If you can t accept courtship, can t you be ordinary friends?

Hardly. Unless they don't have any illusions, they just want to be friends. Moreover, communication is very important, you both say what you really think and say everything clearly, so that you can be very good friends, even for life.

In addition to a certain degree of sadness, men will also feel faceless, faceless to face you, and even more faceless to face his fox friends and dogs

But I guess time can dilute everything

Relax, it's impossible, you said you want to be ordinary friends with him, and he's embarrassed to refuse this, right? Maybe he's just feeling a little embarrassed to face you right now, it's okay, just take a while:

Women don't become friends, women are not the same as men. Men are animals.

Your idea is dangerous, and the existence of intimate friends between men and women is really minimal.

The man you rejected will generally be embarrassed to see you, and there will always be this rift between you.

Usually you don't become friends, because if you reject him, he will have to be all the time.

It's a little hard for him to face you.

When what friends are the problem of both parties, as the saying goes, a slap does not make a sound, as long as you do not give him the opportunity to meet in fact, it is just an online chat. You can't control the rest.

vetoed him with distance, telling him that online dating is unreliable, if he really wants to love, come to reality to find you

Don't take it seriously? Let's just say that no one has been dating online these days.

Learning to say no is the best way to protect yourself!

It's better that netizens still don't meet!

Let's just say that I have a boyfriend and hit the nail on the head.

Friends should be sincere, but not without privacy. Sometimes, people need to be alone and don't want to be disturbed, even if the relationship is good. Don't overthink it.

You can be sincere, but it also depends on whether the other party is worth it.

If you want to be fair, turn it upside down!!

Yes, that's it for my friend.

If you think you can let go of that hurdle, be generous and be friends, and if you can't, be honest and say no. Don't be ashamed of your own heart.

Of course yes. Because he said you can't be, do you want to be a stranger with him? Becoming a friend, the relationship is better than a stranger, and after slowly getting in touch with him, maybe he will like you.

If you really like it, say yes, and the water will flow for a long time. It always works, as long as he's not a rock. If you think about it, you're just impulsive. Just refuse. Without him, he still has to live on his own.

It's up to you, not sure if it's a spare tire or something. If you want to be an ordinary friend. If you don't want to, you won't agree.

Promise. But you reorganize your mood, there must be a reason why he doesn't want you to be his girlfriend, keep your distance in the future, you will slowly find out that you have become what he likes, and then the ending depends on fate.

I don't think I'll say yes, I'll always meet as friends, it should be embarrassing.

It's impossible, why are you still friends?

Why not, think about whether you can't tolerate this if she doesn't stay with you anymore.

It's all a pot, and it's not a big problem to sleep in another bed.

It seems to be like this.,The relationship between men and women is really rare.,The female friends I met are generally considered sisters and sisters.,Otherwise, a lot of them are suspicious.,I believe there are ordinary friends between other men and women.,But it's definitely very rare.,A simple idea.,Don't say more.,Flash.。

Good friends of the opposite sex, I used to think that I could only be friends for the rest of my life, but that was all naïve thoughts when I was young. After a long time, the nature of the so-called good friends is different, I used to have several friends of the opposite sex who played very hard, but they were all close to me because they liked it, and they were good to me, but I couldn't accept it, and after they all refused, these iron buddies left me one by one. And I'm not good to keep in touch anymore, and I'm always thinking, can't men and women be good friends except to be boyfriend and girlfriend?

Of course, this phenomenon exists, but it is really rare

I think there is, because I have a number of friends of the opposite sex who have been in touch for many years. To add, most of them have courted me, and although I rejected them, they didn't mind because of it. And I'm sure they don't think much of me anymore, and they often call me to tell me about blind dates.

It feels good. Hehe.

Look at you, LZ has a disease that is close to an extramarital affair!

Unexpectedly met a woman in another circle, both parties felt good, in the relationship, by this special emotion (or attracted), when one day found that this emotion is about to evolve, everyone feels scared, at a loss!

Like you said, I really don't have friends of the opposite sex in different circles of life, and true friends of the opposite sex in the same circle still exist

Different fates, different groups.

There are too many boyfriends and girlfriends around who keep their distance.

At most, only the shoulder is borrowed.

Talk**.

In the same way, it has been like this since ancient times, and the social development is like this, and it is already very open, and it will be able to help you solve this problem in a few decades.

The key is that two people have to deal with the difference between ordinary friends and boyfriends and girlfriends, and gender is not an obstacle.

It's based on sex, why can't two men.

Because today's society is too complicated, everyone is on guard. Therefore, under normal circumstances, in different circles, if you take the liberty to say to others: I want to be friends with you. Anyone will think you have bad intentions.

This is the human heart.

Actually, people are really strange animals. I think maybe the insecurity that society gives us makes each of us instinctively wary of others. Trust is really a difficult thing.

Even if there are real people around you, there are few people who can deliver their sincerity. Not to mention that there is no longer a circle. It's even more unreal, it's harder to trust others, to make others trust, right?

I've had your thoughts and tried to do that. But it still failed.

Conclusion: That kind of relationship is indeed a beautiful story, but it is also prone to accidents.

After two lovers broke up, they couldn't be friends because they hurt each otherYou can't be enemies because you love each other deeply! There is a natural attraction between men and women, and after getting along for a long time, one party will always want to develop in the direction of lovers, which is the so-called long-term love

Ordinary people don't think just like that, including me.

Falling dust, think about the [magnet].

Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds. If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.

No feeling now doesn't mean there will be no feeling in the future, as long as he loves that girl, then start with ordinary friends, cultivate feelings little by little, and believe that hard work pays off, and he will definitely succeed.

If you don't look at your avatar, I really don't know if you ask what to do with a man or a woman, the man can continue to chase, and the woman directly refuses, it's so simple.

What else can I do, is it difficult to think that the overlord will bow hard?

You can only be friends.

Then be an ordinary friend first and see how it develops in the future.

In that case, it will take time, so care more about impressing the other party first.

To put it bluntly, the province makes people bother.

Then be an ordinary friend, you may not even have to be a friend in the end, and if you become a friend, you may have a turnaround in the future.

Tell him directly, when it is decided, it will be decided.

Go with the flow and start anew.

Let's start with ordinary friends!