What do you call it? What do you call that?

Ru, Er, Ruo, Nai, Jun, Your Excellency (Old Chinese);

Donor (religion), you (honorific), you (English), Qi (Mongolian), Anatawa (Japanese), as well as dialects, hometown dialects, minority foreign languages, and many more.

1. To choose a person is to choose a life. First of all, you must understand what kind of life you want, what kind of life you want to live, and then see if your other half meets your requirements and can give you the life you want now or in the future.

2. China is a traditional country after all, and your lover had better have the same hobbies as you, or have the same degree of open-mindedness, otherwise, life will be very troublesome in the future.

3. Marriage is definitely not a matter of two people, it is very important to be the right person. Don't believe in fairy tales about Cinderella or the Prince of Dark Horses. Life is all about communicating, communicating with your lover, communicating with your lover's loved ones.

If you don't have the same family background, you often can't get empathy, few people can really seek common ground while reserving differences, and quarrels are very hurtful.

4. As a daughter-in-law, you must always understand that a son always wants his mother; As husbands, please also understand that parents cannot choose, but wives are chosen by themselves, and they are responsible for the people they choose, and they are also responsible for themselves.

5. The quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is definitely related to being a son. The son is strong, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be polite, but it is easy to unite; The son is cowardly, the mother likes to come forward to protect, the daughter-in-law is often wronged, complaining to the husband, the husband is unable to solve it, can only have more headaches, and the mother will hate the daughter-in-law even more when she sees her son depressed.

6. If a husband and wife quarrel, don't involve both parents, once involved, it will force both husband and wife to the point of no return.

7. If you are unmarried, girls, instead of asking your parents to buy furniture and appliances for decoration, it is better to pay a down payment on the house. Because furniture, household appliances, and cars are all consumer goods, which are depreciating every day, and houses are appreciating. In case they are separated in the future, they will not be old and yellow, and they will have nothing.

8. Both husband and wife should have common life goals and life pursuits. If one party wants to settle for the status quo and the other wants a better quality of life, then one of you must be able to compromise.

9. If you are married, please remember that you are a woman first, love yourself a little more, don't think that we have a good relationship, even if you are divorced, he will talk about conscience, my fact is that men often have no conscience. Please be sure to maintain an independent personality, work hard, and be able to support and love yourself. I think that for your family, your personal career is more worthy of your reliance.