girl, there will be people who appreciate you, there will be people who are better than him, and there will be people who can be a more competent boyfriend by your side.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is a normal phenomenon Any couple can not escape the result of emotional decline after being together for a period of time, only the difference between the speed of decline and the maturity of people, some couples get along for a long time, but the relationship is still very harmonious, but it is certainly not as sweet as when they first contacted, but another couple who have been together for as long as their relationship will disappear very quickly This is the so-called length and shortness of the relationship fade.

    On the other hand, people don't see things the same way, and some people think that after a long period of time, the feelings fade by a certain amount, but those amounts are acceptable in his eyes, but after the same amount of feelings have passed, another person will feel like a bolt from the blue, unacceptable, and this is called the degree of receptivity of people.

    Landlord Feelings fade unstoppably I think when your boyfriend first got along with you, you were definitely the first game is nothing But why do you become less important after getting along for a long time It's that as the saying goes, when you get acquainted, feelings fade.

    If you really can't accept it, you talk to him and see if he can change it, and if he can't change it, then separate because you can't accept it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some boys just like the new and hate the old type, at first he thought you were cute and interesting, and after a while to get used to your character, he felt that there was no freshness at the beginning, so he left the girl aside, which is dispensable. Can't because he is your first love, you can't let go, let go, it doesn't mean that you are not single-minded, even if a person has talked about a lot of love, but he can take his feelings very seriously in love, he can't say that he is attentive, it can only mean that it is not suitable for him, not to mention that you are just the first love, people have to learn to grow, let go of a relationship, can teach you to learn a lot of things, the first love is to let go, in order to reminisce about the beauty of the beginning. There is still a long way to go in life, so why bother yourself for these things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The guy always likes to play, and when he thinks that you are his girlfriend, there is no problem, he is not worried, just like the money in the bank, then he continues to look for his happiness, such as playing games. In fact, boys of this age and who have fallen in love to this stage are like this, very casual. If you are too active, it will be a burden to him, and he will annoy you, which is also his psychology at this time, of course, this does not mean that he does not love you anymore, you say that he is very good to you when you are together, this is proof, because fun-loving people always need a lot of time and space, so they are lazy.

    When you get cold, you immediately take the initiative because he was a little scared, afraid that you would be angry, but when he saw that you came back quickly, he thought that it was okay, it must be that you were too busy, so he continued to relax and play with him.

    It's a man's nature to play, but you have to talk to him, promise to give him time to play, but he also gives you time to spend with you, otherwise you will bear the consequences, as long as he still loves you, I believe he will be a little more restrained.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's been a long time! A lot of things are familiar! I personally recommend! Take him around! Let him get back to the feeling of love he used to have! Maybe he has a third person!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe his love affair with you is over? The curiosity at the beginning often leads him to be very active, but after getting acquainted with you, he no longer has the enthusiasm that he started, and he feels that he has not played games with you! Since you think he is dispensable, then find a suitable opportunity and calmly propose to break up, which is good for both of you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You add me penguins, it's too much, it's not good to play here 1308950257

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hey、It's the same situation as LZ、

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    [Find some common topics, it's really not good, break up].

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Try to look at your inner soul and find out what you believe in. When you can't stick to your work, think about the parents who grit their teeth and work hard for you, and you are thinking about whether you want to give up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Life is the beginning, death is the end, and the process is life. The future is nothing more than the past of a certain day. Live well today, and don't worry too much about the future.

    Confused many people will experience, one is that it takes time to transition, and you can also go to the outside world to take a walk and see, and when you see more, your thinking will change.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Foreigners have done a test that shows that you can come into this world, and you have defeated thousands of tadpoles! You have.

    The edition is king!

    If you want to be successful, if you want to persevere, if you want to succeed, you have to do it.

    Don't do too well, as long as you insist on accumulation, a large amount will cause qualitative changes.

    You remember to do a little bit better and improve a little bit each day than the day before.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, bai

    You can enlighten others, so why don't you continue? If you do this, you can make your dao happy.

    point, make you feel that you still have a great role to belong to, and help others, then continue to do so! If you're happy to do that, drop by and find a similar job! Wouldn't that be great?

    You can try to get some qualifications in psychology and engage in such a job!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Isn't this asking for help This proves that you still yearn for a better life Find a job Grit your teeth and work hard Keep doing it After working, you will naturally have friends Try to chat with them more People chat with you and cooperate more Slowly you will become a very sociable person Come on.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and Heaven will never favor one over the other. You can try to study psychology, don't you think that's your strength?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is no hope in life, first of all, you will have low self-esteem and give up on yourself. But it's better to hate the whole world than to be very yourself, and the moment you let go of your self-esteem, you're really finished. You need to think about your plans for the near future, think about the long term, prepare for the future, engage with society, and talk about your worries.

    You will forget your worries.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Make a plan for yourself and force yourself to go out and walk every day. Say a word to someone.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hey, everyone is the same, I didn't expect your experience to be exactly the same as mine, if you want to change the status quo, you still rely on yourself, and the mentality is the most important

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Now that you have chosen to separate, don't be so generous.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's all adults, let him figure it out on his own.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    What else to talk about when you break up** can't you talk about it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Sexual needs and love can be separated, and you are only biologically dependent on him, not love.

    But in real life, love often does not have a perfect ending, few couples love each other dead and alive, and many of them walk together for the sake of life. It's normal for you to feel unexcited now, and most couples don't feel like they have been married for a few years. The key depends on whether you are satisfied with this life, or whether you can continue to make do with it, if you can't, you will divide it, but if you divide it, the next one may be worse.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's the same with my boyfriend, and it's a feeling of dependence, not love, but I like it, so I choose to keep it going.

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