Why do men always think that other women are better than their wives? Let s talk

The reason why men feel that their wives are not as good as other women may be because their wives are used to seeing that the two of them have been together for a long time, and various problems will be exposed, while other people's women, you only see him and a little bit do not see his shortcomings, in fact, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, you have to learn to appreciate others from different angles.

Because his wife has been with him for a long time, he will feel that his wife has a lot of shortcomings, so he thinks that other people's wives are good.

It is very common for men to think that other women are better than their wives. For Chinese, what you can't get is the best, so boys chasing girls and girls must not agree too easily.

Men always think that women are better than their wives, and this is because men have spent too much time with their wives, and they will get tired of their wives.

There is a saying that domestic flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers. The outside world is very exciting, so other people's wives are better than their own wives.

Men always think that other women are better than their wives, because what they can't get is always the best.

Maybe this is a kind of "eat the bowl and look at the pot" mentality, always feel that what you can't get is the best.

It's like eating from a bowl and looking at a pot, someone else's is always the best, with little contact.

Men always think that other women's noses are good for their wives because. They don't know what they think.

It's not all delusions.

I don't think it's worth it, but sometimes it's frustrating.

A lot of youth was spent in it.

I will educate him well.

Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

Nowadays, there are some boys, who always feel that their own or their own wives are not good, that is not good, the ridge of this mountain looks at the mountain high, other people's wives, everything is extreme, irreplaceable, always feel that they have married the wrong person, but there is no regret medicine in the world, therefore, in daily life, they have been envious of other boys, feel that they have taken a good wife, but they have only been suffering. How could such a thing happen? I think there are several reasons for this.

Some boys have not known to cherish the people or things in front of them, not only do not cherish, but also have been picking some thorns, feeling that their wives are not very good, that is not very good, in fact, this is just your own thoughts, maybe your wife is in the hearts of others, and it happens to be the envy of others, it is really that kind of sentence, you are looking at the scenery on the bridge, the people watching the scenery are watching you on the second floor, the bright moon decoration designed your windows, and you decorate other people's dreams.

Men will feel that other people's wives are good. He didn't know this woman, and he was full of curiosity about this woman. He only saw the surface of this woman, every day he saw her dressed brilliantly, smiling at others, but after this woman returned home, he didn't see the sloppy appearance, he only saw the one-sided side of this woman, so he took it out of context, feeling that this woman was the appearance of his idealized daughter-in-law.

Here, I want to advise boys, no matter how curious you are about a person, I expect you to understand that you cherish the people around you, no matter how good others are, it may be someone else's, and you only have to hesitate.

You may think that a woman is beautiful and extreme in your eyes, but do you know her essence? What's her style of doing things? Will you be able to accept it? When looking at a person, you can't just look at the surface, in this case, it's too vulgar.

In this, it is expected that the boy can figure out that it is a very good quality for the contented person to be happy. No matter how good you think others are, it's just others. What you can do is live a good life with your wife, and don't hesitate and do things that don't conform to the norm, which will only cause you endless inconvenience.

The main reason for this situation is that men are very unsatisfied, and when they see the advantages of other people's wives, they see the shortcomings of their own wives, so they will be dissatisfied; The main reason is that what they can't get is always the best, and they have no way to know all about the other party's round code chain wife, they only see each other's advantages, and they think that Tangerine Sun is very fresh.

The first is that his wife on the stool is too virtuous, and always spends his energy on the family and does not send himself, and the second is that this man has really changed his mind, his mind is no longer on his wife, or he has borrowed a lot of girls who are better than his wife, and he will feel that his wife is not competitive.

It's a clever type because you don't understand the shortcomings of other people's wives, so you think like this; I don't know other people's wives, I haven't been in contact with other people's wives, and I don't know the shortcomings of other people's wives.

Because what you can't get from the bridge is always the best to bury; Min Zen only men have no way to understand the whole of other people's wives, and after getting along with their own wives for a long time, they will feel very bored, and men will feel that other people's wives are very fresh.