I like a girl in the company but I don t know it, should I do this?

I think it's better to be conveyed by her colleague, it's too reckless to ask directly, normal people encounter strangers to confess, usually a reaction, are you sick, it's better for someone to convey it, so that the girl knows in her heart, you are chasing her and will not treat you as a disciple.

It's better to ask directly. It's okay to hand over a note.

This kind of thing, it is better to know less people. lest it spread in an uproar. It doesn't matter if only the two of you know. Normally, she doesn't talk nonsense.

Tell her directly that you like her, and even if you give her a refusal, you will give her a sneaky joy and give yourself a chance.

If you've known each other for a long time, you can find a chance to ask. If the time is short, it is recommended not to ask her directly, otherwise it will make people feel very frivolous! Or make a joke at work.

Tell her directly that boys shouldn't be shy, it will be a very romantic ......

Be cheeky and confess to her.

When there are flowers, you need to fold, and don't make no flowers and empty branches.

The premise of my question is that the girl you like also likes you and is willing to be with you. In the early stage, the two of you can reach an agreement and develop an underground relationship, and in the later stage, the relationship is stable, one party can leave the job, and the level of the relationship is above board.

I had a friend of a friend, and I met her a few times, but I didn't know her very well. This friend and her boyfriend (later husband) are employees of a well-known Internet company, and their company also has a clear rule that colleagues within the company are not allowed to fall in love. But there was no way, the two looked at each other, wanted to fall in love, and also wanted to work, so the two began to fall in love secretly, pretending to be very hard, obviously lovers, they had to pretend to be ordinary colleagues when they went to work, and they had to sneak around when they got off work, for fear of being discovered by colleagues in the company.

The two have been in love for almost two years, and they have nothing to do with each other, and it is possible that a very small number of colleagues found out and kindly did not report it.

When it was almost two years, their relationship was already very stable, they both recognized each other, and they talked about marriage. So the two discussed, the woman resigned, and the man continued to work in the original company, firstly, because the man's position was higher and his income was higher, and secondly, he considered that the woman should get pregnant and give birth to a child to take care of the child. A year after my friend left his job, he got a marriage certificate and a banquet, just to get rid of the suspicion of falling in love in the company.

The only love is more important than workI think that at this stage of the employment situation is severe, a good job is very rare, although love is also very important in life, but work is the basic condition for survival, in the face of not so only love, survival is definitely more important. Unless you feel that your liking for this girl outweighs the stability that this job can bring you, that is, you feel that if you miss this girl, you will never meet a better fit for you in the future, in which case, you can choose to give up this job. Other than that, I think work is more important.

Choosing one or the other is brutalSince the company has rules that do not allow you to fall in love with the company, if you want to be together, one of you must choose to resign. This choice between two is cruel, whether in the end you give up your job for love, or if this girl gives up the job for you to have a better career. When love returns to life itself, when the career of the person who gives up is hindered, I don't think anyone has the confidence to say that they will not blame the person who made them give up the job in the first place.

If I were faced with such a problem, I would choose to work, but if you feel that this girl is something you must not miss, then you can choose to give up this job, but I hope that if you regret it in the future, you will not blame the other party for the decision you have made now.

If you really like this girl in your company, then, in order not to violate the company's rules, I think it is necessary for the two of you to secretly fall in love, and when it comes to it, you have to choose to leave this company, so that it will not affect the company and your relationship.