My parents gave me the bride price in private, telling me not to say, should I confess to my husband

Looking at the bride price in terms of the current social situation.

It is also a very important part of marriage, and many people also have a headache about the bride price, and even the relationship between the two people finally broke down because of the bride price. My parents gave me the bride price money privately but told me not to say it, should I confess to my husband? Personally, I don't think it should be confessed.

1. This will seriously affect the relationship between parents and husbands.

In ordinary life, although we must be honest and trustworthy people, we also need to look at certain things and make the right choice. Personally, I don't think I should confess to my husband about this matter, because if I confess, it will seriously affect the relationship between my parents and my husband, and even seriously affect the relationship between the two. So don't take any risks for this matter, and in the end it's definitely yourself who gets hurt the most.

Second, we should also be clear about the intentions of our parents.

For girls, every parent hopes that their children can be happier, and they all hope that their children will not be bullied by anyone after they get married. Giving the bride price money to yourself privately is also for your own good, you must be clear about your parents' intentions, and you must not have more doubts about your parents. If you confess to your husband at this time, I believe that the relationship between myself and my parents will also be greatly affected, and my parents will not help me wholeheartedly if I encounter any problems from now on, so I must be more thoughtful before doing things.

The above points are my personal opinion, and I hope it will be of some help to you to a greater or lesser extent. The bride price is also a very important part of the wedding, and many people regard the bride price as very important, so we also need to consider and think carefully when encountering similar problems. You must not make decisions blindly, as this can easily bring very serious consequences to yourself.

I think it should be, since the two of you are already together, you should not hide from each other, you should confess to your husband, only then can your life be happy.

Don't, if you say that your husband will feel very uncomfortable, if you don't want to hide it from your husband, you can say another thing, it can be said that it is a dowry white lie and she can forgive you.

You should be frank, the most basic way to get along between husband and wife is to be honest with each other, tell him what the reason is why you don't want it, and he will understand you.

In our hometown village, there are many bride prices, and most of them are left by the woman's parents. Most of the reasons given are that it is not easy to raise such a big girl, and it is the man's family to marry out, and the bride price should be kept as pension money in the future. In short, there are many reasons to want to keep the money, and most of them are the kind of reasons that cannot be refuted.

Of course, there are still some things to consider keeping the money for your son to use when he gets married in the future! I feel that I am old and can't earn much money, and I want to leave some money for my son, and there is a guarantee for marriage.

Invisibly, the man has the idea of rejection of the woman's family, and there are many quarrels in our country because the bride price is not brought back. The resulting conflicts also include the relationship between the in-laws and the daughter-in-law, and the relationship between the man and the mother-in-law's family. The little things in life can trigger the old things of the previous bride price, and family life seems very tiring.

Especially when something happens to the woman's parents and they need to contribute money, it will be even more contradictory! If the bride price had not been brought back at that time, it is difficult to imagine how the following life could have gone on smoothly.

It can be said that the bride price has gradually become a burden for modern people to get married, especially the bride price atmosphere of comparing with each other is even more miserable! The constraints of various conditions and the pressures of life make it really a luxury to get married. Most of the men who say that they are married have exhausted all their belongings, and they may also need to borrow money to get married.

The bride price is a traditional ceremony that the ancestors can always leave behind, making the marriage event more grand. Many aspects have changed since then. In the past, it was the water splashed by the girl who married the rolling bucket and went out, and now there will be such a thing!

Now that the elderly in our family are sick and have an accident, most of the people we can count on are daughters, and we have to do our best compared to our sons who stay at home! So most of the current situation is that a couple builds their own small family, and both parents have to take care of it. Therefore, it is best to bring back the bride price money to your own small family.

If your parents need money urgently, you can also discuss it before you get older, keep the money first, and then return it later.

It should belong to the crooked tone of two people, not to the parents, after all, the blind bride price is a blind guarantee given by the husband to himself, so there is no need to give it to the parents, as long as the filial piety is fulfilled.

Strictly speaking, the bride price should be given to the parents, but now the social bride price is given to the woman herself.

The bride price should be for your parents, and of course your parents can also give you the money as marriage funds.

Summary. Hello dear, I think this kind of behavior is too extreme, in the case of relativity, I think we should discuss <> together

My parents pushed me all the things about the bride price, and I didn't understand anything, shouldn't the bride price be discussed by both parents?

When the parents of the two sides were eating together, they didn't ask about the wild tong Zhao of the Caisong rental gift, and now they are married and the children have been born, and they told me, let me go to my mother-in-law to ask for the bride price, and I also quarreled with my mother-in-law because of this, she said that I didn't want the bride price, so I drowned my child in turn.

Now threaten me with children.

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There is no way to negotiate, my own parents asked me to choose one: my mother-in-law gave me the bride price before I gave me the household registration book and asked me to go to the child to register the household, and two: I threw the child away if I didn't give it, and went home to re-marry and marry cautiously.

Hello, in this case, I think that in this case, you will be very embarrassed to put yourself in a very embarrassing situation.

My children are about to go to kindergarten, and now they haven't gotten a hukou, and they won't be given a hukou if they ask for it.

Hello, then I think this situation is very serious, if you do, it will be very difficult for you to choose.

So what should I do, every time I quarrel with my mother-in-law because of this, if it weren't for these things, my relationship with my mother-in-law wouldn't be like this.

Hello, kiss what your husband said about this?

He also fell out with his parents.

I don't think I'm going to ask for this bride price anymore since I'm married.

Because in their eyes, he thinks that everything you spend belongs to your mother-in-law's, and you have no conscience to subsidize your mother's family at this time.

Because my husband and in-laws think that you are using their money to supplement your mother's family, I think such husbands and in-laws are too unreasonable.

If you use your own salary, you have the right to control your own property, but you should also take into account your own small family, and it is recommended to communicate with your family members not to ignore it, which is easy to make them dissatisfied.

They have no reason to object, and if you can't stand them doing this, then divorce.