Would you like to be a Dink? Why don t you want to have children?

Yes, because it's really hard to be born into a family with a genetic history.

Grandpa was seriously ill that year, and his father gave up continuing his studies in order to take care of his grandfather, and his uncle also broke up with a certain red third generation who had been in love for many years in order to satisfy the wishes of his grandfather, who was not very conscious, and married the daughter of his grandfather's friend for many years.

Now, my uncle has passed away because of the same disease, and my father is also suffering from the same disease, and he is afraid that I will make the same decision as he did, but in fact, I really want to.

I was talking to my cousin a few days ago, and I asked my cousin if she was going to have children, and she said, don't let the tragedy continue to happen.

yes, why a few more victims.

I am very willing to be a Dink, I hate children, I hate the crying of children, I have been very annoying to children since I was a child, and I have no money, I want to spend my own money, I don't want to raise children, I don't want to contribute to the country's education, I don't want to worry about being tired and become an aunt, I live a relaxed and happy life, I don't want to get married and have children. When people get old, they will eventually die, and it is the same whether they have children or not.

I just don't like children, and the hard-earned money is used to raise children, it's not worth it, the cost of raising children is high, and there are many uncertain factors, maybe he is a bomb who will take revenge on society, and when he grows up, he may abandon you in a nursing home, so that you die alone, anyway, you die alone, it's better to be free and easy, play enough if you want to play in this life, eat well if you want to, don't worry too much, burden, just kill him before he was born.

I love kids, but I still choose the Dinks. And I think that since I don't have the ability to give my children stability and happiness, why should I bring my children into this world for my own selfish desires? ‍‍

has neither money nor power, and does not want the child to be born at the bottom of society, and is tired of running for life every day after work. ‍‍

Of course I don't want to, the child is the crystallization of love, and now I feel that everything is for him after having a child, and I feel that most of the Dink may not be born because he can't give birth. ‍‍

Yes, I like the life of two people, watching dramas together, raising pets, doing housework, and traveling everywhere. I have a lot of time to save for retirement in my life, and when I am old, I will solve myself with a bottle of poison when I can't move. Don't understand what the point of having a baby is?

Being dragged from the beginning of pregnancy, and then raising a child, living for the child all his life.

Reluctant to dink, mainly prefer the warm, harmonious atmosphere of the family. I really don't want to get old. It's hard to even have a lively Chinese New Year's Eve dinner. I don't want to leave my wife alone if I leave!

Dink is very good, he can do whatever he wants, after all, people only have one life, and they don't want to live for anyone.

If you don't have a good life yourself, why should you let your children suffer with you.

Yes, after all, giving birth to a child is a very painful thing, and raising a child also takes a lot of money and energy.

My wife and I can't have children, I just don't want to have children, I'm very happy to have a Dink, I can't give up my other half for this reason, but it's a helpless choice. ‍‍

Raising children costs money and works hard, how tiring it is to live like this, isn't it good to have an ordinary life like this.

I myself am a very sensitive person, and my experience is also quite bumpy, and I feel that being born as a human being, this life is always more bitter than happy, so when people are born, they cry because they have to face a lot of suffering. I don't want to bring my children into this world to suffer.

If you don't have the ability to support yourself, it is difficult to support yourself, so it is better to choose not to let yourself and your children be relieved of the pressure.

By nature, everyone wants to have their own children, there's no doubt about it. I don't want children because the price to pay after having children is too great. Hard work comes from pressure, and pressure comes from children.

Dink is unfair to women, unless it is the husband's problem that he can't have children, because when the couple is old and regrets not having a son and a half daughter, a man can have a child until he is fifty or sixty years old, but not a woman.

I'm willing to be a dink, I don't like kids at all, I'm not doing too well, I don't want him to suffer like me.

For me, Dink may be a retreat, if I really have to have a child and be responsible for him, this marriage may be sour. ‍‍

Unwilling....But because of physical reasons, I can't have children, and I can't be a mother for the rest of my life....Maybe the other half will accompany me Dink....Maybe the other half will choose to divorce and don't know the future.

If I could, at least it wouldn't have to be so hard, but the traditional Chinese thinking that you don't want children is something that the elderly won't agree with.

This Dink is all about negotiation between the two sides, and the parents of both sides have no opinion, so the two of them can not do it, I don't think any old man in China will agree with Dink, and for enlightened countries abroad, people will understand.

It turned out that I didn't want children for economic reasons, and after 10 years, the two-person world now hates children, and it's fun for children to have mobile phones? Do kids have fun traveling? Is it comfortable to sleep with a child? Isn't the child worried? Doesn't it cost money for children? Is there any use in raising children?

Social pressure, all kinds of unsatisfactory life, can't give him a good environment, growth may not be able to produce What to do in the next world.

Willing to dink. It's hard to have a good life, why do you have a child?

There are too many risks for two people to be together. If you have a child, what if you can't give your child a good life or a warm home. That's a life, and it's not that kittens and puppies can't feed themselves and can be given away.

How do you do it! It's horrible to have small children.

Reluctance to give birth to children in this era.

I don't like the Flood Beast, that's why I want Dink.

Dink has been 20 years, and his life has been plain and real, and I was unable to give her good conditions before, so I resolutely gave up.

Reasons why the Dinks don't want children:

1. People who hold the concepts of "Theory of the Hierarchy of Life" and "Theory of the Tools of Life" believe that all existence, including life, is just a tool for the evolution and development of the universe, and that human beings are just tools-like "cells" in society, a relatively high-level life form.

2. I feel that the world is too chaotic and social competition is too cruel, and I don't want my children to suffer and repeat the mistakes of the past.

3. The workplace competition is fierce and must be grasped, and you do not want to give up the career results of long-term efforts.

4. I hope to freely choose the lifestyle that suits me, and the two of them are happy enough in the world.

5. I am not fully sure of the stability of my marriage, so I don't want children for the time being.

6. Restricted by economic conditions, it is not enough to provide children with stable and healthy living conditions.

7. I feel that there are many kinds of happiness in life, and there are other happiness without the joy of family happiness inherited by children.

8. Raising children in contemporary times is very arduous, and there may not be a reward, and the children themselves may not feel happy, so they would rather not raise them.

9. Don't think that the value of life is just to raise offspring.

10. In the past, it was thought that "raising children to prevent old age", but how many of today's children, such as our younger generation, stay with their parents? And how many elderly people are taken care of at home by nannies!

11. I don't like children.

12. The man is afraid of the hardships of raising a child, and the woman is afraid of the pain of childbirth, so she does not want a child.

13. Radical environmentalists believe that humans are the scourge of the earth and regard other species as more precious than humans, so they don't want children to save the earth and other species.

Hello, 1.Dink can greatly reduce the financial pressure.

In today's era of rapid economic development, huge economic pressure will force many young people to choose to be a Dink, these young people often think: if they have been bearing huge economic pressure, then the future life will often become very heavy, so it is better to choose to be a Dink, greatly reduce the economic pressure, and enjoy the future life. Although the Dink family cannot enjoy the joy of family, different people have different choices, and everyone has the right to choose different ways to enjoy life, so everyone should not deny the happiness of the Dink family, but respect their choice.

2.The Dinks are more comfortable in their lives.

In modern society, although most of the old people have children, but there are also many unfilial children, they are away all the year round, almost do not take care of their parents, then these old people are actually no different from the Dink family, although they have children, but do not enjoy the filial piety of children.

3. The Dinks have their own partners and friends, so they are not lonely, although they cannot enjoy the happiness of children and grandchildren, they can enjoy the fun of being with their partners for the rest of their lives. As a result, the Dinks are not as lonely as they think, and they have their own happiness and fun.

That person doesn't want to have a cherub with the lover of his dreams? In a word, the Dinks are incompetent! The wimpish man meets the decadent woman.

Nowadays, many young couples choose not to have children, why should they be Dinks? The reason is very heart-wrenching.

Dink in our country.

With the development of the economy and the improvement of people's living standards, more and more people do not want to have children. Although people's lives are now rich and the economy has developed, the cost of raising children is gradually increasing. When our generation grew up, they all adopted a free-range model, as long as they could be fed and clothed, but the new generation of children was different, although it was compulsory education.

It was free, but there were various cram schools.

All kinds of specialty classes are dizzying, and the cost of raising a child is still very high.

First, the pressure faced by modern young people is relatively high. Nowadays, young people are facing a lot of life pressure, although they make more money, but the pressure of prices, mortgages, and car loans is also very great, for example, the current post-90s, in fact, the post-90s are not considered to be Dink, but as a social animal living in Zhengzhou, the housing loan is 6,000, 20 years, and the car loan is 3000, three years. The pressure of 9,000 yuan a month, but the income, it is really not enough to bear the expenses of a child.

Second, the change of young people's conception of childbearing. I don't know if you have found it, but now many young people who don't seem to be giving birth will have such an idea, I am still a baby, what else do I need a baby? In other words, I don't have enough money to spend on myself, so why work hard to raise children?

It is precisely because of this shift in the concept of fertility that young people are reluctant to have children.

Third, the pressure of pension is reduced. Before, people generally believed that it was to raise children to prevent old age, but now it is not this thought, many people are young to do their future protection is very comprehensive, pension medical care and other various insurances have been configured very perfectly, do not worry about the problem of pension, so I don't want to bear the pressure of raising children, therefore, the results of this census also show that the fertility rate.

lower, more and more people do not want to have children.

It's not a lot, because they can't support themselves, so they can't afford to raise children, so they are still more resistant to having children.

There are not many Dink families in my country, and most of those who don't have children are because they especially enjoy the world of two people or the life of one person.

Very much. They feel that it is too troublesome to have children, and they feel that their lives are very good now, and they do not need to be alone to disturb their lives.

So far, it's a lot. These people are more free-thinking, and they feel that having children can be more troublesome.

Dink is a transliteration of the English dink (double income no kids), which means double income but no children. The general process of the couple's advocacy of getting rid of the traditional concept of inheritance in married life begins with the discovery of the problem and the question, and after discovering the problem, they make assumptions about the answer to the problem based on their own knowledge and life experience Design the first plan, including the selection of materials, design methods and steps, etc. The method is not perfect and can also lead to wrong conclusions Therefore, after reaching the conclusion, it is also necessary to reflect on the whole process of the general methodological steps of the experiment: asking questions, making hypotheses, making plans, implementing plans, drawing conclusions, expressing and communicating

The most commonly used methods in science include observation method, experimental method, investigation method and data analysis method

Observation is a basic method of science Scientific observation can be made directly with the naked eye, with the help of magnifying glasses, microscopes and other instruments, or with the use of cameras, video recorders, video cameras and other tools, and sometimes it is also necessary to measure Scientific observation should have a clear purpose; Observations should be comprehensive, meticulous, and realistic, and recorded in a timely manner; Be planned and patient; Think positively and record in a timely manner; To exchange views and discuss The design of the experimental protocol should be carried out closely around the questions and hypotheses raised When studying the influence of one condition on the research object, the experiment carried out under the same conditions except for the different conditions is called a controlled experiment General steps: find and ask questions; gather information related to the issue; make assumptions; design of experimental protocols; Conduct experiments and record them; analysis of experimental phenomena; Conclusion Investigation is one of the common methods of science When investigating, we must first clarify the purpose of the investigation and the object of the investigation, and formulate a reasonable investigation plan During the investigation process, sometimes because the scope of the investigation is very large, it is necessary to select a part of the survey objects as samples During the investigation process, it is necessary to record truthfully The results of the investigation should be sorted out and analyzed, and sometimes the statistical methods should be used to collect and analyze data is also one of the common methods of science There are many ways to collect information Go to the library to consult books and newspapers, and visit relevant people, The form of information includes text, data, and audio-visual data, etc., and the information obtained should be sorted out and analyzed, and answers and clues should be found from it.