How can I get the consent of my family if my boyfriend is not good and has no money?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is also the case with me, and I made a lot of determination when I first told my family.

    At that time, I thought like this: I was living with him and not someone else, so my own opinion was the most important.

    Second: no money. I myself don't think I'm a material girl, as long as I have food and clothing (of course I can't guarantee food and clothing).

    As long as you have made up your mind, others will not oppose you anymore when they see that you have made up your mind.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Look at how there is no money, there is no money to earn, the seeds of love need to grow in the soil of the material foundation, but different seeds need different soil quality, but you can't lack it, so you can know yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You make money together to show your family or let your boyfriend prove your strength.

    Let others see.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give up, family is the most important thing, and you will meet the right one for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's basically harder!

    But sincerely, the gold and stone are open! 、

    Tell your parents that he is **, a high-performance stock!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're doing your family's job

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you think so, it's settled. Why bother?

    Is it you who love him, or who your parents love him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is recommended that raw rice be cooked ...... rice

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What age is it, your family is still so feudal.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Emphasize how deep your love is for him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because the man has no money and the woman's parents do not agree, then it depends on the reason for disagreement, this one, or other aspects.

    Most parents love their children, because the man has no money and is afraid that his daughter will suffer after marrying and regret it later, most of the purpose is for the good of his daughter and the happiness of his daughter.

    A small number of parents are afraid that the person their daughter marries will have no money, and they will lose face because of their own desire for control or vanity.

    Don't face your parents for love, your parents will be more opposed, and don't give up the person you love easily for your parents, so as not to regret it for life.

    The woman can not rush to get married, on the one hand, let the parents know the advantages of the man in other aspects, so that they can know more about the man and have more good feelings. On the one hand, let the man work hard, and the two of them work together for a year or two, so that he can behave well, so that your parents can believe that he has the ability to make money, and you will not suffer with her.

    In this way, the man's economic conditions will improve through one or two years of hard work, and through these two years of contact, the woman's parents will understand other aspects of him, thinking that their daughter will not suffer if she marries him, and he is also sincerely good to his daughter, so there is no reason to object.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Girl, you can not marry the person your parents let you marry, but you must not marry the person your parents will not let you marry, you don't like the rich person, you can find a good person, you like the person, but don't marry a boy who has nothing and a very poor family, there are many phoenix men, and there are many girls who marry phoenix men, but in the end, how many girls are so painful that they regret not listening to their parents.

    There was a TV series many years ago, the name of this TV series is "Double-sided Tape", this is a TV series based on a true story, the heroine of the TV series is a girl in a big city, an only child, and the family conditions are quite good. And the boy is a poor boy from the poor countryside, he was admitted to the same university as the heroine, because the family is poor, so the poor man's child is in charge early, he is a mature, introverted man, such a boy, so that the girl who has been living a very worry-free life feels fresh, so she fell in love with this boy.

    Later, under the opposition of her parents, she insisted on marrying this boy, and the boy was able to stay in the big city because of the girl, and the girl's parents were afraid that their daughter would suffer, so they used their life savings to buy a house for their daughter, so the daughter and her son-in-law lived in the house they bought.

    At this time, the boy's parents came to the big city, and they had no intention of leaving after they came, they felt that their son was capable, particularly powerful, and their daughter-in-law was because their son was powerful, so they would rush to marry into the door, they were all kinds of unaccustomed to their daughters-in-law, all kinds of sowing discord, and the male protagonist who had been suffering from snacks was particularly filial to his parents, and the final result was that the male took the initiative to beat the girl.

    He had no money, she didn't mind, he didn't have anything, she didn't mind, but what he got in the end, all he got was a beating. So girl, the love you think is often invincible to reality, and the days without money will only deepen the contradictions between you, and eventually you will live a miserable life because of no money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is best to choose the rich, after all, the life of the rich is relatively free, and the life of the rich is relatively easy, so as not to live so hard.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think if your boyfriend is very self-motivated, you can still consider sticking with your boyfriend. After all, property can be earned through hard work.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you should still choose a boyfriend, because although he can't give you what you want in terms of material conditions, you are very happy every second you are with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Either the knots don't want the money or the rolls don't get in touch.

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