Why do some people have good luck and some people have bad luck?

Seeing this question, I remembered something. I've always felt like I'm a lucky person, and the luck I have is not the kind that makes me rich, but the kind that flies by, just enough to use. Or always meeting the right person at the right time, getting the right revelation and making the right choice, and so on.

Growing up, I always thought it was just luck. Until I was in graduate school. It is quite difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination, cross-regional, cross-school and cross-major, but I really want to study this major.

Thousands of individuals signed up, and finally accepted ten people, and when I was notified of the re-examination, I also learned the results of the preliminary examination, and I ranked eleventh. When I went to the retest, I couldn't tell whether I was nervous or relaxed, or it was more similar to the mood of "Lao Tzu spent 100,000 yuan**, and the final prize was a one-day trip to Hong Kong and Macao". Broken cans, let's have some fun.

Tour. So on the day of the interview, I wore a red sweatshirt, I thought it looked good to take pictures, sneakers, and I felt that it was easier to go directly to play after the retest, and it was easier to walk. I went, and the teacher answered whatever he asked, and I made a few jokes with the four teachers, and the atmosphere was relaxed and happy.

Before going out, I felt that it might be even more boring, and I felt that I must not be a scholar at first glance. Then after a while, I received my acceptance letter. After half a year of graduate school, when my supervisor mentioned the interview, I asked, didn't I hear that I was ranked 11th in the first exam?

The supervisor said that in the graduation season that year, there were two incidents of graduates jumping off buildings in the department and neighboring schools, so the department leaders suggested that teachers should "pay more attention to the mental state of candidates" when recruiting students. And the ninth-ranked girl is mentally lethargic, and she is sensitive to all kinds of problems (the tutor said a few examples, but I always feel that I owe too much to this girl I don't know, so I won't say it), and her clothes are also gray, and no one wants to ask for the four teachers. So I thought about the eleventh place in the first try, the one who looked lively in red.

Ah, sure enough, it's a girl who loves to laugh, and her luck won't be bad. Then I met a lot of noble people in my life, I don't know many people, but I always feel that there will always be a suitable person at the right time to guide my life to move forward. The situation of doing something you want to do is never far ahead, it always flies by, and you are afraid of it when you think about it afterwards, and it is very dangerous.

For example, when waiting for a bus, the one you have to wait for will never come; A la carte, the dish I want to eat the most is never in stock, and I will encounter it every day. Then I developed a habit of thinking, and when I encountered this kind of thing, I was secretly glad that I had saved a little luck! Then I continued to laugh at life at the bus stop, waited hard, memorized a few more Japanese words by the way, and ran to my destination if I wore sneakers.

I don't agree with the above, I think there is such a thing as luck, there is chance, and it is not countable. For example, why are there so many people on the street, and why are you just being cut? There are still people whose congenital conditions are not as good as others, and my friend's parents died suddenly on the eve of the college entrance examination, so why laugh at it?

Life is complex, many conditions are intertwined to form a variety of destinies, and even each person's character is the result of inevitable accidental interaction, not a "hard vs no effort" or "laugh vs not laugh" can be simply summarized.

Life represents the basic conditions of a person's innate nature, IQ, birth six relatives, personality, etc., these traits are often destined at birth. Fortune represents the opportunities that a person encounters at each stage of life, how they feel, whether they can grasp the opportunities, etc. <>

If the husband is frustrated and does not retreat, then after the small reversal, there will be a small shun. After the great adversity, there will be great prosperity. The intertwined scriptures are intertwined, and they will be solved one day.

The onlookers envy his success, thinking that he is the lucky one, and the sky has to favor him, and he thinks that I am in the encounter, so he is not the other. I know that the so-called stubborn and fortunate ones are the same as me, and they can conquer this stubbornness and use this luck or not, that is, they will be judged by my failure.

The same learning of a software, the buddy on the next table is installed at one time, and it is OK to test it in the demo. And I will encounter all kinds of problems during the installation process, and a search will find that most people will encounter them. For example, I get various errors when I install VS2017.

I uninstalled VS2015 stuck for three days and didn't finish uninstalling, and I lost a lot of money. I found that I was so unripe that I couldn't live up to my name without testing. A programmer who studied Zhou Yi once told me that you are very suitable for IT, because your name is Rong Yu, and when translated into computer language, it is redundancy.

It is the fate and cause and effect of different people