Why do people feel lonely at night?

The day is a lively environment is a prosperous story is a very busy work, life, study and life, but at night when you are left alone, you sleep quietly alone, and then the night is very dark, because the darkness is born to give people a feeling of loneliness, in the earliest human beings just in the primitive tribe of the stage of survival, people are huddled together for warmth, because they feel that there is always something particularly terrible hidden in the dark, Therefore, the strong contrast between day and night and the special darkness at night can also lead to more loneliness.

Because at night, I am usually alone, and the environment is very quiet, the person I miss very much will come to mind, and I will feel very lonely in my heart. Therefore, many people are no different from ordinary people during the day, and there are always some unruly people at night.

Most of it is because of environmental impacts. When night falls, the lights are on, there is no hustle and bustle of the day, you may suddenly feel empty, maybe, I am often lonely alone at night, and I always feel that there are shortcomings, so I often go out to the supermarket at night, in fact, I want to go to a crowded place and rub the popularity.

This situation can be understood like this:

When I have something to do during the day, I will communicate with people more or less, so I don't feel lonely. At night, especially when you are alone, you are faced with several walls that cannot speak, and if you live in a quiet place, you will feel that you are alone in the whole world, and loneliness will arise spontaneously.

In my opinion, let's not be afraid of loneliness, learn to be alone, enjoy solitude, solitude is the best time for us to grow.

There are two main reasons why people feel lonely at night:

I am very busy at work during the day, so I don't have time to take care of it, let alone be sad.

When I get home at night, in the dead of night, I am alone, and I will inevitably have cranky thoughts. The more I think about it, the more lonely and sad I feel.

In my opinion, a large part of the reason why people feel lonely at night is that compared to the noisy daytime, when it comes to night, the environment is relatively quiet, and at this time people need to get along with themselves, in this process, it is inevitable to hear a lot of their inner voices, and people's hearts are generally lonely in nature, so it is natural to feel that they will be a little lonely at night.

During the day, you can also go out with a few friends to temporarily numb your loneliness and pretend to be very gregarious and happy.

But in the evening, everyone went home, and realized that no one would accompany you 24 hours a day, and many people were just passers-by and playmates.

During the day, you are to live, and at night you are occupied by work and busyness, and you have no time to care, let alone think.

And at night you can really calm down, when you think a lot, and you will suddenly feel very lonely.

People are always aware of the afterthought, and at night people become emotional.

Because it's so quiet at night, if you're alone, it can be terrifying!

Of course, this is also a matter of mentality, and you must not think about it. Otherwise, it will only bring a sense of fear to yourself. It's not good to have a lot of impact on your own life.

Personally, I am a very quiet person, and I am busy enough to work during the day. When I get home at night, I want to sit there quietly, listen to music and read books. Or stand on the balcony and look at the picture outside, which feels very comfortable.

At night, I feel very lonely and always want to find someone to accompany me, is this normal?

I think it's when you're sick. I have experience, at that time, after my divorce, I did student cram school, caught up with the students to come home from school on Friday afternoon, my own children went to college, went to cook on Saturday morning, I felt that my whole body hurt so much that I had no strength, I knew I had a fever, I didn't have it a few times, and at this time I lay down again, and wanted to eat ice cream, at noon I couldn't help but call my ex-husband ** to explain the situation, saying: You buy ice cream and send it to me, don't let you get it for free, give you 50 lines?

At this moment, I am sad and also want to have my own home, and I also want to have a husband who loves me, and good people will have good retribution.

I think when people see others happy, family reunions, children around their knees, but they are lonely, no one cares, at this time they feel the warmth of home, the happiness of home, and always think about how wonderful it is to have someone with them. They are also willing to give everything they have to take care of her, take care of her, take care of her.

There are always people who come home from work and family to serve you a cup of hot tea, relieve the fatigue of a day's work, have a table of hearty food, and sometimes their lover will give you a pamper, a greeting, give you a riposte, press your legs, and feel how happy. But when I come home from work, I always see empty houses. I couldn't help but feel a little sour in my heart.

If I could have a home, I would be able to enjoy a happy life like everyone else.

Especially when you are sick and lonely, how much you look forward to having someone you love to accompany you, comfort yourself, support and encourage yourself.

One is when a person is on the road outside, and no one can turn to for help. If you don't have friends or relatives around, you will have a special sense of loneliness and fear, so you will want to have someone to accompany you, so you will have the idea of ending your single life!

There is also a kind of watching the friends around you have a happy family, and a happy life! When I see that my friends around me are very happy, I will inexplicably feel that I am very miserable and lonely, and I especially want to end my single career at this time!

I think this kind of thinking is normal, because many young people are under more and more pressure nowadays, they need spiritual companionship, they need to have a girlfriend to be able to accompany them, but without a girlfriend, they can only feel lonely at night.

I think this kind of thinking is normal, because now many young people are under increasing pressure, and it is necessary to have mental companionship, and it is necessary to have a girlfriend to accompany them, but without a girlfriend, I only feel very lonely in the early hours of the morning.

This is relatively normal, at night I feel very lonely and want to find someone to accompany me because I am insecure and there is no one around me to talk to.

This is very normal, it means that you have not been in a relationship for a long time, you can go out to meet the opposite sex, you can have a relationship.

This is normal, because at night people get cranky and feel particularly insecure.

This is a deformed fighting spirit in the early morning I feel very lonely, and I want to find someone to accompany me, because I have no sense of insurance, and there is no one around me who can talk to him.

This is very deformed, affirming that you haven't been in a relationship for a long time, and you can maybe go out and get acquainted with the same sex, you can maybe fall in love.

Loneliness is a person's truest attitude. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke pointed out.

Loneliness is a state of mind, and feeling lonely is a detachment from the things around you.

Loneliness is a kind of profundity, which is not easily exposed to the outside world, but often allows itself to be longed for. Learn not to be lonely, relax yourself from time to time, shallow yourself, and you will find that you have another side and suddenly become rich.

You also have to learn to taste loneliness, struggling in loneliness, it will be painful, but you learn to carnival in loneliness, and the mind will have a sense of detachment. Rich inner world, easy to be lonely, writing down the mood, is a dialogue with yourself, loneliness becomes fulfilling.

Meet a confidant and enjoy solitude together, you are a person who is not lonely. Hopefully, fate awaits you ...... not far away

A person feels lonely, and there is a big reason that his own experience is not enough, his vision is not broad, and his vision is all on yourself, so I feel that I am alone. The best way is to travel, don't say that you don't have time, don't say that a person is unwilling to move, don't say that a person can't gain anything when he goes out, in fact, it's not that you can't harvest things, but your own travel strategy is not done well, so there is no gain. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and of course, beautiful scenery is reserved for you who are good at discovering beauty, rather than just making excuses for not going out.

If you really feel that you are very bad alone, you can try to raise a pet you like, don't go to find a person of the opposite sex when you feel lonely and lonely, find the right person, it is your luck and happiness, find the right person, that is a great harm, whether it is physical or physical and mental wounds. Please believe that sentence and be kind to yourself, both materially and spiritually.

Childhood, youth, and even middle age, along the way, in the downtown area, there is always a sense of loneliness, which coincides with the popular "late-night emo" saying today.

When I was a child, I walked alone on the mountain road after school, and the mountain breeze on both sides cheered for loneliness, but I didn't know what it had to do with loneliness. Moving forward, home is the way back.

When he was young, he was in deep love, trapped by love, drowning alone in the night, crying until dawn, but he couldn't find his way home because he didn't want his parents to worry.

When I was middle-aged, I was trapped by family trivialities and hurt by open and secret battles at work, but I still didn't disturb my relatives and swallowed my tears in my stomach alone.

Along the way, there has never been a lack of friends around me, but I can't get rid of the loneliness in my heart.

To get out of loneliness, the common practice is to walk forward, look forward, look upward, not be discouraged, and continue to grow yourself, until today.

A few days ago, I happened to hear Zhang Xu, an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences and a neuroscientist, say: "The reason for late-night emo is loneliness."

And the way to overcome loneliness is to work optimistically and creatively, develop good habits, and make yourself constantly have a sense of moving forward.

This statement coincides with my own feelings, so it is not too difficult to get out of loneliness!

1. It is important to maintain an optimistic mindset.

2. Constantly do new things and constantly transform yourself.

3. Make new friends and learn new things.

Go forward, have a healthy mentality, even if the competition is fierce, always feel that there is not enough time, and will not let yourself be in anxiety, get out of loneliness on your own!