Why don t people like to talk about feelings nowadays?

Now people's values are based on money, so they are too snobbish, and compared with the friendship of people in the past, people's friendship is too perfunctory now, and now the social pressure is high, so naturally I don't like too many feelings.

Nowadays, people actually like to talk about feelings. It's just that this society makes people. Many people have a great pursuit of life. But if you want to pursue life, then in terms of feelings, you choose to give up somewhat, and over time, this kind of downplaying feelings has been formed.

Because life is too stressful now, and the pace of life is also very fast. Many girls get married, and they ask for a lot of bride price, and the divorce rate is also very high after marriage.

For example, if people who are doing business now, if they have feelings with their customers, then the business will be very difficult, so the interests of both parties will be damaged, so some people try to do business, and never integrate their feelings in the company, so such a person will not easily talk to others about feelings, because he feels that feelings will damage his own interests and make himself less successful.

Nowadays, more and more people choose to be single and not fall in love. I think the main reason for this situation is that there is too much pressure at work and too much pressure on life. On the one hand, there is no time to fall in love, and on the other hand, there is no energy and no financial foundation to fall in love.

In short, when it comes to feelings, it means that one person's affairs become two people, there are advantages and disadvantages, the efficiency of work is high or low, one person can solve it, well, probably there is no need for two people, and I am not afraid of loneliness anyway. By the way, shopping alone, eating hot pot, watching movies and going to the supermarket has never been as miserable as others say As long as you have money, it will be very cool!

I once had no hesitation for love, and I lost too much of what I had for this road. When I was gone, I began to think about how the script of my life would change if I started all over again, and I might have a job that was not very rich, but stable and ordinary, and we would see each other into marriage.

In love, some people don't want to believe that the other party will change their minds, just like Fang Weishi in the play "The Year in a Hurry", when he saw Chen Xun give up on himself, he was always unwilling to believe that the other party didn't like him anymore. The most impressive thing is that her friend on the side comforted her not to be so sad, because people always change, and Fang Wei's is very painful, "No, I haven't changed, why has he changed." Although this is something that people who are deeply in love, or abandoned in love, can't believe and don't want to believe, feelings can go from liking to disliking, and in the same way, feelings can go from dislike to liking.

It may be that our dislike of a person is just an initial impression, or it may be that we have a prejudice against a certain person, but if we get to know each other slowly, we may find that the other person is the type we like and is willing to continue to get along.

Moved by the other party, we know that the beginning of love generally must be one person chasing another person, and two people can finally come together, that is, the person being chased is slowly moved by the other party, willing to accept the other party's like, and willing to like each other.

Favorability is slowly accumulated, everything should be seen from the perspective of development, a person I don't like gave me a candy on the first day, I will not hate him so much, this is also a favorability accumulation, but if I am given a candy every day, my favorability towards him will also accumulate to like him. So disliking to liking is such a process.

The above is a personal point of view, in fact, if you choose from a person you love and someone who loves you, I believe that many people are willing to choose the person who loves you, because we will slowly accept the other party's goodness, and when we find out the other party's true feelings for ourselves, we will also accept this person. Do you think feelings can go from dislike to liking? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

Yes, feelings can be cultivated, starting with friends and slowly turning into likes, time is a good proof.

Yes, many people don't like it from the beginning, and then like it, at the beginning, when one party chases the other, they may not like each other, but under the slow touch of the other party, they also begin to realize his goodness, and they will slowly like it.

Yes, the relationship is a cultivation process from scratch, as long as you have a deep understanding of each other and find each other's shining points, you can go from dislike to like.

OK. If you can't feel feelings at a glance, or don't like his habits. In the long time together, other advantages will also attract another person, and slowly there will be dislikes to likes.

Yes, if two people get along for a long time, they will find the shining points in each other, and each other will become each other's habits, and slowly develop feelings, you can go from disliking to liking.

Feelings from dislike to like, it is still very difficult, after all, if the first impression is not very good, it is very difficult to change, people have to have a prejudice in their hearts is like a mountain, it is difficult to pull away, unless there is something, suddenly impress him to make him to you, it is possible.

Feelings are indeed like this, because feelings need to be cultivated step by step, you may not know each other at first and don't like each other, but after a long time, you find that the other party is a little bit possible, and you like to be with each other.

I think it's okay, but it takes many days for the location and conditions to make something happen to you to make you together, and what makes this condition happen is the active pursuit.

This is a verification of a sentence called long-term love, we can go from the usual simple chat, from the beginning of the dislike to the later like, this is possible, after all, there are miracles in this world.

Yes, there is a word called love over time, so be brave and chase the girl you like.

It is not easy to go from disliking to liking, it takes time to change one's perception of one's person, and it is relatively easy to go from nothing to liking.

We see that many people are reluctant to talk about feelings now, in fact, for many people, they know that love is happy, and it is very sweet. If you can meet someone you like, I believe that for many people, they think that this kind of love is more happy and sweet.

Therefore, many people meet people they like, they are very positive and proactive, and hope that they can have a beautiful love through their own initiative and initiative.

Although love is happy and very beautiful, we still see that there are many people now, and they don't want to fall in love, so some people want to know why.

We see some people who are reluctant to talk about feelings because they themselves are not that good themselves. We know that if we are not so good ourselves, it is impossible to have love, so many people are very positive and very proactive. They will study hard and work hard, because they know that only in this way will they be more excellent, and only when they are more excellent, will they be able to have a good relationship.

Of course, we see that for more people, the reason why they are reluctant to talk about feelings is because many people are very realistic in love now, especially some girls, who will always put forward some very high requirements for boys. They require men to have good jobs and families, and they also require boys to have cars and houses. And it is also required that boys can continue to care for and take care of girls, only in this way that girls are willing to be with boys.

But we see that there are actually a lot of boys, although they want to be with girls, but because they can't meet the requirements of girls, they can only be single.

So we see that there are indeed a lot of people now, they are not willing to fall in love, in fact, they are not unwilling to fall in love, but because they themselves are not so good, or because many girls are very realistic in love, so they have no way to fall in love.

But despite this, we see that there are still many people who still believe in love very much, and they themselves are very positive and hardworking. We believe that through our own enthusiasm and hard work, we will definitely make them better. I believe that it is on the basis of their active efforts that they will not be disturbed, so that they will be able to find a suitable person for themselves, which will eventually allow them to have a happier and better relationship.

Because I don't want to settle. I once saw such a passage, I was reluctant to touch those bodies I didn't like, to respond to those words and phrases that I didn't feel, to embrace those souls that I had never been touched by my heart.

There was a time when a boy chased me, and his style was very different, because I was a person who was not good at talking, and he would be cold when he talked, but he wouldn't, he would always find all kinds of interesting topics to make me happy, and the chat would never be cold, no matter how embarrassing I said, they didn't mind at all, and in the eyes of others, it seemed impeccable.

But later, I still rejected his confession. Someone asked why, and I said, "It's not suitable, isn't it really suitable?" In fact, it's appropriate, good at discovering my emotions, chatting never embarrassment me, replying to a message is always the end of him, even if I reply with a um, he will send an emoji.

Still, I wasn't with him. I look forward to love, and sometimes I wonder when those sweet loves will come to me.

However, I still don't want to, I don't want to, I don't feel anything, I don't want to call for blindness, if it's not someone I'm willing to give everything for, I'd rather be alone.

Because the relationship is not long-lasting now, some people break up after seven or eight years, and some also break up for the bride price, so it is better to be at ease alone.

It's not so much that I don't like it, but I have a fear of falling in love. First of all, people nowadays are flooded with various TV dramas and entertainment gossip, or have been hurt in their relationships, and most of them have a state of doubt about their view of love. Secondly, most of the current love models require a lot of energy and money, and many young people in society just take care of themselves and have to do their best.

Most responsible guys want to have a certain foundation so that they don't stretch themselves out on dates. And most girls also have the ability to live a good life, so they don't think that falling in love is a matter of fate.

It's not that we don't want to fall in love, it's just that most of us don't want to settle. And there are so few people who happen to be suitable. The most overwhelming conclusion is that a person is very good, so everyone has formed such a tacit understanding.

For young people who have just graduated, it would be nice for them to be able to support themselves, not by their families. It's embarrassing to cause another person and yourself to suffer, as long as you have a little sense of responsibility, you will think so.

In fact, the single life is also very good, you don't need someone to take care of you every day, you can do whatever you want, and the whole family will not be hungry if you are fed alone.

It's good to do what you like, as long as you get better, the other half you choose will not be bad one day in the future!

Some people choose not to fall in love for a variety of reasons, perhaps because of work pressure, family responsibilities, personal philosophies, and more. These reasons are subjective choices of individuals and need to be respected and understood. However, for those who wish to fall in love but have not been able to find the right person, a positive attitude and action should be taken to find and attract the right person.

Finding the right person is not an easy task, and it takes some active trial and effort on the part of pure Danqi. You can increase your social circle and opportunities by participating in social events, joining interest groups, and through social networking platforms. At the same time, you can also attract more people by improving your social skills and creating a positive image and attitude.

Of course, waiting is also an option. Waiting for the right person to show up may take time and patience, but just waiting is not the best option. Sometimes, people need to be proactive in finding and attracting the right people instead of waiting.

Because time can change many things, including yourself and the people around you, waiting may miss many opportunities.

In the end, finding the right person isn't the most important thing, it's more important to build and maintain a healthy, stable relationship. A healthy and stable relationship requires mutual respect, understanding and support, as well as the efforts and dedication of both parties. Therefore, even if you find the right person, you need to work hard and give in the relationship to build a stable and healthy relationship.

In conclusion, not falling in love is a personal choice that requires respect and understanding. However, if you wish to fall in love, you should take positive attitudes and actions to find and attract the right person. Waiting is also an option, but you need to be aware of the change of time and the loss of opportunities.

The bottom line is that finding the right person is just the beginning, and building and maintaining a healthy, stable relationship is the most important thing.