What advice do you have when interacting with boys?

Because I haven't had a partner once or twice when I'm so old, I can't say anything about the lessons I've experienced, but in the years I've been single, I'm also used to seeing a lot of friends around me, so I can still put forward a few suggestions.

Before dating a boy, you must carefully recognize this person before deciding whether to date or not. There are many girls who feel that their boyfriends are like a different person after chasing themselves, this is because this kind of boy chasing you is completely to satisfy their desire to conquer, they just enjoy the process of chasing you, and they will not cherish it after chasing it, so you must keep your eyes open before promising a boy.

In the process of interacting with boys, you must learn self-esteem, self-love, and grasp the measure. Don't lose your soul by a few words of coaxing from boys, blindly let boys do something to you, and even satisfy their various desires. You think this is a sign of love, but you don't know that they are using you as a tool to vent.

Some boys don't admit it afterwards, and it's too late for you to regret it.

And in the process of communication, you must learn to communicate, don't quarrel with the Cold War or something at every turn. This is the most unwise thing to do, as it will only bring the two of you further apart. If you have something, just talk about it, just say it, admit your mistakes generously, and learn to be considerate of each other if it is not your own mistakes.

Don't keep waiting for the other party to take the initiative, maybe once or twice he will coax you, if there are too many times, it will inevitably make him feel bored, and he no longer has hope for this relationship, so when it is time to take the initiative, you still have to take the initiative, and you don't need to care too much about face in love.

You also need to learn to trust each other in your relationships, because only mutual trust can make the two of you go longer. Nowadays, many people will test their other half, such as pretending to be a mistress or letting their friends tease him, I feel that this kind of behavior is tantamount to death, because is it useless to do so? Is there anything else to do besides satisfying your curiosity and letting your significant other down with you?

To love someone is to trust him unconditionally, so that you will have a full sense of security and be comfortable together.

You should also pay attention to grasp your relationship in the relationship, because in love, there is no distinction between high and low, don't feel inferior or have more say because of the good or bad conditions at home, this is absolutely impossible. If the relationship between the two of you is really like this, then I'm sure you won't be too long-term, because only evenly matched love will last, so since you have decided to be together, you must learn to abandon these useless things and control the balance of your relationship.

<> this should be separated from two situations: with a male friend and with a boyfriend.

1. I don't think it matters if I date with male friends. Because everyone who knows you well knows what kind of person you are, they won't be too surprised by what they do, and you won't feel ashamed; If you don't know you, don't worry, anyway, you don't know them, and it doesn't matter to them what shameful things you do!

These are the words I was told to me by a friend of mine. Because I am very shy and very shy, I am nervous and speechless when I encounter something, this is the method she taught me to overcome embarrassment, and it really works. It is better to be honest with male friends, after all, making friends is more like-minded, if you don't show your true self, others will think that you are too fake at first glance, and you are not willing to be true friends.

2. Dating your boyfriend is a very knowledgeable thing, if you want to maintain your ladylike image when you are with him, if you are too powerful, he will probably think you are too pretentious; If you're too self-indulgent, he'll think he's in a relationship with a psychopath, and that's bad!

So you have to be appropriately reserved in front of your boyfriend, such as when eating, you don't want to let him see the essence of your foodie at the beginning of your relationship, right? Of course, occasionally you have to let go of yourself appropriately, such as when you go out with him, playing is meant to be happy, but you take care of the makeup for a while, and worry about the wrinkles of your clothes for a while, so others are tired to play!

In the relationship between the Hopei faction and the boys, what experience or lessons have been judged?

When dating boys, you must protect yourself, although he is his other half, but you should also pay attention to your own principles, and you also need to pay attention to the fact that you must go home at night, don't stay in your boyfriend's house, and give boys face before many people close their faces, only in this way will you get along very well.

The first thing is to understand the inside of the person who stops him, don't just understand the appearance, and the door is very important to Fanye, and it is also very important to like each other, and there is a problem must be said in time, and communication must be strengthened.

Be reserved, don't be too proactive, and you must protect yourself and stick to the bottom line.

Adult women are independent in time and action and are less protective of others. Therefore, women's "self-protection awareness" is not only to save themselves when danger comes, but also to keep their eyes open when making friends and choosing a mate, and not just to be carried away by feelings.

1.Don't think you know a person just by looking at it.

Man is an animal that loves to perform a lot, and his thinking is very complex. Some people don't really know them even if you've been with them for a few years. Never assume that you know a person perfectly.

2.Good feelings are mostly equal.

When interacting, you have to learn to listen, be good at asking questions, respect his independent position, don't try to replace his perception of the world, don't make decisions for him, and don't try to change him.

3.Don't worry too much.

Whether you are together or not, if you are struggling with whether a man likes you or not, many times he doesn't like you that much.

4.Don't pick and choose.

If you like one person and then like the second person, then choose the second person, because if you like the first person enough, you won't like the second person.

5.Go with the flow. Don't be impatient. Be calm and proactive.

You can be coquettish, you can be angry, etc. , but only in moderation. If you do more, you can't be serious. You are a gentle, light-hearted, funny, principled woman.

6.Love someone and don't try to change him.

If he loves you, he will take the initiative to change.

Don't mold a person into what you expect them to be. With love, you will learn to respect and change yourself, and it will be easier to achieve happiness.

7.Think twice before you get angry with a man.

Don't say too much. Don't hurt a man's self-esteem. Don't compare him to others. Don't mention breaking up unless you really think about it.

8.Don't test your humanity.

Don't bother to test if your boyfriend really loves you.

9.Have a life of your own.

Don't spend all your time thinking about him, thinking about why he didn't reply to my messages, why didn't he reach out to me ......You're not alone in his world. Don't lose yourself.

10.If you always feel that you are not a good fit, then it is not a good fit.

The subconscious mind is right most of the time. Even if you love him again, don't waste time if you don't get along well with your three views or some aspects. If you think there's something wrong with him, you can't tell what the problem is. Don't dwell on it. Something goes wrong and you find out it's wrong from the start.

When interacting with boys, you must learn to protect yourself. Give the other person enough space, don't rely too much on it, and be self-aware. We must trust and understand each other, and we must tolerate each other.

To give the other person space, to make the other person feel very relaxed, to let the other party feel love, care, and tolerance.

I think we should pay attention to the sense of proportion, don't intrude on the other person's privacy, try to respect the other person, and avoid intimate contact.

Boys often say some dirty words, this problem also needs to be paid attention to, the quality of such a person may not be very good, but also pay attention to this problem, there is also lying, if this boy often lies, it is also necessary to pay attention, maybe he will often deceive you, and then insincere, and with such a person will not be happy.

First of all, you must pay attention to the safe distance, you must respect women, you must send women home before dark, you must pay when you eat, you must have gentlemanly manners, and you must ask women's opinions when ordering.

It is very important to have a healthy and equal relationship between men and women. Here are some tips, experiences, and lessons to hopefully inspire you.

Recommendations:1Respect each other: When dealing with the other person, we should respect the other person's opinions and decisions, and do not force or try to control the other person, let alone attack or abuse the other person.

2.Communication: Communication is very important in communication.

Be open, honest and honest, and avoid hiding or deceiving the other person. At the same time, it is also necessary to learn to listen to the opinions and ideas of the other party, understand the needs and feelings of the other party, so as to build better communication and trust.

3.Support and encouragement: In our interactions, we should support and encourage each other to help each other achieve our personal and shared goals. Respect each other's choices and decisions, and encourage them to pursue their dreams and ideals.

Experience: 1Get to know each other: Before dating, try to understand the other person's interests, hobbies, family background, etc., so that you can better understand the other person's needs and preferences, so as to build a better relationship.

2.Don't be emotional: Don't be emotionally emotional at the beginning of your return to simplicity, and you should remain rational and objective. It is necessary to understand the other person's personality, values, etc., so as to decide whether to continue the relationship.

3.Respect personal space: In interactions, respect the other person's personal space and privacy. Don't try to control or interfere with the other person's life and work.

Lessons:1Avoid over-dependence: In relationships, don't be overly dependent on the other person and maintain your independence and autonomy. If the other person can't meet your needs and expectations, don't put all the blame on the other person.

2.Avoid the wrong way of communicating: In interactions, the wrong way of communicating can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Be open and honest and avoid using offensive language or hurtful words.

3.Avoid striving for perfection too much: In relationships, striving for perfection too much can lead to disappointment and frustration. Accept each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, try to find common ground and common interests, and build a healthy and equal relationship.

In conclusion, it is very important to establish a healthy and equal relationship between men and women. Be respectful, communicate openly and honestly, support and encourage each other, and avoid miscommunication and perfectionism. Hopefully, the above advice, experiences and lessons will help you build a better relationship between men and women.